1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:09,000 He wouldn't have gotten married and I think you didn't talk to me about this without talking to Zaroor 2 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:13,000 otherwise, he would have already refused 3 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:16,000 I'm talking to you on his request 4 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:20,000 He has asked you to talk to me 5 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:23,000 I will not marry him 6 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:26,000 He will be the last man in this world 7 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:29,000 I will not marry him even then 8 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:32,000 Zaroor, did Junaid propose to you? 9 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:35,000 He proposed to you himself 10 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:39,000 If he would have proposed to me himself, I wouldn't have broken his head 11 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:42,000 He has done all this nonsense with Sir Abraar 12 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:45,000 You can be so scared of a girl 13 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:47,000 I could never imagine Zaroor 14 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:50,000 What is there to be scared of? Talk to him 15 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:51,000 Hmm 16 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:53,000 I'm not at all in favor of this relationship 17 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:55,000 It's okay if a person is not status conscious 18 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:59,000 But when you get married, at least you look after your family 19 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:04,000 It's not like you left the defense and went straight to Nazimabad 20 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:07,000 She lives in Nazimabad? 21 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:09,000 Why don't you ask your brother? 22 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:12,000 Ask the one who is brainwashing you 23 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:15,000 Wow, you remember all my girlfriends' lists 24 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:17,000 But please take out Farheen's name from it 25 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:19,000 I used to like her a lot 26 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:21,000 Even I used to like you a lot 27 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:23,000 No, you used to like me like a witch 28 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:25,000 Okay, thank you then 29 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:28,000 If you don't want me to treat you like a witch 30 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,000 Then don't call me again 31 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,000 You can laugh as much as you want 32 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:37,000 I agree that I can't say anything in front of my stars 33 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:40,000 I've got a chance, I can't say anything 34 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:41,000 Relax 35 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:47,000 I'll try my best to stop your stars from falling 36 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,000 Okay, I'll try 37 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:53,000 I heard that you agreed for Shanila 38 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,000 No, who told you? 39 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:59,000 Nigaar was telling me 40 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,000 No, it's not like that 41 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:06,000 The proposal has come but I haven't decided anything yet 42 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:13,000 But Nigaar is saying that you agreed for Shanila 43 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:15,000 You agreed for Shanila? 44 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:24,000 You know that Nigaar is used to talking nonsense 45 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,000 What can I say about her? 46 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:30,000 Yes, she has started talking nonsense 47 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:33,000 She talks so much for Kashf 48 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,000 It makes me very sad 49 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:37,000 Yes, yes 50 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:41,000 She says that you don't want to live in her house for Kashf 51 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,000 She is your son-in-law, right? 52 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:48,000 If you'll marry her, then how will your old age pass? 53 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:58,000 Nigaar really likes to talk nonsense 54 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:00,000 He doesn't have any fear at all 55 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:05,000 I always pray that if there is a good proposal then I'll marry my daughter 56 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,000 And Nigaar 57 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:15,000 Tell me, which mother will be happy by keeping her son at home? 58 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:19,000 Why do you need to tell me? I know everything 59 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:24,000 But the reason why you refused to see these proposals is this 60 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:28,000 This is why people got the chance to believe what Nigaar said 61 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,000 Okay, take care of yourself 62 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:35,000 I'll come again 63 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,000 Okay, bye 64 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:41,000 Okay 65 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:43,000 Okay 66 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,000 Mother, you wanted to say something to her, right? 67 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:09,000 You just listened to her 68 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,000 What do I say to her? 69 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:19,000 I didn't have any answer to anything she said 70 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:23,000 It's my personal matter whether to marry or not 71 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:26,000 Who is father's wife to interfere in this? 72 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:29,000 No one can be caught Kashf 73 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:32,000 They say whatever comes to their mouth 74 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:39,000 I tried to make you understand a thousand times 75 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:43,000 But you don't care about your mother's pain 76 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:45,000 Mother, don't say that 77 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:49,000 You know very well that I care about your problems 78 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:55,000 But if my heart doesn't listen to marriage then what should I do? 79 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:57,000 You don't do anything 80 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:01,000 Just see your mother being humiliated by people 81 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:03,000 Don't worry 82 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:09,000 Just see your mother being humiliated by people 83 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:11,000 I'll go 84 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:29,000 Abraar has praised that girl a lot 85 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:33,000 He said he knows her from her university days 86 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:36,000 She's a very nice and decent girl 87 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:39,000 How many centuries have passed since her university days? 88 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:43,000 And four to six years are not enough to know someone 89 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:45,000 You know about Abraar 90 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:50,000 He has five minutes for Zaroon to talk to him 91 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:52,000 It's not like that 92 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:56,000 He will never praise a girl like that 93 00:05:56,000 --> 00:06:02,000 Especially for Zaroon he can't praise a girl he doesn't know 94 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:07,000 You know very well about Abraar's feelings for Zaroon 95 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:11,000 Why don't you tell Abraar to make Zaroon understand? 96 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:13,000 Marriage is not a game of dolls 97 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:15,000 It's a matter of life 98 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:20,000 I can't give Abraar reasons like yours to not marry 99 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:22,000 Why? 100 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,000 What are my reasons illogical? 101 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:25,000 Life has passed 102 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,000 I've seen a lot 103 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:32,000 A person wants to save his children from wrong decisions and wrong experiences 104 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:33,000 That's what I'm doing 105 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:35,000 Zaroon is very smart 106 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,000 I can see that 107 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:44,000 No matter how blind he is, he gets into a lot of trouble in the matter of marriage 108 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:49,000 He will never make such a decision based on superficial things 109 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:55,000 But if he had to show such emotion, he would have shown it in Asmara's matter 110 00:06:56,000 --> 00:07:00,000 That's why I think he must have seen a quality in that girl 111 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:03,000 Because of which he wanted to marry that girl 112 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:07,000 My heart gets scared when you talk like this 113 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:10,000 I'm telling you to make Zaroon understand 114 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:12,000 You're trying to make me understand 115 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:19,000 Look Ghazala, we can't control our children 116 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:23,000 We can choose whether they like it or not 117 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:25,000 We can object to them 118 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:31,000 But we can't tell them to decide their life according to our will 119 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:33,000 Look, they have their own life 120 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:39,000 They have grown up so much that they can understand their good and bad 121 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:50,000 What are you doing? 122 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:51,000 I'm making coffee 123 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:52,000 Should I make it for you? 124 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:54,000 Good and bad? 125 00:07:57,000 --> 00:07:58,000 You look happy 126 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:00,000 I'm not happy 127 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:02,000 But I'm satisfied 128 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:03,000 With what? 129 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:05,000 I've decided 130 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:08,000 What decision? 131 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:10,000 Of marriage 132 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:12,000 With Zaroon? 133 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:14,000 Yes 134 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:16,000 Of marriage 135 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:18,000 With Zaroon? 136 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:21,000 With Asmara 137 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:43,000 Hello? 138 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:44,000 Hello? 139 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:45,000 Hello Kashif? 140 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:47,000 How are you? 141 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:49,000 I'm fine, how are you Asmara? 142 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:50,000 I'm fine 143 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:53,000 I was just busy 144 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:55,000 Why? 145 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:56,000 Did you get a new assignment at the office? 146 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:59,000 No, I've taken a new assignment in my life 147 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:01,000 I didn't understand 148 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:03,000 I'm getting married 149 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:05,000 I'm busy preparing for that 150 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:10,000 Okay, congratulations 151 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:11,000 Thank you 152 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:12,000 You have to come 153 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:14,000 With the whole family 154 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:17,000 Why won't they come if you invite them? 155 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:18,000 Of course 156 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,000 You must be their chief guest 157 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:21,000 And that too with Zaroon 158 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,000 Okay, bye 159 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:39,000 It's fine 160 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:42,000 He won't sit for you, right? 161 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:44,000 He proposed to you 162 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:47,000 And you refused without thinking 163 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:49,000 So he won't come to convince you 164 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:51,000 He's not Zaroon, right? 165 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:53,000 He did the right thing 166 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:56,000 He did the right thing by using his second option 167 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:58,000 And cut the first option 168 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:00,000 Don't regret 169 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:01,000 I don't have any regrets 170 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:03,000 Yes 171 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:04,000 Why would you have regrets? 172 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:06,000 Regrets are just stupid 173 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:08,000 Regrets are just stupid 174 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:10,000 I've never considered myself smart 175 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:11,000 I didn't consider myself smart 176 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:14,000 Marriage is your first wisdom 177 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:15,000 Look, I'm telling you the truth 178 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:18,000 I don't have any regrets 179 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:21,000 It's good that he's getting married 180 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:25,000 I was ready to marry him only because of your pressure 181 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:29,000 By the way, I never liked Usama as a husband 182 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:32,000 Kashf, who do you like? 183 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:35,000 Especially those men who look like poison to you 184 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:38,000 Who like you because of some stupidity 185 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:39,000 I don't like anyone 186 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:43,000 All these men are very selfish 187 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:47,000 They have their own reasons to like someone 188 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:50,000 They don't call it love 189 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:52,000 Okay, tell me 190 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:55,000 Do you believe in love or not? 191 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:56,000 No 192 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:59,000 If you don't believe in love, then you can't identify it 193 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:02,000 I have no interest in these things 194 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:03,000 Please 195 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:06,000 Now you and mother don't talk about marrying me 196 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:09,000 I'm very happy and satisfied with my life 197 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:13,000 And I don't want this happiness and satisfaction to end 198 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:25,000 Hello 199 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:26,000 Hello 200 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:28,000 Yes, Zaroor and Junaid are talking 201 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:29,000 Yes, I'm talking 202 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:30,000 Who are you talking to? 203 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:31,000 I'm talking to Sidra 204 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:33,000 I'm Kashf's… 205 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:34,000 Yes, yes, yes 206 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:35,000 How are you? 207 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:37,000 I recognized you 208 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:40,000 How are you? 209 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:41,000 I'm fine, how are you? 210 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:42,000 I'm fine 211 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:44,000 Are you busy right now? 212 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:46,000 No, no, not at all, you tell me 213 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:50,000 Actually, I wanted to talk to you for a long time 214 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:52,000 But it so happened that we couldn't talk 215 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:55,000 I also wanted to talk to you for a long time 216 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:57,000 But I didn't have your contact number 217 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,000 This is my number, save it 218 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:02,000 Yes, I'll save it 219 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:06,000 By the way, can you come to our house for tea one day? 220 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:09,000 Yes, of course I can 221 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:10,000 Whenever you want 222 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:12,000 Are you in Karachi right now? 223 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:13,000 No, no, I'm in Islamabad 224 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:15,000 But I keep coming on weekends 225 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:18,000 If you want, can I come this weekend? 226 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:19,000 This weekend? 227 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:20,000 Yes, definitely 228 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:22,000 Why are you people calling Zaroor? 229 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:23,000 What nonsense is this? 230 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:24,000 I don't want to marry him 231 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:26,000 Why are you people calling him? 232 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:29,000 So he doesn't want to marry you forcibly 233 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:30,000 What do you want to do? 234 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:33,000 We'll meet him, we'll see him 235 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:36,000 And then if it suits him, we'll meet his parents too 236 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:38,000 What objection do you have with this? 237 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:41,000 I've already told you everything about him without meeting him 238 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:43,000 He's not a good person, Sidra 239 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:48,000 So let us also meet him and see how bad he is 240 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:49,000 There is no question 241 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:53,000 I don't want him to come to our house and meet you people 242 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:55,000 He should know about my background 243 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:57,000 He should know about father 244 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,000 I won't let him get away with this 245 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:01,000 On which he'll hurt me even more 246 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:06,000 I've made my own respect in the eyes of people with so much difficulty 247 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:08,000 Let him be as he is 248 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:12,000 Kashif, I've already told him everything about us 249 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:16,000 And I don't think he'll change his attitude 250 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:19,000 I didn't find him to be an immature person 251 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:23,000 And if he was immature, he already knew about our class difference 252 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:26,000 Why did he show interest in you? 253 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:31,000 You people didn't respect me in front of him 254 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:00,000 When I don't want to marry him 255 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:03,000 Then why do I feel sad to call him and meet him? 256 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:06,000 What would he think about me? 257 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:09,000 That on one hand I refuse to get married 258 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:13,000 And on the other hand my family invites him to my house 259 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:17,000 I made my own respect with so much difficulty 260 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:21,000 And he told everything to Zahroon 261 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:26,000 Now I don't know who all he'll tell about my family background 262 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:32,000 In his hands, it's like another weapon has come 263 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:36,000 To hurt me and harm me 264 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:39,000 To make fun of me 265 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:49,000 We are very simple people dear 266 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:55,000 I've brought up my daughters with a lot of money 267 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:57,000 And I've brought them up 268 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:07,000 In our society, a girl is seen only as a girl's honor while getting married 269 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:13,000 Rest of the things are a matter of time 270 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:18,000 Face, face, house, money, money 271 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:22,000 The honor can't be changed, right? 272 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:26,000 Yes 273 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:32,000 Sidra had told me about you 274 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:38,000 Would it have been better if you had brought your parents as well? 275 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:40,000 No? 276 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:43,000 What I mean to say is that you did the right thing by coming here 277 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:47,000 With this excuse, I met you and saw you 278 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:51,000 Whenever you people come, I'll bring my parents 279 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:55,000 But believe me, they have no objection to this marriage 280 00:15:57,000 --> 00:16:01,000 I think the real problem is Kashf's consent 281 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:10,000 By the way, Kashf never mentioned anything about you to me 282 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:12,000 Maybe she did it to Sidra 283 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:15,000 I also wish that 284 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:21,000 That Kashf doesn't make any decision without Kashf's consent 285 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:24,000 Look aunty 286 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:30,000 I promise you that Kashf will never have any problem with me 287 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:35,000 And neither will you have any right to make any decision about me 288 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:39,000 You're just having tea? 289 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:40,000 Have something else as well 290 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:41,000 Yes, yes 291 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:47,000 Have some kebabs 292 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:48,000 Thank you 293 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:03,000 For the first time in my life, I felt very embarrassed hearing the word honor 294 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:09,000 I never thought that I would have to prove my honor along with my capabilities 295 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:11,000 I will have to 296 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:17,000 Maybe in life, the degrees taken from high officials and the labels of a big family don't work 297 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:22,000 In some places, small things hold a lot of importance 298 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:25,000 Or maybe the people I'm calling small things 299 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:28,000 They are not small things because of their importance 300 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:32,000 Anyway 301 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:34,000 Shut up 302 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:37,000 Good? 303 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:38,000 Good 304 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:42,000 The boy is nice 305 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:46,000 But we don't have any connection with him 306 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:48,000 They are very rich 307 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:50,000 Mom, what is this? 308 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:51,000 We didn't invite him 309 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:53,000 He came to our house himself 310 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:56,000 And then we didn't have any connection with my in-laws 311 00:17:57,000 --> 00:18:01,000 And now where Shahneela is about to get married, they are also financially good 312 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:03,000 Yes, but dear 313 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:04,000 But dear 314 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:10,000 Your in-laws knew us and we knew them a long time ago 315 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:16,000 And where Shahneela is about to get married, your in-laws know them 316 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:23,000 But none of us know Zaroor's family, dear 317 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:27,000 Sir, Abraar knows mom and he is also bailing out Zaroor 318 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:30,000 And then mom, it's about our fate 319 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:31,000 But dear 320 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:35,000 You think that maybe Kashf's fate has such a big and good family 321 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:38,000 And look at Zaroor as well 322 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:39,000 He is so nice 323 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:41,000 He has no attitude 324 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:42,000 He is very happy 325 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:46,000 I think he and Kashf will get a very nice couple 326 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:50,000 I hope that's the case, dear 327 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:56,000 She was a middle class girl at first 328 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:58,000 She was an average looking girl 329 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:01,000 She used to live in lower income area and now her father is getting married again 330 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:05,000 Zaroor, you have also chosen and selected 331 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:06,000 I'm really amazed 332 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:09,000 I don't know what else will come out about their family 333 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:10,000 Nothing will come out, mom 334 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:15,000 If Kashf's father got married again, it's his personal problem 335 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:17,000 Why should I judge Kashf on the basis of that? 336 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:21,000 And let me tell you, I really appreciate your honesty 337 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:23,000 He hasn't hidden anything from me until now 338 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:25,000 So what other option did he have? 339 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:27,000 He only had one option 340 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:29,000 That he would tell you everything honestly 341 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:31,000 And give you an impression of his honesty 342 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:32,000 I'm not stupid 343 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:33,000 But you are 344 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:35,000 You are the one who thinks so 345 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:36,000 Look dear 346 00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:39,000 Tomorrow you have to spend your life with Kashf 347 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:44,000 If there is any problem with her background 348 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:46,000 It will have an effect on you 349 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,000 It won't make any difference to us 350 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,000 You keep this in your mind 351 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,000 Dad, I understand that 352 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:56,000 And I'm telling you, his family is really a very good family 353 00:19:57,000 --> 00:20:01,000 Despite all the shortcomings in their life, they are good and honest people 354 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:02,000 And tomorrow I have to marry Kashf 355 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:05,000 She has to be a part of our family, not hers 356 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,000 Zaroor, you are busy preparing for a wedding 357 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:11,000 Whose success I don't see any possibility 358 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:16,000 I'm not saying this because I have a disagreement with that girl's family 359 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,000 I'm saying this because I know you 360 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:19,000 I know you 361 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:23,000 You don't have the ability to make adjustments and compromise 362 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:27,000 If you could have been able to adjust, you would have been able to adjust with Asmara 363 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:31,000 Anyways 364 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:34,000 You are fond of doing adventures 365 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:36,000 You are fond of being a socialist 366 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:37,000 Alright then 367 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:38,000 Go ahead, be my guest 368 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:39,000 Best of luck to you 369 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:46,000 Now that's not fair 370 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:49,000 She is discouraging me 371 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:50,000 No, no 372 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:52,000 She is warning you 373 00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:56,000 That the implication of mismatched marriage can be so dangerous 374 00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:58,000 Dad, please 375 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:03,000 Sometimes even perfect matchmaking changes into mismatched marriages 376 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:04,000 You know that 377 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,000 There is no guarantee of life 378 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,000 And the predictions we make about life are never true 379 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:22,000 Kashf, I liked Zaroor the moment I saw him 380 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:23,000 Yes 381 00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:27,000 You liked him the moment he was with me on my birthday 382 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,000 There is nothing new about that 383 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:31,000 You like every good looking man 384 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:34,000 And you don't like every good looking man 385 00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:36,000 We are talking about Zaroor 386 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:38,000 I'm also talking about Zaroor 387 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:41,000 The bad things I heard about him from you 388 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:46,000 I thought he would have at least two scenes 389 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:49,000 He would have long teeth like Dracula 390 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:50,000 One of which would be bleeding 391 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:54,000 And he would have two eyes that would be spinning all the time 392 00:21:56,000 --> 00:22:00,000 But he turned out to be so pleasant and decent 393 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:01,000 He was quiet all the time 394 00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:03,000 He was only listening to us 395 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:04,000 And you guys got impressed? 396 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,000 This is all nonsense and drama 397 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:12,000 He is not as straightforward and obedient as he has posed to you 398 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:15,000 And he is not as bad as you have shown in front of everyone 399 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:18,000 Sidra, I know him very well 400 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:20,000 I have spent two years with him 401 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,000 And whatever you have heard about him 402 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:25,000 Either you have heard it from me or you have heard it from him 403 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:28,000 Kashf, you are very biased about him 404 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:29,000 Yes, I am 405 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,000 Did he tell mother about Asmara? 406 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:36,000 Yes, he told everything that you told me 407 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:38,000 In fact, he told more than that 408 00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:42,000 And still you people consider him very suitable for me 409 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:43,000 Very much 410 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:44,000 Why? 411 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:45,000 Why? 412 00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:49,000 Because I think he can be a very good life partner 413 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:50,000 This is my assessment 414 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,000 I don't agree with you 415 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:56,000 Even mother has the same opinion about him that I have 416 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:57,000 Yes, so mother can also be wrong 417 00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,000 Yes, mother can also be wrong 418 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:00,000 Even I can be wrong 419 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:02,000 Then you can also be wrong 420 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:06,000 It is not written anywhere that your opinion about others is always right 421 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:09,000 I found him sincere and very serious about you 422 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:12,000 Mother also found him family and polite 423 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:19,000 And after meeting him, I didn't like your old opinion about him 424 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:30,000 Hey 425 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:31,000 Hi 426 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,000 I wanted to thank you 427 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:35,000 For what? 428 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:39,000 I have heard that you have supported me a lot with mother 429 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:45,000 Actually, I have supported mother more than you 430 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:47,000 What do you mean? 431 00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:52,000 The way you are, it is very risky to get you married anywhere 432 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:55,000 And when the risk is so big, then you shouldn't take it 433 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:59,000 That is why I convinced mother that she can do whatever you want 434 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,000 Okay, still thank you 435 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:08,000 And I will try to fulfill your expectations in the future 436 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:10,000 This is not in your hands 437 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:11,000 Hmm 438 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:19,000 But I am very interested in seeing how you make an educated professional woman a cow of God 439 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,000 Who told you that I want to make her a cow of God? 440 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,000 So do you want to make Margaret Thatcher? 441 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:25,000 And didn't you find a better example than this? 442 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:30,000 I have a lot of examples, but you will mind 443 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:35,000 Do you want tea? 444 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:36,000 Oh thank you 445 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:38,000 Good 446 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:42,000 Thank you 447 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:09,000 I don't know why everyone thinks so negatively about me 448 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,000 Why everyone believes that my marriage failed? 449 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,000 And now I am really getting nervous 450 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:22,000 I never thought that my own family has such a low opinion about me 451 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,000 Kashif is still not ready to get married 452 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:32,000 And here everyone is more interested in knowing when the divorce will happen 453 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:36,000 Am I the odd one now? 454 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:38,000 Or a social misfit? 455 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:40,000 I don't know 456 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:04,000 I am not supporting Zaroor without any reason, Kashif 457 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:14,000 If I didn't think of him as a good person, then knowing your character, I would have never thought about your marriage 458 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:19,000 Neither your character nor your thinking 459 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,000 Sir, he is a very useless man 460 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,000 You know about his university activities 461 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,000 In fact, you know him better than I do 462 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:33,000 Even after knowing all this, I can never imagine 463 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:39,000 That my marriage can be with a person who has thousands of girlfriends 464 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,000 Kashif, he has changed a lot 465 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:49,000 Everyone in the university and colleges thinks like this 466 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,000 I have never thought like this 467 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,000 That is why he likes you to that extent 468 00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:58,000 He is lying sir 469 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:00,000 I am just a challenge for him 470 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:01,000 I am just a challenge 471 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,000 Man changes with time Kashif 472 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,000 He has improved 473 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:07,000 He has changed 474 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,000 He will change after marriage 475 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:12,000 He will get better 476 00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:18,000 A man never gives a woman a chance to marry him and be a good person 477 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:23,000 Then why does a woman expect a man to give her a chance? 478 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:28,000 Why shouldn't I see how my husband's reputation is before getting married? 479 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:30,000 Why should I take a risk? 480 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,000 Especially when I know him very well 481 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,000 Marriage is nothing but a risk Kashif 482 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:42,000 Sometimes everything is fine even if a fly flies in front of you 483 00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:46,000 And sometimes an angelic person, a good person 484 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:51,000 When he finds out, he turns out to be very bad 485 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,000 Everything goes on 486 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:55,000 Look 487 00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:59,000 Look, I will not pressurize you 488 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:00,000 I will not insist 489 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:04,000 But I just want you to meet him once 490 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:05,000 Listen to him 491 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:16,000 Yes 492 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:18,000 Greetings sir 493 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:19,000 Greetings 494 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:20,000 Zaroor 495 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:27,000 Kashif, I called Zaroor so that you two can talk 496 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,000 And after this, we will accept whatever decision you make 497 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,000 No one will pressurize you 498 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:37,000 Sit 499 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:43,000 Greetings sir 500 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:44,000 Greetings 501 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,000 Zaroor, tea or coffee? 502 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:49,000 Food 503 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:53,000 First you and Kashif talk 504 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:56,000 Maybe after that your hunger will die 505 00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,000 I will send tea for you 506 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,000 And now these two hours will eat my brain 507 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:15,000 Long explanations, arguments 508 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:17,000 I am not like this 509 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:18,000 I am not like that 510 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,000 I have never done this 511 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:21,000 I have never done that 512 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:23,000 Cleanses 513 00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:25,000 Explanations 514 00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:28,000 And then a long list of false promises 515 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,000 These men are so typical 516 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:46,000 Kashif 517 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:59,000 First of all, I am sorry for everything that caused you any complaints or hurt you 518 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:16,000 I don't have anything else to apologize for 519 00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:26,000 But if you believe me, I promise you won't regret it 520 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:28,000 That's it? 521 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:30,000 That's all you will say to me? 522 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:32,000 Nothing else? 523 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,000 I cannot make you believe in my goodness 524 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:50,000 Neither will I present any argument nor will I explain anything 525 00:30:50,000 --> 00:31:01,000 Because I know that I cannot convince you about something that you don't know 526 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:08,000 But I want to tell you one thing 527 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,000 I am helpless because of the feelings in my heart for you 528 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,000 I don't know when I fell in love with you 529 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:20,000 When I liked you 530 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:23,000 When I started loving you 531 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:29,000 When my life started looking incomplete without you, I don't know 532 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:44,000 But I do know that I want to correct my mistakes 533 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:45,000 I want to keep you happy and that's it 534 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:51,000 If you refuse after this, I will consider myself to be the most unfortunate person in the world 535 00:31:53,000 --> 00:32:01,000 But I must have lost that girl who is very special to me because of my stupidity 536 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:06,000 The decision is in your hands 537 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:10,000 You accept me and reject me, so the choice is yours 538 00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:16,000 What are you doing? 539 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:18,000 I am sorry 540 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:27,000 What are you doing? 541 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:29,000 I am sorry 542 00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:45,000 I am sorry 543 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:56,000 What did you two talk about? 544 00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,000 He must have made a lot of promises 545 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:01,000 What did you ask him? 546 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:05,000 What happened at Sir Abrahar's house that you agreed like this? 547 00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:08,000 Nothing happened 548 00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:10,000 He didn't say anything 549 00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:12,000 He didn't ask anything 550 00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:15,000 It was just a few things and that's it 551 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:20,000 How is it possible that you agree without winning anything? 552 00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,000 How did you change your mind? 553 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:25,000 What was so special about those few things? 554 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:28,000 A cup of tea 555 00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:31,000 There was a cup of tea 556 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:36,000 It was going to fall on my hand but it saved me 557 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,000 What kind of a strange thing has happened? 558 00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:41,000 Kashif, is this why you agreed? 559 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:46,000 For the first time in my life, someone has become my shield 560 00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:48,000 Someone has cared for me 561 00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:51,000 He let the tea fall on his hand 562 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:53,000 So? 563 00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,000 But he didn't let it fall on my hand 564 00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:58,000 What's so special about that Kashif? 565 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:03,000 How many people are there in life who don't let hot tea fall on us? 566 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,000 Kashif, you are very strange 567 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:08,000 But you are also very deep 568 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:09,000 You are very deep 569 00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:12,000 There is nothing deep 570 00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:16,000 Only fear and disbelief 571 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:24,000 By the way, I already knew that there is a place for him in your heart 572 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:26,000 You definitely love him 573 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:39,000 Why did you agree? 574 00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:42,000 How did you agree? 575 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,000 I was thinking about a long question and answer 576 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:49,000 But he didn't ask me anything 577 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:54,000 He didn't give me any guarantee or assurance 578 00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:57,000 There is some strange problem with me 579 00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:00,000 He didn't give me any assurance 580 00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,000 He didn't give me any assurance 581 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:05,000 He didn't give me any assurance 582 00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:06,000 There is some strange problem with me 583 00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:09,000 He didn't agree, so he was restless 584 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,000 And if he agreed, then he is doubtful 585 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,000 This is so beginning to sound like a diary of a mad man 586 00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:21,000 I hope not 587 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:26,000 Point of difference 588 00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:28,000 Again 589 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:29,000 Point of difference 590 00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:39,000 Life is another name for impossibilities 591 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:45,000 Impossible, coincidences, incidents 592 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:50,000 And we don't have any control over any of them 593 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:54,000 At least this is what I believe 594 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:57,000 And now there is more to this belief 595 00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:01,000 Zaroon Junaid will be a part of my life 596 00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:03,000 Zaroon 597 00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:05,000 Zaroon Junaid 598 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:07,000 My husband 599 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:10,000 I will marry him 600 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:14,000 I will spend my whole life with him 601 00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:17,000 Oh my God 602 00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:19,000 What have I done? 603 00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:21,000 What will I do now? 604 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:25,000 Thank you 605 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,000 Copyright© OSHO International Foundation, Switzerland 606 00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,000 OSHO is a registered Trademark of OSHO International Foundation