1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,640 I don't know, the budget has gone completely bad after the wedding 2 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:08,920 So you must be giving money to Kashf after the wedding 3 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:13,760 Yes, but I don't give as much as I should. Why? Should I say no? 4 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:19,920 I told you not to say no. But don't say no so openly. 5 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:22,560 It's possible that she is passing on her family 6 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,760 No mother, Kashf is not such a girl 7 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:27,720 That she is taking money from me and giving it to her family. 8 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:30,320 Besides, who is there in her family? Is there any problem? 9 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:33,000 No, there is no problem 10 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:35,680 Then what is the problem? Why don't you take the money? 11 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:37,600 I will not take money from you 12 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:44,720 I heard about your mother in the morning and now I have heard about you 13 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:49,800 And this is the proof of my commitment to this relation, whether there are any rules or not 14 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:53,120 How can I respect her respect, mother? 15 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:57,280 She thinks that I take money from her son and give it to you 16 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:00,480 Mother, she thinks I am a thief 17 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:06,800 Good news. I just reached the office so I got to know that you have been transferred to Islamabad 18 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:12,360 You are joking. How can it be so soon? And I didn't even get any orders 19 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:14,440 Oh, the orders will also come by tomorrow 20 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:16,800 Congratulations, I have heard that you are married 21 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:20,280 Yes, thank you 22 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:25,360 I am still surprised 23 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:26,960 Why? 24 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:32,880 I didn't know that you would marry a girl like Kashf 25 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:34,720 What is your husband like? 26 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:37,920 This was not the answer to my question 27 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:40,080 Then you can think of it as the same answer 28 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:50,600 Hello! 29 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:52,000 Where are you? 30 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:55,120 I am going home 31 00:01:57,240 --> 00:01:57,960 What happened? 32 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:00,240 What do you mean? Nothing 33 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:01,760 You look tired 34 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:04,480 Your voice is weird 35 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:06,280 It seems as if you are worried 36 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:08,640 No, I am not worried. I am alright 37 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:10,080 Fine 38 00:02:11,640 --> 00:02:13,200 Call me when you reach home 39 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:14,040 Okay 40 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:16,280 Bye 41 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:26,120 What a strange thing. Now she has begun to judge my tone 42 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:30,200 Wives are also strange creatures in this world 43 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:43,880 I have been waiting for you for a long time 44 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,200 I have been waiting for you for a long time 45 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:48,600 I have been waiting for you for a long time 46 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:50,840 I have been waiting for you for a long time 47 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:54,400 Sister has been wanting to come to your house for a long time 48 00:02:55,920 --> 00:02:59,280 First of all, I was always busy with some household chores 49 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:02,320 And I didn't have the courage to do so 50 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:05,480 What is there to be courageous about? 51 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:07,360 This is your own house 52 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:09,920 Even I was saying the same thing to mother 53 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:12,880 Mother, I was saying the same thing to you 54 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:16,080 You know aunty makes very interesting kebabs 55 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:20,920 This is your greatness 56 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:26,640 How are Duba and Tanzeela? 57 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:29,080 They are fine. They are both uncle's 58 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:29,640 Absolutely? 59 00:03:29,640 --> 00:03:30,120 Yes 60 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:37,080 Duba has done his BA 61 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:38,960 So he doesn't have to study further 62 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:44,320 I would like to study further but… 63 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:50,520 First of all, he is a little weak in studies and… 64 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:54,080 He doesn't like it 65 00:03:56,320 --> 00:04:03,080 She just wants to get married to him as soon as possible like Sidra and Kashf 66 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:04,480 Yes, yes 67 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:05,920 Why not? 68 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:10,280 God will make a home for your daughters too 69 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:14,600 Hey sister, where are my daughters? 70 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:17,440 These are also your daughters 71 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:20,840 Just like Kashf and Sidra, they are my daughters 72 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:25,160 In fact, I have even told Hammad's father 73 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,680 Sister is the elder of this house and he will make all the decisions 74 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:29,800 He will do whatever he wants to do 75 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:31,440 Marriage, marriage, everything 76 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:37,800 They are your daughters 77 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:44,400 It is better for you people to make such big decisions in life 78 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:49,040 Sister, you are too educated 79 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:51,320 You are too sensible 80 00:04:52,840 --> 00:04:56,360 Whatever decision you make, you will do it better 81 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:03,240 And then you know, we have always been convinced by closing our eyes on everything you say 82 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:04,240 You are right 83 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:09,080 Here you go 84 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:22,520 Kashf called today 85 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:25,640 She was telling me that she has posted this news 86 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:29,280 Yes, Darun called me 87 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:30,800 It is good 88 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:34,960 Look, if husband and wife are standing separately, problems would have arisen 89 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,800 You have to make sacrifices to make a career 90 00:05:40,280 --> 00:05:44,200 By the way, Kashf is a good girl 91 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:45,000 Yes 92 00:05:46,280 --> 00:05:49,640 She is of a good nature and calls me regularly 93 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:53,440 Yes, she is a responsible girl 94 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:56,240 It is good 95 00:05:58,480 --> 00:05:59,640 I will call Darun 96 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:03,520 You are such an unfaithful man 97 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:06,720 You got married but you don't pick up the phone, you don't read the messages 98 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:08,960 Did anyone tell you to be a slave to your wife? 99 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:11,960 Now don't think of everyone as your own 100 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:12,960 What do you mean? 101 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:15,520 I and Farmer Bardaar can never be like that 102 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:17,320 You know I think it is a man's word 103 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:20,520 Anyway, stop being rude and tell me how is sister in law? 104 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:21,960 She is fine 105 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:25,040 She has gone off to UK to visit her parents 106 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:26,960 She will be back soon 107 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:29,200 Tell me, where is Kashf? 108 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:30,240 Kashf? 109 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:31,600 Kashf? 110 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:34,680 She is coming to Islamabad, I have got her posted 111 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:36,400 This is good 112 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:37,840 How is she? 113 00:06:37,840 --> 00:06:38,840 She is the same 114 00:06:38,840 --> 00:06:40,000 You mean, good? 115 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:41,400 Not good, very good 116 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:46,040 I don't give you such taunts of being a slave to your wife 117 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:50,120 Well, Kashf has the ability to make anyone a slave 118 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:51,440 Yes, I know that 119 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:56,040 Yes, and I also know that you were Kashf's only servant a long time ago 120 00:06:57,280 --> 00:06:58,480 I am still Kashf 121 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:00,920 But now we don't talk about it 122 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:04,520 It seems like you have put a lot of restrictions on her 123 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:08,840 I will put restrictions on her, to talk to you 124 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:11,040 What nonsense are you talking about? 125 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:13,640 I don't know 126 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,320 I thought maybe there must be some issue 127 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:21,360 I mean, she had told you what happened, right? 128 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:25,080 Yes, she had told me 129 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:27,360 But I have no problem 130 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:29,000 I am that liberal 131 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:30,200 Thank God for that 132 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:34,280 Otherwise I was thinking, that the more narrow minded you are, 133 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:37,600 when you will come to know that I have proposed to her, 134 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:40,760 then you would actually stop her from talking to me 135 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:43,680 And you know what, that is why I didn't call you 136 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:50,840 Anyways, you listen to me 137 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:52,640 How is she going? 138 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:54,600 Is she coming back to sister in law? 139 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:55,800 She is coming back soon 140 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:57,320 There is a party then 141 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:00,120 Eat your food, it will get cold 142 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:07,000 It has been a year since Ufran's divorce, mummy 143 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:09,600 She doesn't have a child or anything 144 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:13,960 Sara, you have worried me 145 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:15,640 Why? 146 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:18,240 What is there to worry about? 147 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:22,640 Sara, I agree that Ufran's parents live in America 148 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:25,000 But they are very conservative 149 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:27,320 They must be, mummy 150 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:30,840 But I don't think that there will be any issue between Ufran and me 151 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:33,160 I know him since fifteen years 152 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:35,440 We were together in school and college 153 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:37,200 He is a good boy 154 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:39,280 When did I say that he is a bad boy? 155 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:42,880 But still you think that he is mismatched for me 156 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:45,520 Yes Sara, I think he is mismatched 157 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:50,400 Because I know your character very well 158 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:54,280 There is a difference between your and Ufran's character 159 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:56,960 I know 160 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:02,040 But I will try to change my character, mummy 161 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:05,480 You will try to change it? 162 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:08,680 Do you think that everything is so easy? 163 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:11,480 No mummy 164 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:14,280 It is not easy 165 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:16,720 But it is not impossible either 166 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:20,800 You have to make adjustments and compromises in marriage 167 00:09:21,560 --> 00:09:24,200 At least this is what I have learned from my first experience 168 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:29,360 Compromises should be done by both parties 169 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:31,160 Otherwise it won't work 170 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:32,960 No Sara 171 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:38,680 Whatever happened with Farhan, it was all Farhan's fault, not yours 172 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:41,080 No mummy 173 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:43,440 It was my fault too 174 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:46,400 What mistake are you talking about? 175 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:50,920 I am not talking about any one mistake 176 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:53,960 I have made a lot of mistakes 177 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:58,840 I think I have taken the marriage like relationship very lightly 178 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:01,720 And I have taken my husband more casually 179 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:05,960 I have given myself more importance 180 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:08,920 And I have kept my likes and dislikes ahead of everyone 181 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:11,480 I haven't thought about it at all 182 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:15,960 But 183 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:19,720 Not everyone is a dad, mummy 184 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:21,880 What do you mean? 185 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:24,320 What are you trying to say? 186 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:28,040 Your dad and I are very happy 187 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:31,520 In fact, we have a perfect ideal relationship 188 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:34,240 No mummy 189 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:37,520 This is your misunderstanding 190 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:45,120 So this is our house 191 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:47,200 It is clean 192 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:49,360 It is beautiful too 193 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:53,160 Did you buy all these paintings from here? 194 00:10:56,800 --> 00:10:57,480 No 195 00:10:59,680 --> 00:11:01,120 I bought them from a lot of Karachi too 196 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:05,160 What happened? 197 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:09,920 Is everything fine at the office? 198 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:13,720 Yes 199 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:17,960 Then why are you so quiet? 200 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:19,760 I am not quiet 201 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:21,680 I think so 202 00:11:21,680 --> 00:11:22,560 What is the matter? 203 00:11:25,680 --> 00:11:26,760 You are looking wrong 204 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:29,040 Will you have some peanuts? 205 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:32,400 No thanks 206 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:35,240 You used to eat it with a lot of passion 207 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:37,520 You made me go crazy by feeding me 208 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:39,480 It was different before 209 00:11:42,560 --> 00:11:44,240 I have done it in a lot of foolishness before 210 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:47,200 Yes, that is true 211 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:51,120 By the way, I was thinking of writing a book on your foolishness 212 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:53,680 I will write a couple of books in my old age 213 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:55,520 You are a very interesting topic 214 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:57,160 You are also a very interesting topic 215 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:00,600 Then you also write a book on me 216 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:01,760 I have not asked you to 217 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:02,840 Why should I? 218 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:05,200 Many people can write a book on you 219 00:12:05,960 --> 00:12:06,760 Many people? Who? 220 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:08,200 You know this better 221 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:10,760 No, I don't know. You tell me 222 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:17,160 Anyways 223 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:21,040 I am very tired 224 00:12:21,680 --> 00:12:24,800 I have a lot of work at the office. I am going to rest 225 00:12:52,680 --> 00:12:56,360 You are not going to Aliya's dinner today? 226 00:12:58,360 --> 00:12:59,080 No 227 00:13:00,680 --> 00:13:02,240 Why? Is everything okay? 228 00:13:03,680 --> 00:13:04,840 I don't feel like going 229 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:05,880 Hmm 230 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:09,960 Junaid, tell me something 231 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:13,000 Go and ask 232 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:14,680 Are you happy with me? 233 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:18,680 What kind of question is this? 234 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:20,440 What kind of question is this? 235 00:13:21,560 --> 00:13:23,960 Whatever the question is, you answer it 236 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:28,120 Why are you sitting here and asking me such a question? 237 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:34,360 Today Sara has told me 238 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:37,680 That you are not happy with me 239 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:38,400 Oh 240 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:40,440 I felt very bad about it 241 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:44,640 But 242 00:13:49,680 --> 00:13:51,200 Why did Sara say this to you? 243 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:52,680 You leave this 244 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:54,840 Answer what I am asking 245 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:56,200 What do you think? 246 00:13:58,680 --> 00:14:02,680 I think that if there was anything like this, you would have said it to me 247 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:06,120 It has been so many years since we got married 248 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:09,680 I think that we have an ideal life 249 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:15,240 We don't have any fight. We have such a good understanding 250 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:17,640 I don't think that you are not happy with me 251 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:21,240 I don't think that any relationship is an ideal relationship 252 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:33,560 This means that Sara was right 253 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:39,040 You are not happy with me 254 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:42,960 This is not about happiness or anger 255 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:45,440 This is not about happiness or anger 256 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:48,160 But we have spent such a good life 257 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:52,440 But I have made the most compromises in spending this good life 258 00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:56,640 You have done very little work in making this relationship good 259 00:14:57,400 --> 00:14:58,560 What are you trying to say? 260 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:02,560 That I don't have any contribution in this marriage? 261 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:03,240 You do have 262 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:06,160 But you don't have as much as you should have 263 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:09,880 I don't believe it 264 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:12,680 You have never said anything like this 265 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:13,480 No 266 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:17,680 I have told you many times 267 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:20,480 But you didn't pay attention 268 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:26,080 And today, even if you are asking, it is because of Sara 269 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:30,280 Junaid, my house has always been my first priority 270 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:31,080 No 271 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:33,080 No Huzoor 272 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:36,280 Your house, your children, your family 273 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:37,280 Your family 274 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:40,280 Your first priority has never been your priority 275 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:44,280 Your first priority has always been your career 276 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:48,080 Which has badly affected all of us 277 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:54,480 There are a lot of chances in life 278 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:58,480 I felt the lack of a wife while you were around 279 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:01,880 In the upbringing of Laroon and Sara 280 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:05,080 I felt the lack of a wife while you were around 281 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:09,080 I tried to make you understand again and again but 282 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:13,080 But you didn't realize it 283 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:38,280 Copyright© OSHO International Foundation 284 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:40,280 www.OSHO.com 285 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:08,280 OSHO is a registered Trademark of OSHO International Foundation 286 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:37,280 Hi Irfaq 287 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:40,280 I'm just reaching the office for a while 288 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:43,280 Okay 289 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:45,280 Okay bye 290 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:47,280 You're ready as well 291 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:48,280 Sit down, I'll get the breakfast ready 292 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:51,280 No, I'm not a servant 293 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:55,280 Okay, I'll come late at night and I'll be back 294 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:56,280 Okay 295 00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:57,280 Okay bye 296 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:58,280 You're ready as well 297 00:17:58,280 --> 00:17:59,280 Sit down, I'll get the breakfast ready 298 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:02,280 No, I'm not a servant 299 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:03,280 Okay 300 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:07,280 Okay, I'll come late at night and 301 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:09,280 Okay, I know you're joining on Monday 302 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:13,280 But if you want to go to the office, I'll send you the driver 303 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:16,280 No, I'll go on Monday 304 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:17,280 I have two days left 305 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:18,280 Okay 306 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:23,280 Amjad 307 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:33,280 Amjad 308 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:56,280 Greetings 309 00:18:57,280 --> 00:18:58,280 You're here 310 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:01,280 You change, I'll serve the food 311 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:03,280 I made your favorite food today 312 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:08,280 I'll change and come 313 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:28,280 I made your favorite food 314 00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:30,280 You should have told me earlier 315 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:32,280 Why did you waste your time? 316 00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:35,280 What's the point of wasting my time? 317 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:38,280 I made your favorite food 318 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:46,280 Are you very tired today? 319 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:49,280 Yes 320 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:54,280 That's why you're so quiet 321 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:56,280 I told you earlier that I'm not that much 322 00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:01,280 You should have told me earlier that I'm not that quiet 323 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,280 Maybe it's because you called me 324 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:09,280 Is everything fine with Zaroor? 325 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:15,280 Yes, everything is fine 326 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:21,280 Will you have it? 327 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:23,280 I'll have it 328 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:29,280 Did you like the food? 329 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:32,280 Yes, it's fine 330 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:37,280 Is everything fine? 331 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:38,280 If it's fine, I'll say it's fine 332 00:20:58,280 --> 00:20:59,280 Thank you 333 00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:29,280 Thanks 334 00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:53,280 What's wrong with you Zaroor? 335 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:55,280 What's the matter? 336 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:57,280 What's the matter when nothing has happened? 337 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:00,280 Something must have happened 338 00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:03,280 I came to your house for the first time 339 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,280 You were happy and excited before I came 340 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:09,280 You didn't even say a word when I came 341 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:12,280 Is this normal? 342 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:13,280 Everything is normal 343 00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:15,280 It's just that I'm your sister 344 00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:19,280 Then why are you upset? 345 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:21,280 Kashif, why would I be upset in front of you? 346 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:24,280 And if I'm upset, then why do you care? 347 00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:25,280 Then why do I care? 348 00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:28,280 I'm asking you if you care 349 00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:30,280 If I didn't care, I wouldn't have said anything 350 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:34,280 Usama met me 351 00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:36,280 So? 352 00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:39,280 So why didn't you tell me earlier that Usama proposed to you before me? 353 00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:41,280 So that's why you're upset 354 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:47,280 If you're upset because of this, then I'm very upset Zaroor 355 00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:51,280 There's nothing in this that can make you upset 356 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:53,280 Kashif, this is nothing in front of you 357 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:56,280 Tell me Zaroor 358 00:22:57,280 --> 00:22:59,280 How can this be important for you? 359 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:01,280 You should have told me 360 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:07,280 So you want me to tell you about my every proposal? 361 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:11,280 And then I should ask you to tell me about your proposals? 362 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,280 Who does this after marriage? 363 00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:15,280 Kashif 364 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:18,280 I'm not talking about other people, I'm talking about Usama 365 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:20,280 Zaroor, Usama was just a proposal for me and nothing else 366 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:22,280 Then you could have told me 367 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:29,280 If there was anything to keep a secret in this, then Usama wouldn't have told you 368 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:32,280 Or I would have told him not to tell you 369 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:38,280 If we had a purpose to hide something, then we would have hidden it, it wasn't a difficult task 370 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:48,280 Still 371 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:50,280 Fine 372 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,280 But I won't give you an excuse for this 373 00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:58,280 Zaroor, Usama proposed me and I rejected him 374 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:02,280 If I had any interest in him, then I would have married him 375 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:07,280 If you want to make this an issue, then I can't do anything 376 00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:25,280 So 377 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:46,280 So this is a new problem that I have to face 378 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:50,280 Sitting here, he has doubts on me 379 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:53,280 And now I have to give him excuses 380 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,320 which is the most difficult task of the world for a girl like me. 381 00:24:59,120 --> 00:25:02,680 Whatever I try to do to strengthen this relationship, 382 00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:09,160 something or the other happens to her that I come there and stand up again. 383 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:21,840 Hamza? 384 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:25,760 Greetings sir. 385 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:27,080 Greetings. 386 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:28,080 Sir, have breakfast. 387 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:31,040 Hmm, where is Kashf? 388 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:32,040 She has gone to the office. 389 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:34,440 On Sunday? 390 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:35,040 Yes. 391 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:37,680 Did you tell her to come back? 392 00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:38,240 No. 393 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,000 Okay listen, iron my clothes. 394 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:43,640 Okay. 395 00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:25,120 Hello? 396 00:26:25,120 --> 00:26:28,280 Yes, Zaroor you were sleeping in the morning so I left without telling you. 397 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,080 Actually I got a call from the office early in the morning. 398 00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:33,400 They had arranged a surprise tea party for me. 399 00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:39,640 Kashf, if you can go without telling me on the day of the holiday then don't expect me to hide anything from you. 400 00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:43,320 But I had to go Zaroor and you were sleeping in the morning. 401 00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:44,600 I don't care Kashf. 402 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,080 Everyone has work and I have a lot of work as well. 403 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,920 And if I was at home then you would have to go to my office early in the morning. 404 00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:51,920 I don't care. 405 00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:55,920 And if I was at home then you should have been more concerned about me than about a welcome party. 406 00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:00,240 But actually you wanted to get rid of me so you made an excuse and ran away. 407 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:02,920 Are you getting rid of me or me? 408 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,040 How can you even think like that? 409 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,600 I can think like that because I am not a fool. 410 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,440 Then think whatever you want to think. 411 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:23,600 Hello, greetings. 412 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:24,960 Greetings sir. 413 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:25,960 How are you? 414 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:27,640 I am fine. 415 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:29,240 How are you Kashf? 416 00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:30,360 I am fine. 417 00:27:30,360 --> 00:27:33,360 I just got a missed call from you so I am replying to that. 418 00:27:33,360 --> 00:27:41,200 Yes Kashf, I called you because a group of students wants to visit the interior sin. 419 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:43,200 If you could please coordinate it. 420 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:44,600 Yes, I will definitely get it done. 421 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:47,480 You just tell me the areas and dates and I will get it done. 422 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:48,480 Not a problem. 423 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:49,960 Thank you. 424 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:52,040 Please sir, don't embarrass me now. 425 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:53,880 And how is Zaroor? 426 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,840 He has disappeared since he got married. 427 00:27:57,320 --> 00:27:58,840 Just don't ask about him now. 428 00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:01,840 He is nothing but a headache to me these days. 429 00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:04,560 Why? What happened? 430 00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:11,720 Usama called me once so I talked to him and when he didn't tell Zaroor then he… 431 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:16,200 You know how Zaroor's temperament is so because of him something… 432 00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:21,360 …should happen. 433 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:25,640 Hello there. 434 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:26,360 Greetings sir. 435 00:28:26,360 --> 00:28:27,320 Greetings to you. 436 00:28:28,360 --> 00:28:29,080 How are you? 437 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:30,320 I am fine. 438 00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:31,560 How are you? 439 00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:32,840 I am fine. 440 00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:34,880 I just got a little busy a few days ago. 441 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:36,320 I have many things to do. 442 00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:37,320 I couldn't call you. 443 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:39,040 Twelve days ago I placed the text. 444 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:41,320 I didn't complain to you at all. 445 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:44,320 Yes, I know you did not complain but I thought about telling you. 446 00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:45,840 And can I hear from you? 447 00:28:46,140 --> 00:28:46,900 How is Auntie? 448 00:28:46,900 --> 00:28:47,900 How is Aunty? 449 00:28:48,900 --> 00:28:51,900 She is also stylish, beautiful and doesn't care about us. 450 00:28:52,900 --> 00:28:54,900 Yes, your pain and dad's pain are the same. 451 00:28:56,900 --> 00:28:59,900 Zaroor, what is happening between you and Kashf these days? 452 00:29:01,900 --> 00:29:02,900 Between me and Kashf? 453 00:29:04,900 --> 00:29:05,900 Is everything fine? Why? 454 00:29:06,900 --> 00:29:08,900 Not so much. I talked to Kashf. 455 00:29:10,900 --> 00:29:11,900 And what did she say to you? 456 00:29:12,900 --> 00:29:14,900 I didn't think you were such a fool, Zaroor. 457 00:29:14,900 --> 00:29:16,900 You have become like a child. 458 00:29:17,900 --> 00:29:22,900 Grow up boy, I couldn't expect such a foolish thought and words from you. 459 00:29:23,900 --> 00:29:27,900 How can you fall into such nonsense doubts and jealousies? 460 00:29:45,900 --> 00:29:46,900 Did you call sir for dinner? 461 00:29:47,900 --> 00:29:49,900 I called him but madam, he refused. 462 00:29:50,900 --> 00:29:51,900 Okay. 463 00:30:14,900 --> 00:30:15,900 Hmm. 464 00:30:44,900 --> 00:30:45,900 Ghoofran is a good boy. 465 00:30:46,900 --> 00:30:52,900 It's a different thing that I haven't met him since many years but my opinion about him has always been good. 466 00:30:53,900 --> 00:30:55,900 If he is interested in marrying you then I think you should go for it. 467 00:30:57,900 --> 00:31:04,900 Zaroor, do you really think that we will be able to live a good life together? 468 00:31:05,900 --> 00:31:06,900 Yes, why? 469 00:31:07,900 --> 00:31:08,900 Do you have any doubt? 470 00:31:10,900 --> 00:31:12,900 Mummy has confused me so much. 471 00:31:13,900 --> 00:31:14,900 Did you talk to dad? 472 00:31:16,900 --> 00:31:17,900 No, not yet. 473 00:31:18,900 --> 00:31:20,900 Dad doesn't know Ghoofran very well. 474 00:31:21,900 --> 00:31:26,900 If I talk to him then he will either talk to mummy or ask you. 475 00:31:27,900 --> 00:31:28,900 That's why I thought that I should talk to you first. 476 00:31:29,900 --> 00:31:30,900 Hmm. 477 00:31:32,900 --> 00:31:33,900 But what is your mother's objection? 478 00:31:33,900 --> 00:31:34,900 What is her objection? 479 00:31:35,900 --> 00:31:42,900 She thinks that Ghoofran is very conservative, her family values are very typical etc. 480 00:31:43,900 --> 00:31:44,900 Yes, she is. 481 00:31:45,900 --> 00:31:46,900 She is very conservative. 482 00:31:48,900 --> 00:31:52,900 Why do you people think that I can't adjust in a conservative set up? 483 00:31:53,900 --> 00:31:54,900 You can. 484 00:31:55,900 --> 00:32:03,900 Obviously Zaroor, if I wasn't ready to compromise in any way then why would I think of getting married again? 485 00:32:04,900 --> 00:32:05,900 And that too with Ghoofran. 486 00:32:08,900 --> 00:32:15,900 Look Sara, the decision to get married for the second time should be taken more carefully than the first time. 487 00:32:16,900 --> 00:32:17,900 I know. 488 00:32:18,900 --> 00:32:23,900 That's why I am talking to all of you instead of making a decision on my own. 489 00:32:24,900 --> 00:32:25,900 That's a good thing to do. 490 00:32:26,900 --> 00:32:27,900 It is also very difficult. 491 00:32:28,900 --> 00:32:31,900 Okay fine, you talk to dad, I will talk to mummy. 492 00:32:32,900 --> 00:32:33,900 Thanks. 493 00:32:34,900 --> 00:32:35,900 How is Kashf? 494 00:32:36,900 --> 00:32:37,900 Kashf? 495 00:32:39,900 --> 00:32:40,900 She will be fine. 496 00:32:40,900 --> 00:32:41,900 She will be fine? 497 00:32:41,900 --> 00:32:42,900 What does that mean? 498 00:32:43,900 --> 00:32:44,900 Nothing. 499 00:32:46,900 --> 00:32:48,900 Zaroor, did you have a fight with her? 500 00:32:48,900 --> 00:32:49,900 No. 501 00:32:50,900 --> 00:32:52,900 I thought that maybe… 502 00:32:53,900 --> 00:32:54,900 I thought everything was wrong. 503 00:32:55,900 --> 00:33:00,900 Zaroor, please don't repeat my mistakes with her. 504 00:33:02,900 --> 00:33:03,900 Please. 505 00:33:04,900 --> 00:33:06,900 Okay fine, we will talk later, I will leave now. 506 00:33:06,900 --> 00:33:07,900 I will leave now, okay? 507 00:33:13,900 --> 00:33:18,900 Thank God son, that you have been blessed with a childlike blessing. 508 00:33:20,900 --> 00:33:21,900 Childlike or like a son? 509 00:33:22,900 --> 00:33:25,900 What difference does it make whether it is a son or a daughter? 510 00:33:26,900 --> 00:33:31,900 A child should be pious, obedient and healthy. 511 00:33:32,900 --> 00:33:36,900 My only wish is that you become a mother as soon as possible. 512 00:33:37,900 --> 00:33:41,900 I should first take care of that child who brought me along with the marriage. 513 00:33:43,900 --> 00:33:46,900 Okay mom, I will definitely come to meet Zaroor this week. 514 00:33:46,900 --> 00:33:49,900 You tell me what I should buy for him. 515 00:33:49,900 --> 00:33:53,900 Okay son, live long and always be happy. 516 00:33:54,900 --> 00:33:55,900 Good bye. 517 00:33:58,900 --> 00:33:59,900 Oh God! 518 00:34:01,900 --> 00:34:02,900 What have I done? 519 00:34:04,900 --> 00:34:06,900 If Ghoofran's parents want to come, then call them. 520 00:34:07,900 --> 00:34:08,900 Your dad and I will meet them. 521 00:34:10,900 --> 00:34:11,900 Dad has already told me. 522 00:34:15,900 --> 00:34:19,900 I sometimes think that parents make a mistake in making children independent. 523 00:34:23,900 --> 00:34:24,900 Why did you think of this? 524 00:34:26,900 --> 00:34:30,900 I thought of this because children make their own decisions. 525 00:34:31,900 --> 00:34:35,900 But when something goes wrong, parents blame them. 526 00:34:36,900 --> 00:34:40,900 Then it would be better if parents make all the big decisions. 527 00:34:42,900 --> 00:34:46,900 Mom, I have never made you responsible for any of my decisions. 528 00:34:49,900 --> 00:34:57,900 But I do think that maybe you have missed some values in our upbringing. 529 00:35:01,900 --> 00:35:06,900 Sara, when you talk about Isra, you hurt me a lot. 530 00:35:07,900 --> 00:35:08,900 You really hurt me. 531 00:35:09,900 --> 00:35:14,900 I don't want to hurt you mom. I am sharing my pain with you. 532 00:35:16,900 --> 00:35:20,900 The way I thought it was better, I brought you up. 533 00:35:21,900 --> 00:35:26,900 But I never told you to ignore your husband or your home. 534 00:35:27,900 --> 00:35:30,900 Whatever happened Sara, it was your fault too. 535 00:35:31,900 --> 00:35:34,900 Now don't repeat those mistakes. 536 00:35:40,900 --> 00:35:41,900 You are right. 537 00:36:01,900 --> 00:36:02,900 It's been so many days. 538 00:36:03,900 --> 00:36:05,900 She didn't even try to make me. 539 00:36:07,900 --> 00:36:09,900 As if I don't care for her. 540 00:36:11,900 --> 00:36:14,900 Although if she would have tried to make me, I would have agreed. 541 00:36:16,900 --> 00:36:17,900 She is very stubborn. 542 00:36:31,900 --> 00:36:32,900 She is stubborn. 543 00:36:34,900 --> 00:36:35,900 She is stubborn. 544 00:36:39,900 --> 00:36:40,900 She is stubborn. 545 00:36:51,900 --> 00:36:52,900 She is stubborn. 546 00:36:55,900 --> 00:36:59,900 It's not about being stubborn, it's about principles. 547 00:36:59,900 --> 00:37:06,900 Zaroor will have to keep the same standard for himself and me in some matters. 548 00:37:06,900 --> 00:37:16,900 I did not get married because I wanted to include a person in my life who would judge my every action as God. 549 00:37:16,900 --> 00:37:24,900 For me, this is the reason for the insult that he is doubting me on a stupid thing. 550 00:37:24,900 --> 00:37:29,900 And more than an insult, this is a pain for me. 551 00:37:54,900 --> 00:37:56,900 Thank you for watching this video. 552 00:38:24,900 --> 00:38:26,900 Thank you for watching this video. 553 00:38:54,900 --> 00:38:56,900 Thank you for watching this video.