What is the decision of the marriage with Zaroor and Usama?
Is there any new assignment in the office?
No, I have taken a new assignment in my life
I didn't understand
I am getting married. I am busy in the preparations for that
I also wish that no decision is made without Kashif's consent
Look aunty, I promise you that Kashif will never have any problem with me
I will not pressurize you or insist you but I just want you to meet him once and listen to him
I am helpless because of the feelings in my heart for you
I don't know when I fell in love with you, when I fell in love with you and when my life became incomplete without you
Hey, what are you doing?
I am sorry
What happened at Sir Abraar's house that you agreed like this?
Nothing happened
He didn't say anything, he didn't ask anything
It was just a few things and that's it
How is it possible that you agree without winning anything?
What kind of a thought is this?
I don't know
I don't know what you are saying
That you agree without winning anything?
How did your mind change?
What was so special about those few things?
Tea uncle
I am sorry
I think you are still being hasty
You are engaged and the engagement can break
Don't take my words for granted
I just want you to understand
You think about it yourself, he doesn't even have a house
He has a house in Karai's house, you will be able to go there
Mom
You will be able to adjust in that environment
Mom
You don't worry, you will see, you will also be very happy with him
She is really a nice girl
Trust me
I will be there
Can I talk to her?
You can, I am listening
You?
Who are you talking to?
Mom said you don't like me saying you
But it is right for you to say you for me
It is a little difficult
Even I don't want you to say it
You looked very beautiful
Who?
Me?
Who else am I talking about?
Really?
What is really good?
I don't know
Then you should know
I think we shouldn't lie to each other
It will be better
Which lie?
These, false praises and all
False praises?
I didn't do any false praise, I did what I liked
Did you people reach home safely?
Didn't you miss me too soon?
Sidra asked me
Sidra asked you, not you
By the way, did you see the moon today?
It looks so beautiful
I can't see it
Try
Look at it from a distance, you might be able to see it
It is completely out here
Come on, now you have put this new task on me
Now I will look for the moon the whole night
She has so much useless time
I don't know why the office people don't give her any work
Did you see it?
Yes
I found it
Isn't it beautiful?
It is round
It is the moon of the 14th, it doesn't have to be round
By the way, it is very difficult to get rid of the moon of the 14th
It is so beautiful
Someone who likes all such things
Moon, stars, night, flowers
He must be talking to girls like this
He must be narrating the stories of the moon and stars
He must be narrating the stories of the beauty of the moon and stars
He must be praising its beauty
What did Nadia tell you about it once?
Hello
Yes
Hmm
What is it?
Won't you say anything?
About the moon
Come on, tell me about the moon
It comes out every day
Yes, it comes out every day
But it is not so beautiful every day
Tell me one thing, you are not interested in such things
In what things?
In nature
No, not much
Class film?
It is a marriage of choice
Wow
It is obvious
When girls will get so much freedom that they will study alone with boys, then this will happen
It was a boy's choice
Kashf was not accepting it
She accepted it with great difficulty, Rafia told me
It is obvious
Rafia did not cover up her daughter's actions
She has always had this habit
My daughters are very happy
If she did not like it, then how did the marriage happen?
If Kashf also liked it, then what is wrong in it?
There are good people who love Kashf
There are family people, respectable people
They are very rich
God bless, all my daughters have been married into very good families
All daughters?
Mr. Murtaza, only three daughters have been married
And you have five daughters
Counting our two daughters, they also have responsibilities
God willing, we will get them too
We will get good houses
We will get them if we look for them
I am telling you
I also want to get my daughters married into such big houses as Rafia's daughters have been married into
My son in law will not be less than Rafia's son in law
Otherwise
Pray, God willing, this will happen
Don't do anything yourself
Get me a cup of tea
I am sleepy
Congratulations
I know the family very well but never had the pleasure of meeting the girl
But her parents are very good people, I am very happy that you are getting married there
Thank you aunty
But aunty, I don't see Zaroor anywhere
I have called him, he must be on his way
Aunty, his business in Karachi has not increased much
Either he doesn't like the job or he has some other business
Didn't Zaroor tell you?
What?
We have engaged your friend
Are you serious?
How are you?
You came without informing me
Yes, I came without informing you, you have done some big work without informing me
You two sit and fight, I will send tea, I have to go somewhere, okay? Bye
Sit
Yes, I will go
First answer my question
What?
Have you got an engagement done somewhere?
I have got it done and if you find out where I have got it done, your sweat will drop
Why? Now you will say that I have got it done with Kashf Murtaza
Why are you asking when you know?
Have you really got it done with Kashf Murtaza?
Yes, Kashf must have told you
You are joking with me, aren't you?
Salma, why would I joke with you?
I have really got that engagement done
But you never showed interest with me before
So how did you think of this all of a sudden?
Well, suddenly interest developed and I got engaged
Salma, bring tea quickly
Tell me, what is going on?
It is coming along fine
This is a shock
Now you are going to be a member of your family
Your life is going to change
Why? Why is my life going to change?
Don't you think that your life will change now, dear?
It will change but not so much that I get worried thinking about it
No, no, I don't want to worry you
I just want to tell you that your responsibilities will increase now
Yes, but what else have I done in my life apart from taking up responsibilities?
But there is a difference between that responsibility and this responsibility, dear
After marriage, responsibilities do increase
So what do you think?
Will I not be able to take it up?
No, I think that you will be able to take it up very well
There is no such thing
Actually, I am very scared, mom
Especially because there is a big difference between me and Zaroor
He is a different kind of person
There is nothing common between us
And how will we live our lives together with so much difference?
This thought worries me a lot
Dear, even if the nature of a husband and wife is the same,
it still takes a long time to understand each other after marriage
Besides, marriage doesn't work with the same nature, dear
Marriage is about being sensible and compromising
I know that
And I also know that the society only expects compromise from women
And in every matter, it only wants women to bow down
But dear, not being stubborn and being sensible is not stupid
But I cannot compromise like you
I cannot bow down like you
May God bless you, dear
That you don't have to compromise like me
Because I didn't have any options, dear
My options were limited
Maybe you had limited them
The options of my life were something else, dear
I didn't have any other option other than limiting my options
But you have options, dear
The option to live a successful life
The option to live a married life
The option to build a good home
The option to be happy
And don't compromise, dear
Dear, you are living a beautiful life
I know that you have to compromise
And not Zaroor
But still, dear, you have to try
He cannot know a good home and its value more than I do, mother
I have seen myself and you yearning for this good life all my life
And now I don't want to live my rest of my life like this
Zaroor is a good boy of a good family, dear
I am sure that he will have countless qualities and some shortcomings
But being a good wife, dear
Always keep an eye on his qualities and not his shortcomings
And no matter what happens, dear, you have to fulfill this relation
Once upon a time, there was a child
A small child
A boy
The child started content washing
And in the same manner the kid started cleaning
You look especially beautiful
But I can't even tell you about the Zaroor he looks like.
He will give you a lot of competition on stage.
I'm just joking.
You are no less than a model.
Hello.
Water.
Hello.
Where am I?
I think you are here.
Where?
On the floor.
Oh. Oh. Oh.
Thank you.
It's a very unromantic start of a romantic night.
Oh.
It's here.
Oh.
Sorry.
Before I turn this around again, it's better that you wear it.
You won't lose it, right?
Yes.
So let's do this part.
Thank you.
My pleasure.
Now say something.
So this is Shagwani or Jyotin?
Jyotin.
Will you have something to eat?
No, thank you.
What kind of a question is he asking?
I'm sorry.
I must be talking nonsense.
I guess that's because I'm nervous.
I must be talking nonsense.
I guess that's because I'm nervous.
You know when I used to think that when I'll meet you, I'll say this and that.
But now that you're sitting in front of me, I really don't know what to say.
But since you want to say something, I'll praise you.
You know, you're looking very beautiful.
And I'm not saying this because you're sitting in front of me.
You're looking very beautiful.
What should I say?
Maybe he didn't believe me.
He just said one sentence and sat down.
He used to talk a lot at the university.
All men are like this.
You can praise your girlfriend as much as you want.
If you praise your wife, you'll die.
If I praise her more, she'll get angry.
What should I say if I don't praise her?
Should I promise her?
She must be thinking of her girlfriend right now.
Not girlfriend, but Asmara.
You trusted me and I really thank you for that.
Now I promise you that you won't have to regret your decision.
Why is she nodding her head?
She should say something.
Why don't you say something?
You say it.
I want to hear it.
Yes, but I also want to hear something.
You know, we make a lot of mistakes in life.
And because of those mistakes, we hurt other people.
I also made a lot of mistakes because of which you also got hurt.
And I'm really sorry about that Kashif.
I know I've said this to you before and I'm saying it again.
But the reason is because I am truly sorry.
This is the first good thing that you've said.
You know, I like a lot of your qualities.
Because of which I chose you.
I agree that it was a difficult decision but…
I think the decision that I've taken is absolutely right.
I never thought that he would say such things.
He's not as much of an idiot as I think he is.
Okay enough of your rubbish.
It feels so weird to talk to girls.
Difficult.
Especially with a girl that you like a lot.
For the first time in my life, I'm seeing her thinking and talking like this.
I can't believe it.
But well, if she has started thinking and understanding,
then it's not a bad quality.
By the way, silence also has a tongue.
Oh one second.
I know this is a bit cheesy but…
I wanted to say it.
Thank you.
You're welcome.
Listen.
You…
Please,
at least talk to me.
I mean I don't mean to force you but…
I want you to talk to me so that we don't have to talk about the past.
It was a difficult decision for me to marry you.
And I don't know to what extent I can fulfill your expectations.
But this relation is important for me.
It's sacred.
And to fulfill this relation,
I will try my best.
Roses are no roses.
Rings are no rings.
If she doesn't say it, it looks so good.
And it's not as ordinary looking as I thought it would be.
Actually she's got nice eyes.
But maybe her makeup is good today.
You know what?
I have another compliment for you.
It's very beautiful.
I also promise you one thing.
That I will not fulfill your expectations.
I will prove you wrong.
And the fact that you are so unemotional,
I will change these things about you in a few days.
I promise you.
Yeah.
Really?
Yeah.
Okay?
Kashif,
will you only eat fruits?
Have some omelette.
I won't.
Thank you.
Zain didn't come yesterday.
Yes, I also noticed.
But I didn't tell you at that time.
How long will you discuss the guests of tomorrow?
You talk to Kashif right now.
Hmm.
Kashif will not talk to you.
She will only listen to me.
I will talk to her.
Okay.
It's a very wise decision.
One should not talk to fools.
Oh really?
You should have told me earlier.
I wouldn't have wasted so much time with you.
Another sign of fools is that
they consider themselves very wise.
Are you talking about yourself?
Why are you telling me the sign?
Kashif,
these two talks are of this kind.
Don't think too much about it.
Kashif,
how much leave have you taken?
Yes, two weeks.
Only two weeks?
That's very less.
Even I have this much leave.
Only those who work have a hard time.
Work, vacation, job,
if it's your business,
then one doesn't have to think that
we will go on holiday when there is a vacation.
Fine.
I will start my business after retirement.
Mind you,
I will take as much time as I can
to spend with my wife.
By the way,
you will go on holiday, right?
I haven't thought about it yet.
By the way,
I think you two should still get your leave.
Two weeks is very less.
You people have forgotten
such a new family member in your talks.
Ask her something to eat.
Kashif,
take something.
Egg, omelet.
Give it to her.
Fried egg.
So this is life.
Surprising.
Unpredictable.
It will bring you to a strange place.
Everything is fine
but I don't understand one thing.
Why can't the two of us talk to each other?
This is also strange.
Did you say something?
To you?
I don't know.
To you?
To me?
No.
Really?
But you just said that this is strange.
Do I still seem strange to you?
I am saying something strange to someone else.
To whom?
To life.
Life is not strange.
Then what is?
Life is like a rose.
Really?
Is life a rose?
It is for me.
For now.
Yes.
The way you are living your life,
that is a rose.
But the way I am living my life,
there is nothing in it.
Do you remember what you did to me in college?
When I told you to sit on the next seat,
you insulted me so much.
I didn't insult you that much.
That much?
You insulted me so much.
You know I couldn't sleep the whole night.
You insulted me the first time by the hands of a girl.
Well, it won't be the first time.
How much do you lie?
What would have happened if you had sat on the next seat?
If you had sat on the next seat,
then you wouldn't have sat on the next seat.
Thank you.
I will go and get my things.
Who did you keep the things on your way back?
The servant.
And who will take it out now?
My mother doesn't have servants at home.
Really?
It's good that you still have servants.
Greetings aunty.
Greetings to you too.
God bless you dear.
God bless you.
You took so long.
I was waiting for so long.
How many times have I gone to the door?
Come, come.
Hey dear, hold the bag.
Give it to him.
Sit, sit, sit.
Please, you sit.
Come.
You come here.
Sit next to me.
I'm so sorry.
You had to wait.
I left late.
No, no, it's okay.
It's good that you came.
Your daughter takes a lot of time in preparation.
Really?
Hand wash it?
No, it's a soap.
Kashif, you come here.
No, yes, yes.
Water is not coming.
the water is over, let me go & bring it from the bucket
hurry up!
oh! be careful! be careful!
okay
one more!
I'll be back in a minute, I'll be back in a minute
Is this romance happening here?
No, nothing is happening
That's right, Kashf and romance
Shaheera, why aren't you taking any other loan? It's your own house
No aunty, thank you
If it wasn't for my own house then I would have taken a lot for the loan
But I've already taken so much and I don't think I can take more
No, no, still dear, Shaheera
Yes
Brother Zaroor, when will the wedding pictures and videos come?
It will take a week, even if they come early
Okay
Shaheera, go and check on your father and ...
I'll go and check
No, no, Shaheera is going
No, no, I'll go and check, I'm here
God bless you, God bless you
Your parents have brought up Zaroor so well
Isn't it?
Greetings
How are you dear?
Shahneela dear, bring tea for father and brother
Yes
Have you reached safely dear? Is there any problem on the way?
No aunty, we've reached safely
Hammad
Hammad, go dear, your sister is calling you
Did you call me?
Yes
Why?
Brother Zaroor is here and you won't talk rubbish in front of him
Do you understand?
Why should I talk rubbish?
You shouldn't talk rubbish in front of him
And you don't need to talk rubbish about yourself
I want brother Zaroor to take a good impression about you
And about us as well
I understand everything, I'm not a fool
I know that brother Zaroor is from a big family
So you should respect him
That's all I wanted to say
Before you talk rubbish, think 10 times and then say it
You can go now
If I think so much, he'll leave before this
Fool
Brother Zaroor, how many countries have you been to?
How many countries?
A lot
For example?
I've been to 15-20
So many countries?
Then you've seen half of the world
But brother Zaroor, tell me one thing
You've already seen half of the world
Then why did you want to join the foreign service?
You already had a visa
It's just a hobby
You tell me, what are you doing these days?
I'm doing masters
Masters?
Wonderful, in what subject?
In economics
Economics is such a really good subject
Yes
By the way brother Zaroor, do you know when your posting is out
I'll be with you outside
Yes, yes, sure
Anytime
But I've heard that there is a problem with the visa
You'll get my visa, right?
Visa is not a problem, you can get it easily
Here, it's easy
Come on son, pray
Pray?
If you want, you can pray at home
I'll pray in the mosque behind the Imam again
But what will I do at home?
No, I'll pray in the mosque
Shall we go?
Come on
Come
Which prayer?
This one
Okay
I don't know, do they put water in the nose first, do they do a face wash or do they wash the face first?
I'll lose my respect today
You go first brother Zarin
No, you go first, then I'll do it
No, no, you go first
No, you go first
No, no, you go first
You go first
No son, you're elder, he's younger
You go first
Okay son
Okay
Good bye
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