Mom, its a very good job. You'll get a package of 50 plus and they'll give you a conveyance as well.
Really? Thank God.
You don't know what are the headaches and the hustles of doing a job.
Come on, I'll see.
And you'll stay in Lahore. We won't get upset without you.
Congratulations. Its your daughter's wedding.
If you've fixed the proposal and all the other things, then what difference will it make whether I come or not?
You look very good. Mr. Qazi is here for the wedding.
And the boy?
He's not here. And he might not be at the wedding hall as well.
I hope this isn't something new.
Anyway Ismara, the bottom line is that I don't like you going with the boys late at night at the concert.
Okay Zahroon, you don't like him but I like him. And this is my life and I make rules for myself. Do you hear that?
Good night.
Dad, where do you get the time to talk to anyone on the phone?
After completing so many assignments, I get so tired that I can't talk to anyone on the phone till late at night.
Hmm.
Except for talking to Ismara, till late.
At least she has discipline in her life.
Discipline has come.
This is not discipline. Look at her health. Don't you get anything to eat there?
Why are you laughing?
You're talking like a typical mother. That's all.
I just want to say that it feels weird to hear such things from you.
Anyway, I'm not typical. I'm a mother. Can't I be concerned?
What's wrong with you? It's the limit.
Will you tell me, what happened when Mr. Naveez met you in Lahore?
I couldn't meet him but I talked to him on the phone.
Okay.
He was saying hello.
Oh.
Please give it to me.
Here you go.
Here you go dear.
Oh mother, why didn't you bring it? I could have made it for myself.
Why would you have made it for yourself? I like your work.
And anyway, there is no one in the house for whom I have to do so much work.
You're also a guest for a few days.
You'll give a test here and go to Lahore there.
Then where will I get a chance to do something for you?
Oh mother, you're saying as if I'll give a test today and go to Lahore tomorrow.
I don't know how many more problems will come.
And I don't even know if I'll pass or not.
Why do you say so dear, that whether you'll pass or not?
You should have faith in God. Everything will be fine.
And you're lucky dear. You're intelligent and hardworking.
You'll surely succeed.
Mother, there are bribes and recommendations.
Here everything is not done on merit.
That intelligence and hard work come in handy.
Yes.
There are recommendations.
There are bribes.
Anyway, it doesn't mean that one shouldn't trust one's self dear.
I feel as if you don't trust God anymore.
My faith in God is not weak.
This is the condition of my faith in every person and thing, mother.
Because your faith in God is weak.
That's why your faith in every person is weak.
Thank you.
Hmm.
Your and Asmara's conversation has stopped.
Zaroor, I want to ask you something.
Yes.
Why?
I just told you that my conversation is over.
What's your problem now?
Come on, Zaroor.
When will you stop talking such stupid things?
Never.
You know what?
I never knew that there are so many issues of compatibility between you and Asmara.
I don't know either.
What kind of a girl do you want to marry?
If you have a problem with Asmara's lifestyle, then nothing can be done about it.
You'll find every girl like this in our circle.
You see, that's the problem.
What should I tell my husband when this is the condition in my house?
All you men are the same.
Why do you guys have an issue with a woman?
Especially with a woman who must have been in a relationship.
Asmara, tell me.
Why does every woman use freedom to challenge the ego and authority of a man all the time?
You won't understand my point and I won't understand yours.
That's why let's end this discussion here.
I was just making you friends with Asmara.
Why don't you realize that?
Sara, I'll make friends with Asmara but not on her terms and conditions.
That means this fight will go on more?
Yes.
Like the fight between you and Farhan.
Look, don't relate your situation to my and Farhan's situation.
We have another issue.
Why?
The basis of my and Asmara's issue, I think that's the basis of your and Farhan's issue.
I give up.
No one can help you.
So what should I say to Asmara?
Nothing.
Miss Rehana?
Yes?
I have seen all your assessment papers.
You should also take a look.
Okay madam.
Then we will sit and discuss this in two hours.
Okay.
Thank you.
Hello?
Yes?
What is it?
Hello?
Hello mother?
Kashf?
What is it?
Are you crying?
Mother?
What happened dear?
Why are you making me cry?
Are you feeling okay?
Mother, I have got the result.
Of the CSS?
Yes.
So dear, what is there to cry about?
What is there to cry about?
Give me another test next year.
If God wills.
You will definitely pass next year.
Mother, I have got the 18th position.
18th position?
Mother, why are you crying?
This is not something to cry about.
No dear, I am not crying.
I am very happy.
God bless you.
Okay, you come.
What do you have?
Sweets.
Where did you get it?
I didn't get it from anywhere.
I brought it.
Why did you bring sweets?
I went to Rafay aunty.
She gave it to me.
Do you know?
Kashf sister has passed the test of the competition.
Which test did she pass?
The test of the competition.
Do you know?
Now she will become assistant commissioner.
Now who told you this?
Rafay aunty told me.
She also gave me this sweet.
I have eaten a lot from there.
She said, take it.
You have to feed it to your family as well.
Yes, of course.
She had to send us sweets.
God has given her a chance to make us burn.
Hey mom, why will we burn?
And you have started eating sweets from everywhere.
I haven't eaten only sweets.
There was a lot of food made there today.
Kashf sister is coming, right?
So she fed me as well.
Okay.
So she fed me as well.
You always eat sweets of others.
Don't give us a chance to distribute sweets.
How can I give you a chance?
The test of BA is so far from here.
If you would have passed it, then why did you have to take a shot?
Now if she doesn't pass, then it's my fault.
Kashf has passed the test of the competition.
What?
So when did she pass the test?
How would I know?
Hammad was telling me.
He said that she has passed it with very good marks.
Now I have heard that she will get an assistant commissioner.
Assistant commissioner?
Call Hammad and ask him.
Hammad!
He is not at home.
And what do you want to ask him?
I am telling you everything.
No, I just wanted to confirm.
Really?
Did you get a good number?
Assistant commissioner?
She was capable from the beginning.
So?
So what?
So nothing?
Have samosa.
How is it?
Is it good?
Hello?
Yes, greetings aunty.
How are you?
Greetings son.
How are you?
I am fine.
How is Asmara's phone with you today?
Asmara has gone to Dubai today so she left her phone with me.
Really?
Is everything fine?
How did the program in Dubai turn out?
There is a show that she has gone to see with her friends.
Which friends?
There is a lot of sun son.
In which there is Nofil, Nadia, Faik, Zia.
There are a lot of kids.
Oh.
Okay.
Didn't she tell you?
If she had told me then why would I be asking you?
Oh.
You must have forgotten son.
Yes.
Or maybe she didn't find it important to tell me.
I don't understand.
Okay leave it.
Tell me when are you coming back?
When is Asmara coming back from Dubai?
Son Asmara has gone for a few days.
She will be back by the weekend.
Okay.
Good bye.
Okay son.
Good bye.
Okay.
Hello Mr. Murtaza.
Hello.
Congratulations.
Hello.
Congratulations.
For what are you congratulating me?
Here you go.
You have to become an officer now.
I will be your daughter's officer.
Oh.
Okay.
Congratulations.
Thank you very much.
If you have any work then we will come to you.
Okay.
I hope you don't turn your back on me after becoming a daughter's officer.
No.
You are my own son.
How can I turn my back on you?
You can come whenever you want.
If you don't want to do your work then whose work do you want to do?
This is the news about sweets Mr. Murtaza.
You will have to feed me sweets now.
Oh yes.
Mr. Anu I am going to get sweets.
I will make you eat sweets.
Your daughter has worked very hard.
She has worked very hard.
She has worked very hard with the children.
Only such wives and daughters are blessed.
Such daughters are very important to hundreds of sons.
Yes.
Absolutely.
You are absolutely right.
I am going to get sweets.
I will get sweets.
I will make you eat sweets.
Thank you very much.
Thank you.
Remember me.
Remember me in your prayers.
I am coming.
One minute.
Wait.
Yes?
You?
Come.
I brought this.
What is this?
Sweets.
Sweets?
But for what?
I got to know about Kashf.
Okay.
I was very happy.
You didn't tell me.
I was very happy.
You didn't tell me.
I thought I should congratulate you.
Congratulations.
But what was the need to bring sweets?
There is no one in the house who can eat sweets.
Why are you standing?
Please sit.
Sit.
How are you?
Where is Kashf?
She is at home.
She is sleeping.
Would you like to have tea?
No, thank you.
What would you like to have in a house where there is no respect?
Yes, tea.
Would you like to have tea?
Yes.
I will bring it.
Kashf?
Hmm?
Get up my child.
Father is here.
Whose father?
Your father.
Why is he here?
Get up my child.
I will make tea.
You go and sit with him.
What should I do by sitting with him?
Get up my dear.
Hasn't Kashf come?
No.
Really?
Actually she came late last night.
She was tired.
I will call her.
No, no.
No.
She is sleeping.
No, no.
I woke her up.
I will call her right away.
Get up my child.
Oh Kashf.
You just woke her up.
She is sleeping again.
Get up my child.
Get up.
He is waiting.
Go and sit with him.
Mother, what should I do by sitting with him?
I have come to congratulate you my child.
So you should congratulate him.
That's good my child.
Get ready quickly.
He has been waiting for you for two hours.
Come my child, come.
Come.
Is Sidra fine?
Yes, absolutely.
She is happy in her home.
Where does she live in America?
In Virginia.
Does she call?
Yes, yes.
She calls.
She talks almost every day.
I didn't know when she left.
No, I…
I would have come to meet her if I knew.
How are the studies of Shahneela going?
Greetings.
Greetings my child.
Come my child, sit here.
Sit.
You sit here.
How are you?
Are you fine?
Congratulations my child.
Thank you.
Hammad had told me last night.
It was quite late so…
I came straight here in the morning.
Did you work hard?
No my child.
What is there to work hard about?
When is your training starting?
It hasn't been announced since its date.
Did you get an education in DMG?
Yes.
God bless you.
You will have to go to Lahore for her training.
Yes.
There are a lot of people who know me in Lahore.
I will call you when you have to go.
God willing, they will take good care of you.
There will be no need for that.
Yes, yes.
You are right my child.
When you recognize your life,
it comes in handy when you need it.
Yes, absolutely.
Mom, when there is a need,
nothing comes in handy.
God bless you.
Oh, brother Farhan, how are you?
I am fine.
I am fine?
Did you hear?
We have been talking for a long time.
Let's go.
I also want to talk to you,
but instead of inside,
shall we go outside?
Let's go.
Let's sit inside for a while.
Let's go.
Come on, let's go.
I will make you tea.
Come on.
Okay.
How were you talking to him, my child?
What would he think?
What would he think, mom?
What would he think?
How was I talking to him?
You embarrassed him.
How did I embarrassed him?
You brought sweets,
you came to congratulate him.
You should have sat with him for two hours.
You should have talked to him.
Neither do I need his sweets,
nor did I congratulate him.
What would he say about your manners at home?
Mom, for the past seven to eight years,
I have been pushing so much,
that the thing called manners,
has completely disappeared from my mind.
And now I cannot show my manners
to the world.
Especially to those people,
who are responsible for poisoning our lives.
Oh my God, your son.
What should I do about it?
Look, my child,
when God gives respect in life,
then people should be forgiven.
So you are there for this work.
You do it.
I have not hurt anyone in my life,
nor can I make anyone happy.
I just want that dad,
stays at the same distance,
as he has always been.
Dad should remain as indifferent,
as he has always been.
But my child,
if there is a good change in him,
then what objection do you have?
Good change?
Sit down, my child.
If you want to hear the news of Afsari,
then his heart is filled with love for us.
And you want me to believe this white lie?
But my child,
this is how the world is.
I am not talking about the world, mom.
I am talking about my father.
Sanoon, I am feeling very embarrassed
when I talk to you about this issue.
And to be honest,
I didn't want to talk to you about this topic.
But now,
maybe I don't have any option left.
You,
I don't have any option left.
You,
want to talk to me about you and Sara.
This is a problem,
which I won't be able to find a solution to.
Farhan brother, I can understand your problem.
I really can.
And honestly speaking,
I have tried many times to talk to Sara about this issue.
But she is very stubborn.
She just doesn't listen to me.
Being Sara's stubborn is the biggest problem.
Sanoon,
I have never imposed any kind of restrictions on her.
I gave her complete freedom,
only because the trust between us could be established.
But now,
sometimes I feel that
she was my biggest strength.
To Sara,
there is no importance of anything between me and Misri.
What do I want from her?
What do I expect from her?
She just doesn't give a damn.
If I stop her from doing anything,
she comes and says the same thing.
And if I don't stop her,
the entire system of the house gets disturbed.
I also didn't know that
she would become so irresponsible.
Otherwise…
Look Sanoon,
I want to fulfill this marriage, seriously.
But I don't understand how to fulfill this marriage.
With Sara's attitude…
Brother Farhan, I am…
What do you want from me?
Just that you are her brother and close to her.
Please,
try to make her understand.
I love her a lot, really.
But in the name of marriage, I can't take tension for 24 hours.
I am sorry.
Please,
try and understand.
Tell me the truth.
You went to Rafia's house, right?
Now don't lie to me.
What is the need for me to lie?
Yes, I went.
I already knew it.
How can I stop you?
What is the problem in this?
My daughter has done her CSS.
I went to congratulate her.
What is wrong in this?
And those mother and daughters must not have talked to each other.
You have mercy.
Why shouldn't they talk to each other?
I am her father.
I made her sit with respect,
gave her tea,
and asked her questions.
This is a miracle.
Why?
What is there to be a miracle about?
Did you meet Kashif?
Of course I did.
She was telling me that she is going to Lahore for training.
I said that I will go myself to drop my daughter.
Now I will go to Lahore with her.
I have a lot of friends,
a lot of acquaintances there.
I will take on their responsibilities,
but you have to take care of my daughter.
How is your daughter's love rising in your heart?
Yes,
she is the pride of all officers.
What do you mean?
Leave it.
I know very well what you mean.
Okay.
I can't tell you how embarrassed I feel in front of Farhan.
Farhan should be embarrassed.
How dare he speak to you about it?
Is he complaining about you about Sara?
He is complaining because Sara has forced him.
In fact, you have forced Sara.
Whenever he comes to complain about Sara in front of you,
you have always called him a liar.
I don't understand you both.
If you and Sara are not ready to listen,
then where will Farhan go?
This is a matter between Farhan and Sara.
Husband and wife decide such matters themselves.
And if they can't decide among themselves,
then shouldn't any of their relatives interfere from outside?
What do you want?
Should Sara's home be settled or not settled?
Did Farhan threaten you?
What will he threaten me with, mother?
Can't you see what is happening?
What kind of nonsense is Sara doing?
This will eventually happen.
Please try to understand,
every person is not like dad.
What do you mean?
I mean, if I don't have the stamina to tolerate Sara,
then Farhan is her husband.
Mother, you should make Sara understand.
Tell her about the importance of marriage and husband.
Being a career woman doesn't mean
that she treats her husband like this.
Saroon, I've had enough.
I don't want to talk about it anymore.
Thank you.
Excellent, child.
Kashf,
you've made me very happy today.
I'm so proud of you, child.
Well done.
Thank you, sir.
Now your training will start.
Yes, yes. It's starting right now.
Well done, child.
In the same way, work with honesty, hard work and dedication.
And yes,
with the same characteristics
that distinguishes you from others.
I will definitely remember your advice
and I will also try to act upon it.
Well done.
And yes,
if you ever need any work in life,
any work,
then I'm always there for you.
You know it.
Thank you, sir.
Really.
Have some tea.
Yes, please.
Mummy, we had an absolutely amazing time.
You should have come with us.
Really?
You didn't offer me. How could I have come?
I had offered you but you didn't come.
Come on, I'll come next time.
God willing.
Oh, I forgot to tell you that Saroon had called.
Really?
When?
The day you left.
That's strange.
He never calls when I'm here
and the day I leave, he decides to call.
What was he saying?
Nothing special.
He was just asking you.
Nothing special.
Okay, I'll call him after breakfast.
So good to see you.
Good to see you too.
For the first time in my life,
I heard a man's word for me,
a son's word.
These are the words
that I always wanted to hear from my father.
Maybe he would have said it
in my childhood.
But I don't remember.
And today,
after hearing a son's word from Sir Abraar,
I don't know what condition I'm in.
I don't know if it's because of happiness or pain.
Being in a real relationship,
what would be the biggest misfortune
for the things called love and affection?
And I'm definitely unfortunate in the matter of love.
And in the matter of real relationships,
even more so.
Sir Abraar has always played a special role in my life.
He's not my father.
But many times,
he seemed like a father to me.
I wish I could tell him that.
Sometimes we get disappointed with our blood relations
and start finding those relationships in those faces
that give us love and attention.
I don't know if this is right or wrong,
but this is what happens in my life.
This is what happens.
Dad, I can't live with that man anymore.
Especially after this act.
How dare he do this to me?
How dare he go and talk to Zaroor?
Zaroor has no relation with everyone.
He has insulted me in front of my family.
I can't live with him.
This isn't a big issue that a person can leave the house and come back.
Dad, what are you saying?
If this isn't a problem, then what problem will I leave the house and come back to?
You shouldn't leave the house for any problem.
This doesn't help you achieve anything.
Dad, I feel suffocated in Farhan's house.
I don't know what concept he has
of a woman from the 1950s in his head
that I don't understand completely.
Look, let's call Farhan and find a solution to this problem.
No dad.
There is no solution to this problem.
I'm not going to live with that man.
I'll wait for mom.
I'll talk to her when she comes.
And then I'm filing for divorce.
Enough is enough.
Listen, dear.
Kashif, your father came, dear.
Why?
He was saying that he would go to Lahore himself.
He was saying that this is a new city
and there are so many things.
So it will be good if someone is with him.
Mom, I've been roaming around alone for the past four or five years.
What burden do you have that I need his shoulders for?
You tell him,
that I'll go to Lahore the same way
that I used to travel everywhere.
If he wants to do something, he can do it for you.
We have learned to fly now.
There is no need for his wings.
Now I'm not so disrespectful, dear.
That I would have told him that his daughter doesn't need him anymore.
What is there to be disrespectful about?
This is the truth.
And please don't send me to his office like this again.
I feel sad.
He falls more in my heart and eyes.
Let him have some respect in my heart.
Hello?
What is this?
Hi.
I've been calling you for so long.
Can a person dare to pick up the phone?
Even you don't call me when you don't want to,
nor do you pick up my phone.
At least I wouldn't have sat quietly like you.
Sorry.
I was busy.
Were you busy or are you ignoring me?
Asmara, what would be the use of avoiding me?
You know this.
No, I don't know.
You've said this and you know it better.
And I'm not avoiding you.
I really hate men who are angry like women.
And I really hate women who consider themselves to be bigger than men.
What are you trying to say?
Nothing.
I just wanted to say that you've been here for so long.
A person can call or pick up the phone.
We could have made a plan.
We could have gone out.
You don't need to make any plan with me, Asmara.
You have a better company.
Make a plan with them.
What do you mean?
I came to Karachi and I called you first.
And not you.
Your mother picked up the phone.
And she told me that you went to Dubai with your friends.
That's a new thing.
I've already gone out with them.
Yes, Asmara, that's a new thing.
And I don't have any objection to you going.
But the condition is that you go with your family.
I have an objection because you go out alone with your girl and boyfriends without telling me.
I called you and your phone was switched off.
Well, that's not a good enough excuse.
You could have sent me an SMS.
I could have called you back.
Mind you, Asmara, I don't have a good excuse to keep me in the dark.
Should I keep you in the dark?
What have I done that you have to keep me in the dark?
You know what, Asmara?
If you don't have a logical excuse to do it, then it's better that you stay quiet.
Don't do this drama.
I don't even know why I came here.
You should stay upset.
Okay.
I was thinking for several weeks
that I was not getting the time to come to your house.
Kashf must have left.
Yes, brother.
She left for training.
God bless you.
Have you been out all day?
Of course.
And she is out because of her daughters.
Yes.
Yes, no.
You have worked very hard for your daughters and made their lives.
Daughters are in every family and every family has a burden.
Daughters are not a burden.
They are made, brother.
And anyone can be a burden, whether it is a daughter or a son.
If it is made, then only with education and training and attention.
No, that's what I am saying that you have made your daughters' lives.
It is the job of parents to make their children's lives.
And parents should make their children's lives.
Because of being a girl or a boy,
the patient shouldn't worry about their fate.
Neither the parents, nor the family nor the society.
Hmm.
She is right.
There shouldn't be any difference between a daughter and a son.
Now look, she is Hamad.
What name did she make?
She has made a name for herself.
She is still working.
Her expenses, her studies, all her expenses.
She is doing the same.
No, it will be fine, brother.
Hamad is careless but he is not bad.
He will do something or the other.
Hmm.
You have tea.
Hmm.
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