He wouldn't have gotten married and I think you didn't talk to me about this without talking to Zaroor
otherwise, he would have already refused
I'm talking to you on his request
He has asked you to talk to me
I will not marry him
He will be the last man in this world
I will not marry him even then
Zaroor, did Junaid propose to you?
He proposed to you himself
If he would have proposed to me himself, I wouldn't have broken his head
He has done all this nonsense with Sir Abraar
You can be so scared of a girl
I could never imagine Zaroor
What is there to be scared of? Talk to him
Hmm
I'm not at all in favor of this relationship
It's okay if a person is not status conscious
But when you get married, at least you look after your family
It's not like you left the defense and went straight to Nazimabad
She lives in Nazimabad?
Why don't you ask your brother?
Ask the one who is brainwashing you
Wow, you remember all my girlfriends' lists
But please take out Farheen's name from it
I used to like her a lot
Even I used to like you a lot
No, you used to like me like a witch
Okay, thank you then
If you don't want me to treat you like a witch
Then don't call me again
You can laugh as much as you want
I agree that I can't say anything in front of my stars
I've got a chance, I can't say anything
Relax
I'll try my best to stop your stars from falling
Okay, I'll try
I heard that you agreed for Shanila
No, who told you?
Nigaar was telling me
No, it's not like that
The proposal has come but I haven't decided anything yet
But Nigaar is saying that you agreed for Shanila
You agreed for Shanila?
You know that Nigaar is used to talking nonsense
What can I say about her?
Yes, she has started talking nonsense
She talks so much for Kashf
It makes me very sad
Yes, yes
She says that you don't want to live in her house for Kashf
She is your son-in-law, right?
If you'll marry her, then how will your old age pass?
Nigaar really likes to talk nonsense
He doesn't have any fear at all
I always pray that if there is a good proposal then I'll marry my daughter
And Nigaar
Tell me, which mother will be happy by keeping her son at home?
Why do you need to tell me? I know everything
But the reason why you refused to see these proposals is this
This is why people got the chance to believe what Nigaar said
Okay, take care of yourself
I'll come again
Okay, bye
Okay
Mother, you wanted to say something to her, right?
You just listened to her
What do I say to her?
I didn't have any answer to anything she said
It's my personal matter whether to marry or not
Who is father's wife to interfere in this?
No one can be caught Kashf
They say whatever comes to their mouth
I tried to make you understand a thousand times
But you don't care about your mother's pain
Mother, don't say that
You know very well that I care about your problems
But if my heart doesn't listen to marriage then what should I do?
You don't do anything
Just see your mother being humiliated by people
Don't worry
Just see your mother being humiliated by people
I'll go
Abraar has praised that girl a lot
He said he knows her from her university days
She's a very nice and decent girl
How many centuries have passed since her university days?
And four to six years are not enough to know someone
You know about Abraar
He has five minutes for Zaroon to talk to him
It's not like that
He will never praise a girl like that
Especially for Zaroon he can't praise a girl he doesn't know
You know very well about Abraar's feelings for Zaroon
Why don't you tell Abraar to make Zaroon understand?
Marriage is not a game of dolls
It's a matter of life
I can't give Abraar reasons like yours to not marry
Why?
What are my reasons illogical?
Life has passed
I've seen a lot
A person wants to save his children from wrong decisions and wrong experiences
That's what I'm doing
Zaroon is very smart
I can see that
No matter how blind he is, he gets into a lot of trouble in the matter of marriage
He will never make such a decision based on superficial things
But if he had to show such emotion, he would have shown it in Asmara's matter
That's why I think he must have seen a quality in that girl
Because of which he wanted to marry that girl
My heart gets scared when you talk like this
I'm telling you to make Zaroon understand
You're trying to make me understand
Look Ghazala, we can't control our children
We can choose whether they like it or not
We can object to them
But we can't tell them to decide their life according to our will
Look, they have their own life
They have grown up so much that they can understand their good and bad
What are you doing?
I'm making coffee
Should I make it for you?
Good and bad?
You look happy
I'm not happy
But I'm satisfied
With what?
I've decided
What decision?
Of marriage
With Zaroon?
Yes
Of marriage
With Zaroon?
With Asmara
Hello?
Hello Kashif?
How are you?
I'm fine, how are you Asmara?
I'm fine
I was just busy
Why?
Did you get a new assignment at the office?
No, I've taken a new assignment in my life
I didn't understand
I'm getting married
I'm busy preparing for that
Okay, congratulations
Thank you
You have to come
With the whole family
Why won't they come if you invite them?
Of course
You must be their chief guest
And that too with Zaroon
Okay, bye
It's fine
He won't sit for you, right?
He proposed to you
And you refused without thinking
So he won't come to convince you
He's not Zaroon, right?
He did the right thing
He did the right thing by using his second option
And cut the first option
Don't regret
I don't have any regrets
Yes
Why would you have regrets?
Regrets are just stupid
I've never considered myself smart
I didn't consider myself smart
Marriage is your first wisdom
Look, I'm telling you the truth
I don't have any regrets
It's good that he's getting married
I was ready to marry him only because of your pressure
By the way, I never liked Usama as a husband
Kashf, who do you like?
Especially those men who look like poison to you
Who like you because of some stupidity
I don't like anyone
All these men are very selfish
They have their own reasons to like someone
They don't call it love
Okay, tell me
Do you believe in love or not?
No
If you don't believe in love, then you can't identify it
I have no interest in these things
Please
Now you and mother don't talk about marrying me
I'm very happy and satisfied with my life
And I don't want this happiness and satisfaction to end
Hello
Yes, Zaroor and Junaid are talking
Yes, I'm talking
Who are you talking to?
I'm talking to Sidra
I'm Kashf's…
Yes, yes, yes
How are you?
I recognized you
How are you?
I'm fine, how are you?
I'm fine
Are you busy right now?
No, no, not at all, you tell me
Actually, I wanted to talk to you for a long time
But it so happened that we couldn't talk
I also wanted to talk to you for a long time
But I didn't have your contact number
This is my number, save it
Yes, I'll save it
By the way, can you come to our house for tea one day?
Yes, of course I can
Whenever you want
Are you in Karachi right now?
No, no, I'm in Islamabad
But I keep coming on weekends
If you want, can I come this weekend?
This weekend?
Yes, definitely
Why are you people calling Zaroor?
What nonsense is this?
I don't want to marry him
Why are you people calling him?
So he doesn't want to marry you forcibly
What do you want to do?
We'll meet him, we'll see him
And then if it suits him, we'll meet his parents too
What objection do you have with this?
I've already told you everything about him without meeting him
He's not a good person, Sidra
So let us also meet him and see how bad he is
There is no question
I don't want him to come to our house and meet you people
He should know about my background
He should know about father
I won't let him get away with this
On which he'll hurt me even more
I've made my own respect in the eyes of people with so much difficulty
Let him be as he is
Kashif, I've already told him everything about us
And I don't think he'll change his attitude
I didn't find him to be an immature person
And if he was immature, he already knew about our class difference
Why did he show interest in you?
You people didn't respect me in front of him
When I don't want to marry him
Then why do I feel sad to call him and meet him?
What would he think about me?
That on one hand I refuse to get married
And on the other hand my family invites him to my house
I made my own respect with so much difficulty
And he told everything to Zahroon
Now I don't know who all he'll tell about my family background
In his hands, it's like another weapon has come
To hurt me and harm me
To make fun of me
We are very simple people dear
I've brought up my daughters with a lot of money
And I've brought them up
In our society, a girl is seen only as a girl's honor while getting married
Rest of the things are a matter of time
Face, face, house, money, money
The honor can't be changed, right?
Yes
Sidra had told me about you
Would it have been better if you had brought your parents as well?
No?
What I mean to say is that you did the right thing by coming here
With this excuse, I met you and saw you
Whenever you people come, I'll bring my parents
But believe me, they have no objection to this marriage
I think the real problem is Kashf's consent
By the way, Kashf never mentioned anything about you to me
Maybe she did it to Sidra
I also wish that
That Kashf doesn't make any decision without Kashf's consent
Look aunty
I promise you that Kashf will never have any problem with me
And neither will you have any right to make any decision about me
You're just having tea?
Have something else as well
Yes, yes
Have some kebabs
Thank you
For the first time in my life, I felt very embarrassed hearing the word honor
I never thought that I would have to prove my honor along with my capabilities
I will have to
Maybe in life, the degrees taken from high officials and the labels of a big family don't work
In some places, small things hold a lot of importance
Or maybe the people I'm calling small things
They are not small things because of their importance
Anyway
Shut up
Good?
Good
The boy is nice
But we don't have any connection with him
They are very rich
Mom, what is this?
We didn't invite him
He came to our house himself
And then we didn't have any connection with my in-laws
And now where Shahneela is about to get married, they are also financially good
Yes, but dear
But dear
Your in-laws knew us and we knew them a long time ago
And where Shahneela is about to get married, your in-laws know them
But none of us know Zaroor's family, dear
Sir, Abraar knows mom and he is also bailing out Zaroor
And then mom, it's about our fate
But dear
You think that maybe Kashf's fate has such a big and good family
And look at Zaroor as well
He is so nice
He has no attitude
He is very happy
I think he and Kashf will get a very nice couple
I hope that's the case, dear
She was a middle class girl at first
She was an average looking girl
She used to live in lower income area and now her father is getting married again
Zaroor, you have also chosen and selected
I'm really amazed
I don't know what else will come out about their family
Nothing will come out, mom
If Kashf's father got married again, it's his personal problem
Why should I judge Kashf on the basis of that?
And let me tell you, I really appreciate your honesty
He hasn't hidden anything from me until now
So what other option did he have?
He only had one option
That he would tell you everything honestly
And give you an impression of his honesty
I'm not stupid
But you are
You are the one who thinks so
Look dear
Tomorrow you have to spend your life with Kashf
If there is any problem with her background
It will have an effect on you
It won't make any difference to us
You keep this in your mind
Dad, I understand that
And I'm telling you, his family is really a very good family
Despite all the shortcomings in their life, they are good and honest people
And tomorrow I have to marry Kashf
She has to be a part of our family, not hers
Zaroor, you are busy preparing for a wedding
Whose success I don't see any possibility
I'm not saying this because I have a disagreement with that girl's family
I'm saying this because I know you
I know you
You don't have the ability to make adjustments and compromise
If you could have been able to adjust, you would have been able to adjust with Asmara
Anyways
You are fond of doing adventures
You are fond of being a socialist
Alright then
Go ahead, be my guest
Best of luck to you
Now that's not fair
She is discouraging me
No, no
She is warning you
That the implication of mismatched marriage can be so dangerous
Dad, please
Sometimes even perfect matchmaking changes into mismatched marriages
You know that
There is no guarantee of life
And the predictions we make about life are never true
Kashf, I liked Zaroor the moment I saw him
Yes
You liked him the moment he was with me on my birthday
There is nothing new about that
You like every good looking man
And you don't like every good looking man
We are talking about Zaroor
I'm also talking about Zaroor
The bad things I heard about him from you
I thought he would have at least two scenes
He would have long teeth like Dracula
One of which would be bleeding
And he would have two eyes that would be spinning all the time
But he turned out to be so pleasant and decent
He was quiet all the time
He was only listening to us
And you guys got impressed?
This is all nonsense and drama
He is not as straightforward and obedient as he has posed to you
And he is not as bad as you have shown in front of everyone
Sidra, I know him very well
I have spent two years with him
And whatever you have heard about him
Either you have heard it from me or you have heard it from him
Kashf, you are very biased about him
Yes, I am
Did he tell mother about Asmara?
Yes, he told everything that you told me
In fact, he told more than that
And still you people consider him very suitable for me
Very much
Why?
Because I think he can be a very good life partner
This is my assessment
I don't agree with you
Even mother has the same opinion about him that I have
Yes, so mother can also be wrong
Yes, mother can also be wrong
Even I can be wrong
Then you can also be wrong
It is not written anywhere that your opinion about others is always right
I found him sincere and very serious about you
Mother also found him family and polite
And after meeting him, I didn't like your old opinion about him
Hey
Hi
I wanted to thank you
For what?
I have heard that you have supported me a lot with mother
Actually, I have supported mother more than you
What do you mean?
The way you are, it is very risky to get you married anywhere
And when the risk is so big, then you shouldn't take it
That is why I convinced mother that she can do whatever you want
Okay, still thank you
And I will try to fulfill your expectations in the future
This is not in your hands
Hmm
But I am very interested in seeing how you make an educated professional woman a cow of God
Who told you that I want to make her a cow of God?
So do you want to make Margaret Thatcher?
And didn't you find a better example than this?
I have a lot of examples, but you will mind
Do you want tea?
Oh thank you
Good
Thank you
I don't know why everyone thinks so negatively about me
Why everyone believes that my marriage failed?
And now I am really getting nervous
I never thought that my own family has such a low opinion about me
Kashif is still not ready to get married
And here everyone is more interested in knowing when the divorce will happen
Am I the odd one now?
Or a social misfit?
I don't know
I am not supporting Zaroor without any reason, Kashif
If I didn't think of him as a good person, then knowing your character, I would have never thought about your marriage
Neither your character nor your thinking
Sir, he is a very useless man
You know about his university activities
In fact, you know him better than I do
Even after knowing all this, I can never imagine
That my marriage can be with a person who has thousands of girlfriends
Kashif, he has changed a lot
Everyone in the university and colleges thinks like this
I have never thought like this
That is why he likes you to that extent
He is lying sir
I am just a challenge for him
I am just a challenge
Man changes with time Kashif
He has improved
He has changed
He will change after marriage
He will get better
A man never gives a woman a chance to marry him and be a good person
Then why does a woman expect a man to give her a chance?
Why shouldn't I see how my husband's reputation is before getting married?
Why should I take a risk?
Especially when I know him very well
Marriage is nothing but a risk Kashif
Sometimes everything is fine even if a fly flies in front of you
And sometimes an angelic person, a good person
When he finds out, he turns out to be very bad
Everything goes on
Look
Look, I will not pressurize you
I will not insist
But I just want you to meet him once
Listen to him
Yes
Greetings sir
Greetings
Zaroor
Kashif, I called Zaroor so that you two can talk
And after this, we will accept whatever decision you make
No one will pressurize you
Sit
Greetings sir
Greetings
Zaroor, tea or coffee?
Food
First you and Kashif talk
Maybe after that your hunger will die
I will send tea for you
And now these two hours will eat my brain
Long explanations, arguments
I am not like this
I am not like that
I have never done this
I have never done that
Cleanses
Explanations
And then a long list of false promises
These men are so typical
Kashif
First of all, I am sorry for everything that caused you any complaints or hurt you
I don't have anything else to apologize for
But if you believe me, I promise you won't regret it
That's it?
That's all you will say to me?
Nothing else?
I cannot make you believe in my goodness
Neither will I present any argument nor will I explain anything
Because I know that I cannot convince you about something that you don't know
But I want to tell you one thing
I am helpless because of the feelings in my heart for you
I don't know when I fell in love with you
When I liked you
When I started loving you
When my life started looking incomplete without you, I don't know
But I do know that I want to correct my mistakes
I want to keep you happy and that's it
If you refuse after this, I will consider myself to be the most unfortunate person in the world
But I must have lost that girl who is very special to me because of my stupidity
The decision is in your hands
You accept me and reject me, so the choice is yours
What are you doing?
I am sorry
What are you doing?
I am sorry
What did you two talk about?
He must have made a lot of promises
What did you ask him?
What happened at Sir Abrahar's house that you agreed like this?
Nothing happened
He didn't say anything
He didn't ask anything
It was just a few things and that's it
How is it possible that you agree without winning anything?
How did you change your mind?
What was so special about those few things?
A cup of tea
There was a cup of tea
It was going to fall on my hand but it saved me
What kind of a strange thing has happened?
Kashif, is this why you agreed?
For the first time in my life, someone has become my shield
Someone has cared for me
He let the tea fall on his hand
So?
But he didn't let it fall on my hand
What's so special about that Kashif?
How many people are there in life who don't let hot tea fall on us?
Kashif, you are very strange
But you are also very deep
You are very deep
There is nothing deep
Only fear and disbelief
By the way, I already knew that there is a place for him in your heart
You definitely love him
Why did you agree?
How did you agree?
I was thinking about a long question and answer
But he didn't ask me anything
He didn't give me any guarantee or assurance
There is some strange problem with me
He didn't give me any assurance
There is some strange problem with me
He didn't agree, so he was restless
And if he agreed, then he is doubtful
This is so beginning to sound like a diary of a mad man
I hope not
Point of difference
Again
Point of difference
Life is another name for impossibilities
Impossible, coincidences, incidents
And we don't have any control over any of them
At least this is what I believe
And now there is more to this belief
Zaroon Junaid will be a part of my life
Zaroon
Zaroon Junaid
My husband
I will marry him
I will spend my whole life with him
Oh my God
What have I done?
What will I do now?
Thank you
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