life
mom, my result has come
of the CSS?
mom, my 18th position has come
I love her a lot, really
but I can't take tension for 24 hours in the name of marriage
I'm sorry
mom, you should make Sara understand
tell her about the importance of marriage & husband
being a career woman, doesn't mean that she should treat her husband like this
Saroon, I've had enough
I don't want to talk about it anymore
I'm not going to live with that man
I'll wait for mom, when she'll come I'll talk to her
and then, I'm filing for divorce
you can tell her
that, the way she used to go to every place after getting tired
the same way, I'll go to Lahore
if she has to do something, then she should do it for you
we've learned to fly now
there is no need to care about them
I've got this objection, that you go out alone with your girl & boy friends, without informing me
I had called you, but your phone was switched off
well, that's not a good enough excuse
you could have sent me an SMS
I could have called you back
mind you Asmara, it's not a good excuse to keep me in the dark
you've worked so hard on your daughters
you've made their lives
daughters are there in every family
every family has a burden
daughters, there isn't any burden, but they are made
you know very well, that how much importance you've to keep in front of me
no Asmara
I don't want to keep any importance in front of you
because, if I would have kept it, then we wouldn't have been discussing this issue again & again
if we share anything with each other, then why do we have this objection in front of you?
there isn't any objection
but, it's a matter of objection for me to discuss this topic again & again
it really puts me off
I don't understand, why do you have such a narrow minded & rigid thinking
I really fail to understand
when I had told you, that I'll become a perfect man in my life
I've got flaws
Asmara, when had I ever committed to you, that I'll agree to everything of yours in my life
no matter how stupid I feel
since when you've started to think like a typical male chauvinist?
I don't know, what kind of thinking you've started to think like a typical male chauvinist
I don't like being a liberal of women, & you already know about this
and I don't like it at all, that any girl leaves with any guy
he isn't any guy, he is my very old friend
you know him, & you've met him
yes Asmara, I know him very well
that's why, I've got objection on your comparison with him
I've never had such a objection before
then, you weren't my fiancée
I'm your fiancée, but I'm not your servant
if you think this as a servant, then don't say anything
because, this isn't a matter of rationality
right!
what do you want?
that I should keep moving my head in front of you, like a cow or a buffalo
I should agree to everything of yours
if I leave my friend, then you'll start to say something sensible to me
Asmara, I don't have objection on meeting your friends
I've said this to you many times
but I really minded, that when you meet such people, that I don't like at all
but I like them, because they are my very old friend
and there is nothing wrong with that
what do you want?
I should only make friends with those people, with whom I get your mindset
with whom you like, with whom I don't have any compatibility at all
that's what I want
Asmara, I want you to decide
that what is more important for you
my likes or dislikes, or your likes or dislikes
because if we don't cooperate, then we won't be able to solve this problem
did you talk to Zara?
yes, I did
and in a lot of detail
she doesn't want to go back
till Farhan doesn't come & talk to her himself
and doesn't make her believe
she & we both
what kind of belief?
after knowing all this, you should have an idea
that what kind of a test you need to do
look, Qadar
I had talked to Farhan in your absence
and after listening to him, I have become ashamed
Sara is behaving like a child
I mean, I should spoil this further situation
by making a condition that Farhan should come here
and apologize to Sara first
and give her permission to do all that she wants to do
then what do you think, this way the problem will be solved?
if Farhan had any complaints against Sara
then he should have talked to Sara
does he bring his story in front of every third or fourth person?
he didn't talk to any third or fourth person
he has talked to Zaroon, who is his brother
he has talked to you & me, who are his parents
so, what is the problem in this?
I don't understand
that why you both, father & son are favoring her so blindly
you have no sympathy with your daughter
and that person is sympathizing with her
who has made your daughter's life hell
hmm
I should destroy my daughter's life by sending her to her father's house
like you are doing
I am her mother
which mother would want her daughter's house to break?
you are trying to say that whatever Sara is doing, she is doing it because of me
I am giving her wrong suggestions
so that she gets separated from Farhan
is this what you want to say?
the biggest problem of this house is that
no one wants to listen to anyone
why they don't listen?
I am listening, right?
shall we talk?
look, brother Khogal
we don't have to support our daughter on this stage
the problem will get worse
we should find a solution
which will patch up both of them
and what will be the terms of this patch up?
hmm?
on these terms
that Sara should get locked up in the house
that she should serve Farhan like a maid
that Sara should do whatever Farhan wants
according to you, if this is called living in a house
then please, it is better not to live in such a house
hmm, you are absolutely right
the preparations are almost done
you just complete your work
and keep your health well, please
yes, the weather is very bad these days
yes, that is true
okay, Naima
I will talk to you later
and we will meet again tomorrow at 10 o'clock
okay?
okay, bye
what happened, dear?
are you feeling well?
I am fine but I am not in a good mood
what happened to my daughter's mind?
not my mind, but Zaroon's mind is not in a good mood
what did Zaroon do?
now see, this is also something to talk about
he doesn't like everything about me
I have uploaded pictures on Facebook and he was objecting to those
I mean, I told him that he doesn't like them so much
so I didn't look at him
you are absolutely right
I don't understand what has happened to him
earlier, he used to go everywhere with me
but now, he doesn't go everywhere with me
so I can't leave my friends, right?
he has become so rude
I don't understand what has happened to Zaroon
he wasn't like that before
you both had such a good understanding
hmm, I think that everything was fake
dear, is there any other problem?
what problem?
maybe, it is about some other girl
hmm
I have told you
you should get Hammad's admission in a big university
my son won't do masters from any other university
if he will do MA, then from a good place
like your daughters had gone to study
whatever the girls have done, they have done it with their hard work
and your son has also done his graduation in second division
he won't get admission in any good university
I am not asking you to get admission on merit
I am asking you to find some recommendation
which recommendation do I have?
who is in Lahore or in Hyderabad?
I haven't asked you to get admission in any engineering university or medical college
I have asked you to get MA directly
what is the problem in that?
why don't you understand the matter?
why do you do this deliberately?
and even in Karachi university, you can't get admission like this
either you get it in merit
or you get a very big recommendation
merit is not in your son, and I don't have any recommendation
you have asked Kashif, right?
he is working in government job
he must know a lot
he will do so much for his brother
I won't say anything to Kashif
because I haven't done anything for those three daughters
now you are sitting here like a dead man
what haven't you done?
you have done everything
and what if you haven't done it?
you are a father, right?
just talk to Rafia or Kashif once
you say that you have a lot of respect in that house
if you say so, then she won't refuse
Zaroor
what happened to you?
are you interested in some other girl?
what do you mean by this question?
look, don't be upset
you have started to look very unhappy with me
you have an objection on everything I do
you stop me on everything
if you are not happy with this engagement, if you are not happy with this relationship
then tell me
you don't have to go on with this
but
deliberately
don't do such things and don't make me hate you
Asmara, if I would have been interested in some other girl
then I would have told you clearly
I wouldn't have lied to you
why aren't you ready to accept that if there is a problem in our relationship
then it is because of your lifestyle and attitude
there is no other third girl's interference
Zaroor, what is happening to you?
do you know how much I love you?
our relationship is not so weak
that it is affected by my lifestyle
Asmara, love is never unconditional
it is not possible that you don't care about my likes and dislikes
and that the relationship doesn't get affected
I try to make you understand again and again
that I don't believe in the concept of women's freedom
which you practice
and you are not even ready to listen to me
Zaroor
when you talk like this
then you sound like a complete retard and a hypocrite
okay Asmara, I am a hypocrite
but I am telling you clearly
that I don't have that stamina to run this relationship
the kind of relationship that always happens in my house
and because of which I have suffered
what are you saying?
your mother is a very wonderful and strong woman
the way she has kept your house
the way she has given you the care
she has never left anything missing
and yet you have this objection?
what are you talking about?
Asmara, I will not give you a briefing on the condition of my house
I just want to tell you that I don't want to build a house like the one I had built from my parents
and if you don't understand this
then I cannot force you and I don't want to do it
it would be better if you think about it calmly
it would be better if we are separated like good friends
instead of saying bad things to each other like bitter partners
okay
did you call me?
yes
come
sit
are you going somewhere?
no, I am going for a walk
good
I got a call from Abraham
oh really?
how is he?
he is fine
I wanted to talk to you about Asmara
about me and Asmara?
what do you mean?
Asmara had some complaints against you
she had called me to discuss about it
I said if this is the case, then bring her for dinner
let's discuss it face to face
she said she will tell me on the weekend
I want to ask you that what is the problem between you and Asmara?
the same thing that is there between Farhan and me
the same thing that is there between you and your mother
I didn't understand
dad
Asmara wants to live life according to her will
she wants to live life according to her will
she doesn't care about my choice or not
I am feeling sorry for you after listening to Abraham's call
that you put restrictions on Asmara
she is in her parents house right now
she will live according to her parents way
the day she will come to your house as your wife, she will live according to your way
sorry dad, but I don't think so
but I was sure that Asmara will live according to my will or this house way after marriage
anyways, leave this dad
to be very frank, I don't like this house way as well
say it
what is wrong with this house way?
dad, there is no problem
but I don't want to bring a wife in this house who will adopt Asmara or her mother's lifestyle
dad, I have seen a lot of things in the last one to one and a half years that I have spent on my job or on my training
I have seen a lot of things in the last one to one and a half years that I have spent on my job or on my training
and because of this, my insecurities have increased
I am not saying that I want to bring a wife in this house who will become a prisoner of this house
but I don't want her to consider me as her servant in the name of freedom
I think it would be better that you discuss all these things with Ibrahim uncle and share my point of view
we had done a very loving relationship
we have known each other for so long and the kids have grown up together
I thought that if we get married then it will be a very good marriage
but maybe my thought was wrong
Samra, we ourselves didn't understand how the differences between Zaroor and Asmara increased
we thought that they were small fights
maybe, this was our mistake
my wish is that both of them get married and all the differences should be removed
this is my wish as well, Ibrahim
but I don't think that they will show any interest in these differences
Samra, please make Asmara understand
Ghazala, what do I make her understand?
she doesn't have any fault
you people are so broad minded
I don't understand how your son is so narrow minded
look, he is not narrow minded
but he thinks about some matters in his own way
she is our only daughter
I would never want our daughter to get married to a guy who won't even let her out of the house after marriage
no Samra, it's not like that
Zaroor is not narrow minded
Junaid was saying that he is a bit conservative, that's it
we all will sit together and make him understand, I'm sure he will understand
look, a lot of things are not common before marriage
but a lot of matters get solved after marriage
maybe, you are absolutely right
but if there are so many problems before marriage, then what will happen after marriage?
I don't understand what your son is thinking
now he has created a new problem for us
he is not only mine, he is your son as well
he is my son for sure
but he has a lot of habits and his thinking is conservative like yours
extremely conservative
and we are bearing the consequences of that
if my thinking would have been conservative, then I would have made you sit at home first
and I would have never given you as much freedom as I have given you
for which I regret sometimes
especially after seeing the big shortcomings of my children
you have ignored them because of your profession
and because of which all this is happening
you have never blamed me like this before
today you have started to see shortcomings in my upbringing
however, you know very well that I have always given priority to my children
I have always kept their schooling and education as priority
if they have always been brilliant students, then it is because of me
and now you are blaming me
look, I am not blaming you
I am just pointing out the flaws that I can see in the upbringing of my children
good education and academic performance is a part of upbringing
Zaroor and Sahra are very good professionally
but they are deprived of the ability to make and run relationships and compromise
and their shortcomings are our fault
I don't believe
you are dragging Sahra into Zaroor's matter for no reason
whatever Sahra is doing, the decisions that she is making about her life are absolutely right
you are not ready to make Sahra understand
and Zaroor is not ready to understand what I am saying
both of you have the same problem
whether you believe it or not
Farhan, I have told you many times that I will not change myself for you
you have to change your thinking
but you don't take it seriously
you think that I am joking
that I will not take the step of divorce
yes
I used to think that our relationship is so strong
that you will not make a reason to break such small things
small things?
Farhan, whatever is small for you is very big for me
it is my basic right
it is your basic right to roam around with someone without informing your husband
you have come here to fight with me again, right?
no
I have come here to make the last attempt of the patch up
your parents had asked me to go to you and make an excuse so that you can take back the claim of your divorce
so I have come here
Sahra, I have made an excuse
and I think that this problem should end here
the problem can only end when you will change yourself
Sahra, I have told you that I am ready to listen to all your complaints
but for that you also need to show the same flexibility
the things on which I have an objection
on those things, even you...
I will not change myself, Farhan I have told you
you will have to adjust yourself according to me
and if you cannot do it
then I think that you don't need to hold this relationship any more
finish it
alright
let's do what you think is right
and you don't need to go to the court
lawyers can do their work in their office as well
I will ask my lawyer to prepare the divorce papers
and send them to you
fine
do that
by the way sister, you will have a lot of fun after the posting
which fun will I have?
here, won't you have fun?
you will get a car, a house, you will get a servant
he has to do my posting in some jungle in Sindh
it will be a house of two rooms
one car, with which one driver and a guard
I will get a salary of 25,000
I was getting it in the private sector better than this
if I would have stayed with the same job, then I would have got a package of 1 lac today
but sister, an officer is an officer
then why doesn't he travel in an old car from the 90s or 50s?
isn't it mother?
yes
this is our ill mentality
because of which people don't have any dream except to become a doctor, engineer or an officer
by the way, tell me a profession where you get so many awards
this is the job of the government, where you get a roof on your head as well
and you have to work for 24 hours for a roof on your head
everything is worth it, mother
you don't get anything for free
yes, you are right
no one gets anything for free
by the way, there are some people who get a lot of things for free
really?
whose words are you talking about?
Junaid, I will definitely try to make Zaroor understand
this problem cannot be solved in this manner
Asmara has to change her attitude as well
and no relationship can be formed without flexibility
I will make Zaroor understand once or twice
but I cannot change the thinking of an adult man
I can understand you
I agree with you
but I cannot do anything in Asmara's matter
I can ask her parents to make their daughter understand
but when I couldn't teach my daughter to compromise in any matter of a relationship
then what can I expect from another daughter?
has Asmara's problem not been solved?
instead of solving it, it has become even worse
Asmara is asking for a divorce
but why?
Farhan and Asmara's differences have reached to an extent
Farhan is a very good boy
he is very good mannered and he has a good habit
Farhan is not as guilty as Asmara
and I am helpless
Asmara is closer to Asmara
and Asmara always takes her side
Farhan's lawyer came to my office today
then?
he brought divorce papers along with him to settle the divorce matters
and what did he say about Sara's rights and other things?
he is ready to give her the rights
but if Sara is taking the divorce then we shouldn't take the rights
anyway, all the jewelry is in her locker
Farhan has asked me to get the dowry from there
yes, that's right
you can get it
in fact, I will go myself to get it
do you still have the dowry?
yes mom, I do
give it to me
I will bring a bag of things from there
child, think about your decision for the last time
Junaid, Sara has already made the decision and she has thought a lot about it
now please let this matter get over
fine
I think you are actually confused
I don't know, I think you are actually confused
and I also think that you are quite insecure about your life partner
I think you are afraid that you won't be able to dominate your wife
the thing that surprises me is that how an educated and liberal person like you can have such narrow minded thoughts?
okay Asmara, I agree that I am confused and very insecure
but I don't want to dominate my wife at all
I just don't want my wife to get the freedom that Sara and her mother have
and only because I have always seen that my house, my father, my family has been affected by these things
yes but Asmara, she is not a working woman like your mother
at least you shouldn't have any complaints about this
yes Osama, she is not a working woman
but she is much more independent than my mother in terms of her thinking
at least my mother doesn't go anywhere with her male friends like Asmara does
but Zaroor, you were already aware of how independent Asmara is
you knew how she was and you knew how she was before you said yes to getting engaged to her
so why didn't you refuse her before?
I agree that I have made a mistake
I should have thought about it before making this decision
what kind of a girl do you want?
I don't have an ideal in mind
there must be some ideal on which you are judging her
on which you are ready to leave her on the basis of the ideals that you don't have
Osama, before you jump the gun
I would like you to know that I really like Asmara
and maybe I love her as well
and Zaroor, doesn't she know how to compromise your love?
no, she cannot compromise my love
then you cannot call this love
you know what I think? I think this is mere infatuation
Osama, I cannot marry a girl who is as independent as Asmara with men
so you want me not to be friends with your wife's son?
the issue is not about the friendship between men and women
the issue is about the level of frankness that she shows with men
which I find inappropriate
Zaroor, I think you are being a hypocrite
I have seen the same level of frankness myself with my female friends
yes, I do
I agree
and I don't want any man to comment on my wife in any sitting
that how she was dressed, how she was looking, how was her figure
I know that happens
and I don't want any labels to be attached with my wife
Zaroor, I really don't think that the kind of girl you want
there are such kind of girls nowadays
and if you think that there is such kind of girl
then show me one example
Kashf
Kashf, Kashf Murtaza
you are serious! let me remind you, this is the same Kashf Murtaza
whom you used to hate in the university
okay
I understand we had our differences
but I like our habits
and I can even quote this in front of anybody
Zaroor, I have seen a lot of stupid people in the world
but to be honest, I haven't seen a stupid person like you
you know what? I actually think that you are confused
if you weren't confused, you wouldn't quote Kashf Murtaza
Osama, I am giving you an example
I'm not telling you about my likes and dislikes
yes, but this matter was in your subconscious, right?
if it wouldn't have been there, then you wouldn't have been comparing Kashf & Asmara
Baran
this isn't the matter that you are thinking
Come to think of it, Kashf has really been a part of my subconscious for so many years
Osama is also fine
but why did I compare Asmara with him?
is it that despite being a dislike, that woman is very close to the ideal that I like?
or is this also okay with Osama?
am I too confused?
or am I afraid of a new commitment and relationship?
I don't know
hi!
this is a nice place
child, aren't you too busy?
I don't get too busy on weekends
sit down
there is no social life here, everything closes at 8 or 9
it's a small city
that's why we have to look for some activity in the house
it's good, Kashf
you will get a sense of home
mom, I don't have any interest in home
I just want to keep my house clean
Shalila was saying that she will come with you, why didn't she come?
child, if she can, then she can come on every weekend
but it's her studies, there will be a problem with her studies
she would have brought her, she would have spent the weekend and gone back
you know her habits, she is like a child
she comes on weekends and stays here
okay, shall I order tea?
yes, sure
let me sit
was your father sending you greetings, child?
he was asking a lot about you
in fact, he was asking you to come
Hammad was trying his best to come along with me
he really wants to see your government house
leave him mom, let him stay
with whom?
you know whom I am talking about
Kashf child, please forgive your father
have you forgiven your father?
yes
did he ask for forgiveness from you?
I really hate people's hypocrisy
you know, I only like those people who don't want to end their enmity with others
they don't want to end it
oh Kashf
what does this mean?
sometimes, I don't find you to be at all sensible
it doesn't seem that you are so well educated, you are standing on your feet
you are on such a big post
why? what did I say?
oh child
people's attitude changes as soon as the situation changes in life
and maybe, a person tries to change his situation
so that people's attitude becomes better
I will never forgive my father
I don't have any respect for him
do you know child, he knows this
he knows that he has no role in your life
he also knows that he has no part in the success of his daughters
and this is very painful for any father
and maybe, this is the biggest punishment for him
he has no role in his daughters life
but if you still want to punish him then
I don't have any interest in punishing my father, mother
he is not the focus of my life anymore
he doesn't even hurt me anymore
everything has its time
and when a person learns to fly
then there is no need to hold someone's finger and walk
that's why I say child
forgive your father
mother, it is important for him to say this to me himself
but he will never say it
he has no shame, no shame, no guilt
nothing
and do you know mother, what is the most painful thing?
he is just a typical man
narrow minded, selfish
selfish
and the fact that the responsibility of the problems that come in our life
is not our society
it was my own father
and this thing hurts me the most
I just want to reduce your pain, child
I cannot do this now, mother
this thing that you are trying to do
it will increase my pain
all my life, father is busy in his life
he is happy with his wife and children
so I want him to keep his attention there even now
now don't try to share your father's affection
wonderful, thank you father
and how do you feel about it?
it's great, we are really looking forward to it
here she is
Assalam o Alaikum
Walaikum Assalam
she is Kashif Murtaza
and he is Albert Mitchell
and Fiona Edwards
hello
Zaroon Junaid
he is a foreign office coordinator for us
hello
people have enjoyed the trip
yeah, it's been great
we are looking forward to the other day
should I write the number?
write the number of the office
what will I do by writing the number of the office?
aren't you available 24 hours in the morning?
I am not available even on the phone in 24 hours
alright
if you are not available
I will call Mr. Ajad
don't threaten me
I am not threatening you
it's very good to see you after a long time
I am very happy
I didn't get it
write the number
say it
take this