Have you got an engagement done somewhere?
I have got it done and if you find out where I have gotten it done, your sweat will drop
Why? Now you will say that you have gotten it done with Kashif Murtaza
Why are you asking when you know about it?
Before I turn this around again, it is better that you wear it
You are not a loser, right?
Okay
Kashif, come here
No, yes
The water is not coming
The water is over, I will get it from the bucket
How are you dear?
Brother Zahroon, how many countries have you been to?
How many countries?
A lot
For example?
I have been to about fifteen or twenty
So it has become easy
Come on dear, let's pray
Pray?
If you want, you can pray at home dear
I will pray at the mosque again but what will I do at home?
No, I will not pray at the mosque
Brother Zahroon, why don't you do it first?
No, no, you do it first then I will do it
No, no, you do it first
No, you do it first
No dear, you are elder, he is younger
You will do it first, come
Okay dear
Bye
By the way, Zahroon should have stopped
It's good that he didn't stop
He has so many facilities in his house
How could he have stopped at our house?
He would have stopped himself
Then you should have stopped him
Now I realize that don't try to commit a crime
It's happening, right?
No, it's not happening at all
And why would it happen?
He never stays happy by staying here
Okay, don't try to guess for no reason
I know him
Really?
You really know him?
Stop talking nonsense
I don't know anything these days
Should I call him now?
No
I should wait
Let me see if she misses me or not
Has Zahroon reached home dear?
He must have reached
What do you mean?
Didn't you call him and ask him?
He will call himself when he reaches home
You are his wife
It's your duty to keep him safe and sound
Come on, call him and ask him if he has reached home or not
Okay, I'll do that
It's completely cold
Should I call him now?
Kashf
Hmm?
You look so pretty in these clothes
When I get married, I will get new dresses stitched and wear them
Take mine
No, I won't buy new ones
I will buy them alone
You don't have to come
Is she missing him?
Are you missing her?
Why would I miss her?
We have been together for two days
And I will go back to her in two days
Why would I miss her?
You are such an unromantic girl Kashf
Unfortunately, I am
So
Are you happy?
I don't know
Sometimes I don't know about happiness
Because I don't believe in happiness
Stop talking like that Kashf
You have such a nice family
You have such a nice husband
People are rushing you
And you are still talking about happiness
Actually, I don't trust anything
I am scared of everything that is going to come in my life
Because I think it will end like this
You will believe it
I didn't believe it before
But then it came
There are not only bad times in life
And there are not only bad things
There are also good times after bad days
And there are also bad times
What are you looking at?
I am looking at how beautiful you have become
Hey, give me the bangles
Greetings
Have you left Kashf?
Yes
You came back so early
I thought you wouldn't come late at night
Well, the road was quite long
That's why I thought I should leave early
Take the driver with you next time
It gets very tiring to come and go so much in a day
Okay
Should I serve food?
Food? No
I am full
I already had a late lunch
And I must tell you mother
Kashf's mother cooks very good food
You started reading poems about your mother-in-law as soon as you came
Anyways, it's not like that
I was just saying
Anyways, it's her helplessness to cook
I am sure if she could afford to cook, she would have done it
Anyway, what if she doesn't do household chores
What if she doesn't cook food?
Does she have any other work to do?
She does, mother
She is a working woman
And along with all this, she takes care of the house and cooks food
And I think she does a wonderful job of it
I think she is remarkable
You must have been very impressed with your mother-in-law
If you are in this state all of a sudden, then I don't know what will happen next
Nothing will happen
Good night
Hello
Do you remember me?
Khayal
No, actually
Mother had asked me to call you and check if you have reached
Okay
If aunty hadn't asked, you wouldn't have asked
Why?
Because you are my wife
Yes, I am your wife
Anyways, what are you doing?
Me?
I was thinking about you
It doesn't seem like that
You are watching a movie
I am not watching anything
I am just thinking about you
Really?
What are you thinking about?
You ignored me when I came to your house
How did I ignore you?
Didn't you even meet me?
I did meet you
You didn't ask me to stop even once
Did you want to stop?
You should have asked me to stop
Why should I ask you to stop?
You should have stopped yourself if you wanted to stop
So you wanted me to stop?
No
It's not like that
Kashf
You have completely changed after going to your house
Okay, that's enough
First of all, you people forced me to offer prayers
Why?
This is the third prayer I have offered after Eid prayers
Don't you know anything about prayers?
I had put a pot in the toilet
Now I have forgotten everything
Anyways, leave it
You tell me
What were you saying?
I am getting ready to sleep
Will you be able to sleep without me?
Yes, I will be able to sleep very well
You are very cruel, Mukashif
Yes, you are
Anyways
Now you watch your movie
I am going to sleep
No
You are not going to sleep anywhere
Talk to me
We have done this much
We have only done this much
Talk to me more
Okay fine
You talk
I will listen
Do you love me?
Hello
I don't know
What do you mean you don't know?
It's a very difficult question
What?
Because
Is it easy to fall in love with someone in two days?
It's difficult
It's not impossible
But it's very difficult
You mean no?
What do you mean no?
That you don't love me
I didn't say that
Really?
But you didn't say anything
Should we talk about something else?
No
We will talk about something else after this
Okay then
Give me some time
To love me
To trust you
What do you mean?
You have married me
Don't you trust me yet?
As a husband
I have a lot of distrust
Really?
I should have told you earlier
I wouldn't have married you
Really?
What would you have done if you wouldn't have married me?
I would have been around your house and your office
I thought you were going to say
That you flirt with me
Really?
You want me to flirt with you?
I didn't say that
If you want I can flirt with you
I don't have any such wish
And besides
You have tried once
Were you successful?
No
I wasn't successful
But I think if you hadn't heard about the library thing
It would have happened
You have a good sense
I had heard everything
Really?
I shouldn't have a good sense
No you shouldn't
When did I stop you?
By the way you have a right now
You can stop me from anything
What thing?
Everything
Except talking to girls
You?
Will you still talk to girls?
I was joking
Then it's fine
When will you come home?
Should I come now?
Should I come to pick you up?
Should I come?
Hmm
Where is she?
My wife
This ring is very beautiful
Saru did say something while wearing it
What was the biggest promise?
What promise?
To keep me with you till death
Saru
I don't want to think about her
But I do think about her
Even if I want to take her casually
I can't
Because she is impossible to ignore
Like my center of gravity
My relationship with her is very strange
And I am not capable of hating her
She is not here right now
And she is present everywhere
Her voice is in my ears
Her touch is on my hands
Saru
Hello
Did you sleep?
No
I couldn't sleep
Huh?
This was bound to happen
The way I couldn't sleep without you
The same way you couldn't sleep without me either
It feels as if I will come to you right now
I will hold your hand
The same way you will let go of your hand while flushing
Then you will look into my eyes
As if you don't care
But then you will forget to let go of your hand from my hands
Because now you won't be able to ignore me
You are listening right?
Yes
Tell me
Should I come to you right now?
At this hour?
Why?
Can't a husband come to his wife at this hour?
No
But this area is not safe at this hour
Really?
So you care about me?
So shouldn't I care?
That my question is not answered
Then understand this
This is the answer
Yes
My child, keep this
Thank you mother
Thank you
What are you looking at?
Take good care of Zaroor my child
Zaroor doesn't need to take care of you mother
There are many people who take care of him anyway
A servant cannot give a place to his family
Mother
Maybe he doesn't need a maid
Really?
Does a maid become a maid by doing her own work?
I don't know mother
Nothing happens with work
Relationships are not made by servants
They are made by compromise and understanding
In your time, maybe a servant's job was done
Now this doesn't happen
And does an understanding of care and service arise?
Service and care are always useful
In every time
In every person
In every time
In every work my child, this service is never ignored
Mother, I never said that I will not take care of him
But right now I am doing a job and I don't have that much time
He is in Islamabad
I don't know where I am
And even if I want, I cannot take care of him like a housewife
I understand all this my child
But whenever you are with him, take care of him
Do all his work with your own hands
Look my child, this is the time when we can make each other's needs
Even if you want later, you won't get time
There will be children
There will be a house
There will be a hundred jobs my child
Mother, we will see when there will be children
For now, this is the child
Alright
Go and get ready, Zarun is about to come
I will keep this, give it to me
I will keep it
No, give it to me, I will keep it
Go my child
You are looking very nice
Do you have the habit of praising me for no reason?
I don't praise you for no reason
I am saying this because you are looking nice
Otherwise you don't have to believe me
If you would have said Zarun, you wouldn't have believed me
Am I really looking nice?
You are looking very nice
Alright, leave it
He is your husband
Really?
Is my hair fine?
Absolutely fine
I think the makeup is a little over
Let me reduce it
No, no, it is fine
It is absolutely over
Let it be
At least let me lighten the lipstick
It is absolutely fine
No one can take a direct advice from you
Yes, these are my suggestions
How will you like them?
Zarun is here
If I go and open the door like this
He will think that I have been waiting for him for a long time
Why should I tell him that I was waiting for him?
I will open the door
What difference does it make?
No
It makes a difference
Who was outside?
You go and open the door
Go and open it
Just go and open it please
I don't know what you are saying
Hello
Hello, how are you?
Hello
Come in
Hello aunty
Hello
God bless you dear
God bless you
Greetings
Sit, sit
Did you reach safely?
Yes, I was fine
I was waiting for you
Really?
I don't see any such effect
Go and call Kashif
I will call him right away
He was getting ready, right?
That is why
Hey dear
Won't you ask brother for water?
Won't you ask for water?
Yes, I will bring it
Yes
Is your parents fine dear?
Yes, they are fine too
You were saying hello
Hello, hello
Hello
You were saying hello to Sara too
Really?
God bless you
You should have brought her along
Yes, I will bring her next time
Here you go
Thank you
Here you go
How is uncle?
He must be on his way
He didn't even look at me
And I wasted an hour and a half in getting ready
Hey, at least look at the food
I will look at it
Fine, ignore it
Why did you come inside?
Why were you sitting outside?
What was I supposed to do sitting there?
What will Zabih feel now?
Zabih
You left me?
That's not fair
Zabih
It doesn't matter to you if I exist or not
It doesn't matter to me if I exist or not
How can you say this?
The way you can say it
Who is messaging you?
Sir, nothing, he was talking something official
Tell him that you are on your wedding leave
I love you
Right? What do you think?
Sorry, I got busy on the phone
I just wanted to talk to the boss about something important
No, no, it's okay
I am on leave but work is important
Yes, yes, work is important
And nowadays a lot of people complain that because of the sale,
even if there is a holiday,
they still work 24 hours a day
Where are these girls?
Yes dear, will you have the salad?
Thank you
Peace
Do you love me?
Thank you
Hey, take it dear, what did you just take?
No aunty, thank you, I just got full
So soon?
Good morning
Did you wake up early today?
Yes, I woke up early in the morning
You wake up early in the morning
I had this habit of waking up early
I have to tell you something
You are not in a good mood
I was in a good mood
I am not in a good mood
I was used to getting up early.
Nice.
This is good.
Wives should always get up early in the morning.
Why only the wife?
If the husband gets up early, it's not a big deal.
No.
Husband can't do this.
Why?
We don't have stamina.
Then we have to make stamina.
Yes, if we have the intention.
That's the thing.
If we have the intention.
May I have a sip too?
The hand is not working.
Was it good?
Very good.
One minute.
This is for you.
Thank you.
Shall we go?
Let's go.
Hi Kashif.
These flowers are so beautiful.
Zarul gave them to me.
I wasn't expecting anything for my birthday but he surprised me.
I think he has partnered with a flower seller.
He gives bouquets to every other girl at some event.
What do you mean?
Nothing.
I was just guessing.
Nothing.
I was just guessing.
Whatever bouquets he has given till date,
his name should be in Guinness Book of World Records.
And even if it hasn't come yet,
he only needs a few bouquets to establish a record.
Isn't it?
You don't drink tea?
No.
What happened?
Nothing.
I'm tired. Let's sit.
Will you have chewing gum?
Yes.
Feed me.
No one is watching. Feed me.
I didn't know that you can be such a lowly man.
That's because you never thought about me.
Or you didn't think about me.
You know very well
that if I think about you,
then you will never think about me.
You know very well
that if I think about you,
then you will never think about me.
Anyway,
I didn't know
that you can be such a lowly man.
Yes. I wasn't married till then.
What do you mean?
I used to think that after marriage,
women should always do all the work.
At least not at home.
Until you put chewing gum in your mouth.
Yes. That too.
Why?
Really?
Come on.
Let's go and have some food.
Come on.
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You look too good, you're is var surely for sure
You did a good job
Please, now you are beginning to sound like Asmara.
What does that mean?
She says the same thing.
And then she left you.
None of us left anyone.
I just realized that Asmara and I could never be life partners.
She is very headstrong.
She is more liberal than necessary.
I don't like these two things in any woman.
In fact, what do I care?
I think all men in the world think like that.
After that, if you want to call me a chauvinist or anything else, that's your choice.
I am not too liberal,
but I am not a weak woman either.
And I don't know what you think of being headstrong.
I am not a woman who thinks of her husband as a joke.
And I don't understand that instead of living like two partners in one house,
we become a very supportive relationship.
What happened? What are you looking at?
Nothing.
Nothing?
I am listening to you, I am thinking about it.
You tell me.
I think that in a husband and wife relationship,
it is possible that in some places,
you should listen to your husband,
but in some places,
you should give importance to your wife's position.
Look,
keeping the balance on two sides,
the balance between their roles and status can never be created.
But I am not interested in this kind of balance.
Yes,
but in the name of marriage,
I will never accept the status of the feet.
What do you think?
That I want a pair of feet in the name of my wife?
Or do you think that I am one of those men who idealize weak women?
Because there is no personality and no thought.
If I had to marry a weak woman, I would have never married you, Kashif.
You know why?
Because you are not a weak woman in any way.
And having said all that,
I don't even accept that I have a back seat in this home or life.
I think that a man is always the head of the home
and he should be.
And if he deserves a protocol because he is the head, then that is right.
We will talk about this topic again.
Anytime.
Thank you.