take it aunty, I'm leaving thank you! I'm leaving
hey, why son? you also stay here, right?
yes, we'll stay here we'll sit & talk in the night
okay, you sit I'll go & change my clothes
oh!
oh! this is a big problem of the light
wait, let me bring the emergency light
one second, one second
take this, take the phone
have you seen the moon?
yes, I'm seeing it
it is in the sky
you can see it only from a distance
yes, I've heard that earlier the moon was in the sky, but since so many days it has shifted on the earth
you...
today, it is sitting in front of me
are you an expert in reading cheesy lines?
take this
keep this
what is this?
what do you mean?
can I read it if I need it?
what do you need it for?
for anything
till now, my salary must have come in my account
then keep it in your salary account
you are my wife
it is my responsibility to take care of you, right?
he is a person's identity, son
that's why, you are his wife
hello!
how are you?
happy?
by the way, I still don't believe that you've spent a night there
well, what's there to be so surprised about?
you haven't been to any such place till now?
yes, last night
and honestly speaking, I've enjoyed a lot
love you!
I'm glad
Kashif
do you talk to your Zaroor's mother, right?
not much
even I'm busy, she is also busy
she doesn't get much chance
when Zaroor talks to her, then sometimes she does
then you should call her yourself
talk to her
in fact, you should talk to everyone, ask their condition
what will happen to her?
the relation will be strong, child
they are upper class people, mom
they have their own social circles, friends, lifestyle
they don't have time to strengthen the relation with the daughter in law who is coming from a lower middle class
they haven't become a part of our family, child
you've become a part of their family
that's why, you should have time for them
in fact, you should have a lot of time
so, even if she doesn't want to talk to me
I should still call her, talk to her
child, how do you think that they won't talk to you?
they won't want to talk to you
if you will talk to them with love and sincerity
then why they won't want to talk to you? they will surely talk to you
look child, Zaroor is their only son
and his parents are your responsibility
right now, they are living alone, they have their own social circle
their daughter is with them
but, when Sara will become a part of their family
and they will become old, then where will they live?
maybe, they will have to live with you
so child, if you won't get to know about their character & habits
then, it will be very difficult to accept each other, child
?
good evening
fine
I don't know why this house seems so empty today or I have come after a long time so that's why it seems so empty.
Assalamualaikum sir, I have reached safely. Thank you.
I will start from tomorrow. I will tell Raheem.
Yes. Okay. Thank you. Good bye.
Hello, I have reached.
Oh good. Okay, then we will talk. Boarding is going on here. Okay bye.
I think Islamabad must have reached by now but why didn't he tell me?
He should have told me. Should I call and ask myself?
No, why should I ask myself? I called him and told him so he should also call me and tell me.
Madam, should I serve the food?
Yes, serve it.
Okay.
Hmm, it's really nice. Try it.
Zahra, this is just like cheese. Do you want me to become a buffalo?
No, I know that you can't become a buffalo.
Do you believe in this?
I am there to light the fire.
Yes, I haven't thought about it. The more you give me tension, the more I don't want to become a buffalo.
Do you know, every smart woman has a smart husband like Zaroor Junaid.
And every worried woman too.
Hello? Yes, is everything okay? So many phones in one date?
I am fine. Where are you?
I am going out for dinner with some friends.
You didn't even tell me after reaching Islamabad.
Okay, I am with some friends right now. I will call you once I reach home. I will call you later.
There is no need for that. Enjoy your outing.
Okay, bye.
He doesn't care about anything.
When he is in front of me, he shows as if he can't even eat without me.
And now, he is sitting there so comfortably.
Thank you.
Why is the phone switched off?
Why isn't she answering her phone?
There must be something wrong.
Or is she taking revenge for not talking to me?
I don't know.
Hello.
What are you going to do?
Yes?
I have been calling you all night.
Your phone was switched off.
I was sleeping.
And the landline?
Does the landline of sleeping people also stop ringing?
It was ringing.
I can bet you have taken out the phone.
The landline was broken.
I don't believe you.
Are you calling me a liar?
Yes.
This is a very childish way of behaving.
I was getting worried.
You are alone.
I have always been alone.
You don't need to worry.
You are not my watchman.
I am not your watchman.
I am your husband.
Yes.
You are my husband.
You don't remember to inform me after reaching your place.
You don't remember to ask anyone where he is or where he is not.
You do remember your wife to chat with you at night.
So my guess was right, right?
I was upset that you didn't call me at night and didn't ask about your condition.
What happened if I didn't ask?
What is the matter?
You should have asked.
I asked and I told you.
You left with your friends as soon as you reached Islamabad.
Did you care about me?
No Kashif.
Okay fine.
Then why did you need to call me later?
And don't live in this misunderstanding.
I don't care about you either.
I just called in the protocol.
Listen, I am getting late for office and I am driving.
I will call you after you are free from the office at night.
If you don't have the phone.
So please don't take out the landline and don't turn off your cell phone.
Because I will not call you after that.
Then don't do it.
I am not going to die.
Kashif, now you are being rude.
I am just telling the truth.
Fine. Fine.
Disgusting.
Sorry Shadi.
Give the report to sister.
Even if she is not well, she is not well.
I am not her husband.
I am her guard.
If there is no need.
Then she definitely needs to be protected.
I don't understand her.
Sometimes she is so good.
Then sometimes without any reason.
She is so rude.
Shadi is nothing but tension.
You call her files.
I will check.
How long will it take?
It depends on the file.
We are tired of checking.
This is not my fault.
If your files are not complete.
Then I cannot sign on it.
No matter how big your request is.
Madam, even I am trying to make her understand.
But she doesn't listen.
And now this is driving me crazy.
Sorry.
Hello, I am busy.
I miss you a lot.
Why?
Because I love you.
Is there no work at the office?
Yes.
Then do it.
I will do the work.
I just called to tell you this.
Are you feeling down?
Yes, of course.
Then take something for it.
I will take it.
Okay.
Good bye.
Bring her files.
I will see if something is possible.
I will bring it today.
But madam..
Look, we have to serve her our job.
Please bring her files.
Okay madam.
I will see if something is possible.
Thank you madam.
You are welcome.
How is your look?
As it is.
Yes.
Let it be as it is.
Don't let it get better.
You won't even take your medicine.
You are not here.
There is no point in taking medicine.
It's good that I am unwell.
Even if you come to me on this excuse.
Yes, you are unwell.
But don't stay at home.
I know that about you.
You are not here.
I don't like this house without you.
That is why I keep going out.
You have been going out since your university days.
It has nothing to do with anyone else.
It has to do with your habits.
Come to Islamabad once.
I will teach you everything.
It's difficult.
My good habits have become very solid.
Really?
That is very good.
But I don't like it here.
Then where do you like it?
You.
Really?
Yes.
I liked it here as soon as I came here.
There is peace.
There is freedom.
There is peace.
I don't have to carry your wet towel.
Anyway, you don't have this much peace now.
If you had, you wouldn't have gone mad if you didn't call me.
Anyway, there is nothing like that.
Really?
I am feeling sleepy now.
Show me the socket.
It is not difficult to take out the wire and turn off the phone.
You do this and see.
Then I will call your DC and tell him that my wife is in an emergency.
Please send the police to her house.
You will not do this at all.
Don't challenge me.
If you want to do it, then take out the wire and show me.
Really?
I think the time has come to set some rules to avoid misunderstanding.
Rule number one is that if there is a problem or a fight between us,
then we will not stop talking to each other.
Whatever the problem is, whatever the fight is,
we will sit comfortably and talk and solve it.
From marriage till now,
this is probably the first wise thing that I am hearing from you.
If I hadn't set this rule by now,
then I probably wouldn't have talked to you for two more days because of this.
Really?
I was appreciating you.
You keep saying that I never appreciate you.
You don't appreciate me?
I didn't even say this for appreciation.
I just thought about it.
What?
That I will not live without you.
I will get you posted.
So I didn't stop you.
And that I am coming to Karachi this weekend.
Fine.
Will you wait for me?
No.
No?
No.
If you get any work in the meantime and you can't come,
then I will get very upset.
Well, there is one benefit.
What?
This.
That you get upset when I don't come.
You only get the meaning out of what I say,
which you want to hear.
Then you say everything that I want to hear.
What?
That I love you, I miss you,
I get upset without you.
What happened?
Why are you quiet now?
Maybe things are over.
If you were in front of me,
I would have caught you lying immediately.
What do you mean?
I mean that
when I don't get a reply from my wife about something romantic,
then no matter how much you express yourself unemotional,
I get embarrassed with just one sentence.
Not yes?
Yes, yes.
Now wait for me.
And don't you dare say that I will not work in the future.
Okay.
Hello.
Happy birthday.
Thank you so much.
I wanted to call you early,
but I didn't get the time.
I was very busy in the office today.
I had called in the meantime,
but your number was engaged.
Now go and free me.
Oh, forget about it.
I totally understand.
And thank you so much for the lovely present.
How did you know
which is my favorite color?
Did you like it?
Did I like it?
I really liked it, Kashif.
By the way, how did you know when is my birthday?
Of course. You are my only sister.
He keeps talking about you.
Zaroon talks about me.
Does he even remember to talk about me?
I thought he would never think about me.
No, no, not at all.
We often talk about you.
What does he talk about?
He must be doing something bad.
Not at all.
In fact, he tells me stories of your childhood.
He tells me about your good times.
Oh, really?
Yes, that's how it is.
And if that wasn't the case,
I wouldn't have known about your birthday.
Come on, that's really good.
By the way, when is your birthday?
You should ask Zaroon.
What if he remembers?
He won't remember.
He will remember everything.
Come on.
We'll talk later.
Okay.
Take care.
Bye.
It's good to see you.
Come on, if Zaroon comes,
you will also be seen on this pretext.
I'm sure you go to your mother's place,
but you don't stop here.
No, mom.
It's not like that.
My heart really wants me to stay, but…
But I can understand.
There is so much difference in our environment.
Mom, are you sure you feel comfortable
that you feel a little out of place here?
No, mom.
You are so busy with your work.
What if I disturb you?
I am very busy, that's true,
but your coming won't disturb me.
Yes.
Would you like to have something with tea?
No, thank you.
And then?
How are you going to work from the office?
Fine.
I will be in Medin for a few weeks.
You come.
It will be good.
No, it's very hot there
and I can't handle it.
Not used to it.
Zaroon has got the AC's installed.
He can come again.
Be patient.
Assalamualaikum.
When you ring the bell once,
the people inside can hear that someone has come outside.
Okay.
In such cases, the people outside should wait.
Okay.
Aren't you a Sadra of Pakistan
who rings the bell every time?
I didn't know it was you.
Otherwise, I wouldn't have given it to you.
That means if I wasn't at home,
you would have ringed the bell every time
and disturbed mom.
And what's in it?
Mom has made biryani with twelve spices.
She had made it with a new recipe.
She had learned it from Masala TV.
So she sent it to me.
By the way,
you don't need a Masala TV to make your mom use spices.
By the grace of God,
she is already very independent in this matter.
That's why when you come to our house next time,
don't bring such things.
Biryani with twelve spices,
Korma with fourteen spices.
Leave this house and come.
So aunty also sends it.
Really?
What does she send?
When I bring something,
aunty also sends it.
Hammad has come.
Hello aunty.
Hello.
How are you?
How did you come?
Mom sent this biryani.
Okay.
Thank you very much.
Go child,
keep it in the kitchen
and bring the Kheer in the small pot.
Mom,
we don't need their biryani
and neither do they need our Kheer.
Okay,
I told you,
bring it.
Go.
Yes,
I will sit here and eat.
There is no such problem.
Yes,
sure.
Sit.
I'll be right back.
Excuse me.
There is no need to sit here and eat.
Take this home
and eat it at home.
And return the pot.
We don't keep your pots.
We always return it.
Yes,
let's go.
Thank you for your hospitality.
Sure.
Your father gave me this cheque.
Thank you.
Zaroor,
what is the need for such a big amount?
I know mom,
there were only a few dues left to be cleared.
They give you the bill of credit card,
but still your dues are left.
I know.
I don't know,
after marriage,
the budget is completely ruined.
So now after marriage,
you must be giving money to Kashf as well.
Yes,
but I don't give as much as I should.
Why?
Should I refuse?
I told you not to refuse.
But,
don't give it so openly.
It is possible that she is passing on her family.
No mom,
Kashf is not such a girl,
that she would give money to her family.
Besides, who is there in her family?
There is a mother,
a younger sister,
and her mother is very self-sufficient.
She is a self-sufficient woman,
she earns on her own.
I am not doubting her self-sufficiency,
Zaroor.
But,
she is needed.
And,
in such situations,
in such marriages,
many times,
girls,
exploit their husbands financially.
Mom,
you know that I am not a stupid person.
And the second thing is,
if she helps her parents and family,
then I,
I don't think there is something wrong with that.
I encourage her.
It is not a big deal.
And even if she has helped me,
or will help me,
I know she won't exploit me.
She earns on her own.
She will do what is necessary.
I am not saying that her parents don't have a right on her.
I am not saying that she cannot help them either.
But I am just explaining to you that,
I am warning you,
the wedding is just beginning.
It is just the beginning.
If you give her such an open expense,
then she will not value it at all.
Okay.
Alright.
Now please,
get me tea for God's sake.
I have been intercoming your servants since morning.
No one picks up.
Very efficient of them.
If Abdul is gone,
then it is a problem for me.
Now you sit.
I will get it.
And only for you.
You know,
I don't like doing this.
Being in the kitchen.
Why did you bring it?
I should have brought it.
No problem, mom.
I was in the kitchen.
I thought I should bring it.
Thanks.
Okay.
Kashf,
I have kept the money on the cycle bill.
You can take it from there.
Okay?
I don't want the money.
They are mine.
Why?
What happened?
Nothing.
I am happy.
You were fine in the morning.
What happened now?
I was fine in the morning.
I am still fine.
Are you upset?
No, I am not upset.
There is a problem.
Why don't you take the money?
I will not take the money from you.
Did you listen to your mother?
Okay, I am sorry.
Kashf, she is your mother in law.
She will talk like this.
Do it for the sake of patience.
I cannot insult myself for some money.
Then who is insulting you?
I have felt insulted.
And I have apologized.
And I have accepted your apology.
Then?
Then I will not take money from you again.
If I want anything, I will tell you.
You bring it for me yourself.
You bring it for me.
Kashf?
The rule of this relationship is that when we are talking to each other,
we should not go anywhere without listening to each other.
I listened to your mother in the morning
and now I have listened to you.
And this is the proof of my commitment to this relationship,
whether there are any rules or not.
Fine.
I am leaving the money on the side table.
You can take it if you want.
Because that is my responsibility towards you.
Thank you.
I could never even think that mother thinks like this about me.
That I can talk like this to Zarul.
Sister used to say that I should call him daily.
Otherwise I would not have wanted to call him daily.
I would not have wanted to live with him either.
I already knew that whatever I do,
she cannot show any respect towards me.
She is my mother in law.
No one can make her a mother.
When did I ask you to make your mother in law a mother?
You don't even need to make your mother in law a mother.
This is a relationship that only requires respect and respect.
How can I respect her mother?
She thinks that I take money from her son and give it to you.
Mother, she thinks that I am a thief.
No dear.
She doesn't think that you are a thief.
Her problem is that she doesn't even know you.
Look at this.
Look dear,
this is a new relationship.
It will take time to understand each other.
She doesn't know about your habits and anything about you.
Does this mean that she doesn't know about my habits?
You are not like that.
This is what you have to prove.
And besides dear,
she got her son married.
There must not be any good opinion about you.
Who are you?
You are from her class.
Your class and her class have nothing to do with each other.
Besides, every class person has a misunderstanding about another class person.
Shall I tell you something?
After marriage,
the in-laws and the husband say something or the other dear.
This has been happening since forever.
You just have to prove it.
And you have to explain to them that you are not like that.
So should I keep insulting myself?
No dear.
You should be like that.
And don't forget what I have taught you.
Look dear,
Zaroor respects your parents a lot.
You should also respect his parents.
No matter what they say or think dear.
Everything is fine.
She is a very brave daughter.
She is very brave.
You shouldn't say that.
Zaroor heard what he said.
But you know I didn't have such intentions.
And after all, I am your mother.
I also have some concerns.
I can talk to my son.
Yes mom, I can understand.
But she can't understand.
She is new in this house.
Yes, you are right.
But what do you want now?
I can't go and apologize to her.
I got embarrassed.
I didn't understand what to say to her.
You should have explained to her that your mother can't have such a goal.
Yes mom, I did that.
I explained what I could.
By the way frankly,
I am very surprised that she made such a big deal out of such a small thing.
Mom, it's not like that.
She is a very selfless and sensitive girl.
She never asks for money from me for her needs.
And she did the same today.
I gave her money and she left.
By saying that she doesn't need it right now.
She doesn't need it right now.
By the way she met me on her way and left very nicely.
This is her greatness.
She didn't even let you realize it because she respects you.
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Class difference
There is a big difference.
Despite a lot of effort,
it is like a bud growing in the monsoon.
It brings pain there,
where there is no hope.
It hides like a thorn.
But you can't see it.
It hurts like a thorn,
but you can't see it.
I think
a big part of life will pass by making Zaroor's mother believe
that I am from lower middle class,
but not greedy.
I get things by looking at them,
but not by being careless.
Hello?
Yes, Kashf.
Did you reach safely?
Yes.
Okay, good.
Now enjoy your last few days in this house.
What do you mean?
There is good news.
I just reached the office, so I know.
Your Islamabad has been transferred.
You are joking.
How can it be so soon?
And I didn't even get any orders.
Oh, the orders will also come by tomorrow.
Anyway, some inside source has told me.
Aren't you happy?
No, I am happy, but I am shocked.
Okay, then forget your shock and start packing.
Okay?
Okay.
Bye.
Hello?
Hi.
Hello.
Hi.
What a wonderful surprise.
How are you?
How do I look?
I stopped paying attention a long time ago.
Are you still upset with me?
No, I am not upset.
Congratulations. I have heard that you got married.
Yes.
Thank you.
I am still shocked.
Why?
I didn't know that you would get married to a girl like Kashf.
How is your husband?
This wasn't the answer to my question.
Then you can think of this as the answer.
Do you want to grab a cup of coffee?
No, thank you.
Some other time.
Thank you.
I don't think we can be together anymore.
I made a big mistake in recognizing you.
You are my childhood friend.
We were in the same school, college and university.
I couldn't recognize you.
If I call you a male chauvinist,
that will be a term of endearment for you compared to what I think of you.
Asmara, what you are thinking is wrong.
I…
No, Zaroor.
Maybe I am able to understand you for the first time in my life.
You don't need a wife.
You need a puppet.
When I got engaged to you,
you can't imagine what I went through.
You had an objection on everything.
My personality.
The way I used to talk, the way I used to dress,
the way I did,
you couldn't stand that, could you?
You insulted my intelligence.
I can't do this anymore.
I really can't.
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