1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,360 life 2 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:14,760 you did so good by giving a shut up call to him 3 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:18,120 from now on, you will bow down so much in front of him, he will keep hiding you for the rest of your life 4 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:19,000 mom 5 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:20,200 what mom? 6 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:22,920 I am saying right, how dare he speak to her like that? 7 00:00:23,080 --> 00:00:28,560 the jewelry that you had kept for our wedding, you can sell it 8 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:33,760 child, I don't have that much jewelry 9 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:35,760 do you have a little? 10 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:37,600 yes, I do have a little 11 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:40,800 but at least, two years of Shanila's life will pass 12 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:44,320 and in that time, God willing, something will happen to my job 13 00:00:44,480 --> 00:00:47,240 I had asked you to go for just two to three days 14 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:50,160 I didn't ask you to send me away forever 15 00:00:50,160 --> 00:00:52,280 which marriage are they sending you after getting married? 16 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:53,600 they are sending you for studies 17 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:57,080 look child, I am satisfied with your result 18 00:00:57,160 --> 00:01:04,320 I have seen you working hard, but if your result doesn't come out as expected, then it's not important 19 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:10,760 the boy is very nice, child 20 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,080 Agha Khan is working in the university 21 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:18,040 he will go out immediately after marriage for residency 22 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:22,280 I am thinking, how Halima will take care of our Sidra 23 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:28,160 you know, Halima's habits and the atmosphere of her house is so nice 24 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,720 I had sent Sabahat to talk to him 25 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:33,480 did you tell Sidra? 26 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:37,720 no, I thought to tell you first, then I will tell Sidra 27 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:40,200 you didn't need to tell me, mom 28 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:42,160 you should have told this to Sidra 29 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:44,840 no child, it was very important to tell you 30 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:48,320 because first, I want to get you married 31 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:51,320 mom, I don't want to get married 32 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:53,320 so, don't talk about my marriage 33 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:57,320 you want to get Sidra married, then do it, I don't have any objection 34 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:02,800 my relation is very good 35 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:09,800 even though I didn't want to, I was forced to take it seriously 36 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:16,800 usually, it doesn't happen that the first proposal comes and the girl's family agrees 37 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:21,800 maybe, because she is my friend's son 38 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:29,800 Halima has sent a message that she doesn't need any dowry 39 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:33,600 but still, I was thinking 40 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:39,800 even if she doesn't ask for dowry, but we will have to spend on the marriage 41 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:43,800 and nowadays, we spend a lot 42 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:47,000 how will I fulfill it? 43 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:53,800 the dowry that you had invested on Shanila's studies 44 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:57,800 now, I don't have any money 45 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:02,320 I am thinking, I will talk to your father 46 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:05,320 I will tell him about the proposal 47 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:13,320 I am sure that he will give me some expenses on his daughter's wedding 48 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:14,800 isn't it? 49 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:16,280 yes 50 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:20,280 you can call father 51 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:23,280 but I am telling you from the beginning 52 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,280 father talks a lot 53 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:28,280 but practically, nothing 54 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:37,280 if I have to get Sidra married for 6 to 8 months, then I won't test my CSS this year 55 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:39,280 I will get a job 56 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:41,280 no, I have got good offers from some places 57 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:44,280 I can help you a little 58 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:46,760 Sidra will get married 59 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:49,760 yes, but still 60 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:56,760 I pray that your father realizes his responsibility 61 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:12,760 hello! 62 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:15,240 you don't have any time for me at all, Zaroor 63 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:18,240 you already know 64 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:20,240 what has happened to me because of my studies 65 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:24,240 from where should I find time to talk to you or to roam around with you? 66 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,240 it comes from finding time 67 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:28,240 right now, you are just doing CSS 68 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,240 you have the ghost on your head 69 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:33,240 what will happen to me when you will start working? 70 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:35,240 I have to complete one assignment 71 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:38,240 and then I have to complete two more in the morning 72 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:40,240 that's why I have to go 73 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:41,240 okay? 74 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:45,240 good night 75 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:49,240 the family is very nice 76 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:51,240 I know Haleema very well 77 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:53,240 I don't know about the boy 78 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:55,240 should I find out about him as well? 79 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:58,240 yes 80 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:00,240 it is very important to find out about the boy 81 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,240 because only the family 82 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,240 the proposal can't be fixed just by looking at it 83 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:06,240 no, we won't do it like this 84 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:09,240 why are you worrying? I told you that I will find out 85 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:11,720 by the way 86 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:15,720 Haleema was telling me that 87 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:17,720 those people 88 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:20,720 are not asking for dowry 89 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:22,720 because when the elder son got married 90 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:24,720 he didn't ask anything from his in laws 91 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:26,720 this is a very good thing 92 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:28,720 he will get married for free 93 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:30,720 he won't get married for free, Mr. Murtaza 94 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:32,720 it is the daughter's wedding 95 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:34,720 the clothes, the jewelry 96 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:36,720 the expenses, all of this has to be done 97 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:39,200 the expenses, all of this has to be done 98 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:42,200 what is the need to buy jewelry? 99 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:44,200 you have a lot of jewelry 100 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,200 give some to that Idra 101 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:50,200 I don't have anything called jewelry 102 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:55,200 what do you mean you don't have anything called jewelry? 103 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:57,200 where did you get so much jewelry? 104 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:59,200 mom and dad gave you a lot of good jewelry 105 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:03,200 when you got married again 106 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:05,200 you took the jewelry from me 107 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:09,200 you took a little too much 108 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:11,200 the rest was with you 109 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:13,200 so where did it go? 110 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,200 in all these years 111 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,200 there were many times 112 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,200 when I needed money 113 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,200 so 114 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:29,200 I sold that jewelry and completed the expenses 115 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:33,200 this is amazing 116 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:35,200 this is the limit 117 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:37,680 you sold the jewelry 118 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:39,680 and didn't ask me or tell me 119 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:41,680 but 120 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:43,680 it was my jewelry 121 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:45,680 what was the need to ask you? 122 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:47,680 and 123 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:49,680 what expenses did I spend on myself? 124 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:53,680 I spent on my daughters 125 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:55,680 daughters also have to explain other things 126 00:06:57,680 --> 00:06:59,680 daughters are told that they have to go to the next house tomorrow 127 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:03,680 and their father is not a millionaire 128 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,160 when am I talking about the jewelry worth millions? 129 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:08,160 I am only asking for the expenses 130 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:10,160 so that 131 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:12,160 my daughter gets married with respect 132 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:16,160 I always tried to make you understand 133 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:18,160 I always tried to make you understand 134 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:20,160 that there is no need to get so much education 135 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:24,160 when would you have listened to me? 136 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:26,160 you were possessed 137 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:28,160 the school should be very good 138 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:30,160 the college should be very good 139 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:32,160 there should be a good degree 140 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:34,640 now that you have got the degree 141 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:36,640 then send it to the next house 142 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:38,640 that's it 143 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:46,640 I even told mother not to talk to him 144 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:48,640 she started this nonsense of marriage 145 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:52,640 where will we get married? 146 00:07:56,640 --> 00:07:58,640 the jewelry was good 147 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:00,640 so I sold it 148 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:03,120 I sold all the jewelry 149 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:05,120 if it would have been there today 150 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:07,120 then it would have been useful for the girls 151 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:09,120 this is the money that I have spent on their education 152 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:11,120 if I had saved that money then it would have been useful for them 153 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:13,120 but I couldn't get them enrolled 154 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:15,120 and make them sit at home 155 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:17,120 right, Murtaza? 156 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:19,120 they had to study further 157 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:21,120 and only I didn't spend on them 158 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:23,120 but they also helped 159 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:25,120 they worked hard, they taught tuitions 160 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:27,120 they fulfilled their expenses 161 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:29,120 they paid their fees 162 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:31,120 what are you doing? 163 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:33,120 if they can pay their fees for their education 164 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:35,120 then they can also pay for their marriage 165 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:39,120 then ask them to pay themselves 166 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,120 when I don't have to accept any favor 167 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,120 then what is the need for me to do anything? 168 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:45,120 all my life 169 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:47,120 I didn't ask you for anything 170 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,120 I never insisted 171 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:51,120 but being a father 172 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:55,120 you also have responsibilities 173 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:57,120 not only my daughters 174 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:01,120 you also have children 175 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:03,120 I have fulfilled a lot of responsibilities 176 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:05,120 Rafia 177 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:07,120 a lot of responsibilities 178 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:09,120 now if someone doesn't accept 179 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:11,120 then I can't do anything 180 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:13,120 I don't know 181 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:15,120 you people think that I have some treasure 182 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:17,120 I will keep taking out money from it 183 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:19,120 and keep giving it 184 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:21,120 this doesn't happen 185 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:23,120 and it isn't like that 186 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:25,120 I have only one salary 187 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,120 I don't know how I would have spent it 188 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:29,120 oh God, if I had money 189 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:31,120 then I would have never accepted you 190 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:33,120 I would have done everything myself 191 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:35,120 if you don't have the ability 192 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:37,120 then what is the need to get married now 193 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:39,120 we will do it when we have 194 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:41,120 stop the marriage 195 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:45,120 you don't listen to anything 196 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,120 we have married one daughter to our brother 197 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:49,120 one daughter 198 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:51,120 the whole family stands with me 199 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:53,120 what would have happened if I wasn't alone like this? 200 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:55,120 I don't want the whole family 201 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:57,120 I need you 202 00:09:57,120 --> 00:09:59,120 I need the help 203 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:01,120 of my daughters father 204 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:07,120 as much as they are my daughters 205 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:09,120 they are also your daughters 206 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:13,120 they are your children 207 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:25,120 mother, why do you call father for every work again and again? 208 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:27,120 child, a matter like marriage 209 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:29,120 can't happen without your father's advice and help 210 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,120 you have asked him for advice 211 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:33,120 and also asked him for help 212 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:35,120 now you know what you can get from him 213 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:37,120 but 214 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,120 I don't know 215 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:41,120 what you can get from him 216 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:43,120 I don't know 217 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:45,120 I don't know 218 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:47,120 I don't know 219 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:49,120 I don't know 220 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:51,120 but 221 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:53,120 but I don't have any hope 222 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:55,120 from anyone other than your father 223 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:56,120 what did you get by 224 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:58,120 tying your hopes with him? 225 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:03,120 then what should I do, child? 226 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:07,120 I am very worried now 227 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:11,120 mother, don't worry 228 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:13,120 I have decided that this year I won't give my 229 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:15,120 CSS exam 230 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:17,120 I will work somewhere 231 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:19,120 and you decide Sidra's proposal there 232 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:21,120 we will put a committee somewhere 233 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:23,120 we will borrow from somewhere 234 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:25,120 but whatever happens 235 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:27,120 we will get so much money 236 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:29,120 that we can get Sidra married 237 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:35,120 God willing 238 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:39,120 Kashf, tell mother 239 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:41,120 I won't get married 240 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:43,120 why? why are you getting worried? 241 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:45,120 I am worried 242 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:47,120 I don't want to get married with the money 243 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:49,120 I don't want to get married with the money 244 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:51,120 and I also don't want that 245 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:53,120 other people face more problems because of me 246 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:57,120 who are the others? 247 00:11:57,120 --> 00:11:59,120 what kind of problems? 248 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,120 you and mother 249 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:03,120 I don't want that 250 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:05,120 you leave your career and start saving money 251 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:07,120 even if I say this 252 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:09,120 I won't do any favor to you 253 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:11,120 you have to give the CSS exam 254 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:13,120 you give that 255 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:15,120 leave me right now 256 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,120 your career is very important 257 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:19,120 this exam is very important 258 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:21,120 my marriage will be done 259 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:23,120 then my exams will also be done 260 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:25,120 I will give it next year 261 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:27,120 and if it doesn't happen next year 262 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:29,120 then I will give it next year 263 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:31,120 look, mother is right 264 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:33,120 this is a very good proposal 265 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:35,120 if a daughter's marriage will be done in a good place 266 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:37,120 then mother will face a lot of problems 267 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:39,120 and for this one daughter's marriage 268 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:41,120 everyone has to face so many problems 269 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:43,120 I have to face so many problems 270 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:45,120 about the debts 271 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:47,120 about the new committees 272 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:49,120 I don't like this at all 273 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:51,120 nobody likes these things 274 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:53,120 we are helpless 275 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:55,120 but you don't think about these things 276 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:57,120 this is not your headache 277 00:12:57,120 --> 00:12:59,120 how is it not my headache? 278 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:01,120 should I become like father? 279 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:03,120 should I cover my eyes? 280 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:05,120 should I become shameless? 281 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:07,120 for God's sake don't start crying 282 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:09,120 look 283 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:11,120 if you know about father's shamelessness 284 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:13,120 then why do you cry? 285 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:15,120 no father in this world is like this, Kashf 286 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:19,120 then in this respect 287 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:21,120 maybe father has created a new example in this world 288 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:23,120 do you think about this now? 289 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:25,120 doesn't it hurt? 290 00:13:25,120 --> 00:13:27,120 no 291 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:29,120 don't lie 292 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:31,120 if you can't listen to a lie 293 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:33,120 then why do you ask? 294 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,120 is being a daughter such a big sin? 295 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:41,120 my heart wants 296 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:43,120 that I should go to father 297 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:45,120 and ask him 298 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:47,120 that if we were so disliked 299 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:49,120 then why did he give birth to us? 300 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:51,120 and if he gave birth 301 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:53,120 then why didn't he beat us as soon as he did? 302 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:55,120 he has been beating us for so many years 303 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:57,120 little by little 304 00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:59,120 by scolding us 305 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:01,120 at least 306 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:03,120 we can't complain to him 307 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:05,120 that why he is not beating us 308 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:11,120 okay 309 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:25,120 excellent 310 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:27,120 very good 311 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:29,120 Kashf 312 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:31,120 you don't worry at all 313 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:33,120 in a week or so 314 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:35,120 I will arrange for your job 315 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:37,120 thank you sir 316 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:39,120 nobody can ignore this 317 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:41,120 yes but sir 318 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:43,120 you won't get a job only on CV 319 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:45,120 you need references as well 320 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:47,120 relax 321 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:49,120 references will also be there 322 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:51,120 tell me, did you eat? 323 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:53,120 I didn't feel hungry sir 324 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:55,120 oh! look 325 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:57,120 not feeling hungry 326 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:59,120 is a bigger problem 327 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:01,120 than unemployment 328 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:03,120 so you 329 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:05,120 will eat with me today 330 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:07,120 okay? 331 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:10,120 yes 332 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:12,120 good 333 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:38,120 sacrifices 334 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:40,120 sometimes it feels like 335 00:15:40,120 --> 00:15:42,120 life for us 336 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:44,120 is just a name for 337 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:48,120 small small joys 338 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:51,120 for the basic necessities of life 339 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:55,120 we have to suffer for everything 340 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:58,120 we have to suffer 341 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:01,120 I think 342 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:03,120 why has God made our life 343 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:05,120 so difficult for us? 344 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:07,120 I keep thinking 345 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:09,120 I keep asking 346 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:13,120 but the answer 347 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:15,120 is nowhere to be found 348 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:35,120 yes 349 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:47,120 here you go 350 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:55,120 thank you 351 00:16:57,120 --> 00:16:58,120 oh! 352 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:00,120 it's Abrahar's call 353 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,120 say hi to him 354 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:04,120 you can put it in 355 00:17:04,120 --> 00:17:05,120 he has left for work 356 00:17:05,120 --> 00:17:06,120 hello! 357 00:17:06,120 --> 00:17:08,120 yes Abrahar 358 00:17:08,120 --> 00:17:10,120 how are you? 359 00:17:10,120 --> 00:17:11,120 I am fine 360 00:17:11,120 --> 00:17:13,120 we were having tea 361 00:17:13,120 --> 00:17:15,120 my son is saying hi to me 362 00:17:15,120 --> 00:17:17,120 yes 363 00:17:17,120 --> 00:17:19,120 yes tell me 364 00:17:20,120 --> 00:17:22,120 okay 365 00:17:22,120 --> 00:17:24,120 so there are some vacancies 366 00:17:24,120 --> 00:17:26,120 in Mr. Subban's firm 367 00:17:26,120 --> 00:17:28,120 yes 368 00:17:29,120 --> 00:17:30,120 okay 369 00:17:30,120 --> 00:17:31,120 yes, yes 370 00:17:31,120 --> 00:17:33,120 I will give you my reference 371 00:17:33,120 --> 00:17:35,120 no problem 372 00:17:36,120 --> 00:17:37,120 okay 373 00:17:37,120 --> 00:17:39,120 okay 374 00:17:39,120 --> 00:17:41,120 yes, we will talk later 375 00:17:41,120 --> 00:17:42,120 okay 376 00:17:42,120 --> 00:17:44,120 bye! 377 00:17:44,120 --> 00:17:46,120 is everything fine? 378 00:17:46,120 --> 00:17:48,120 he has a student 379 00:17:49,120 --> 00:17:51,120 he wanted my reference 380 00:17:51,120 --> 00:17:53,120 he said she is a very like girl 381 00:17:53,120 --> 00:17:55,120 and her class value is also good 382 00:17:55,120 --> 00:17:56,120 really? 383 00:17:56,120 --> 00:17:57,120 what is her name? 384 00:17:57,120 --> 00:17:58,120 I didn't tell her 385 00:17:59,120 --> 00:18:01,120 son, give me this biscuit 386 00:18:02,120 --> 00:18:04,120 leave the biscuits, have tea 387 00:18:04,120 --> 00:18:06,120 yes, yes 388 00:18:27,120 --> 00:18:29,120 thank you 389 00:18:57,120 --> 00:18:59,120 thank you 390 00:19:12,120 --> 00:19:14,120 mom, its a very good job 391 00:19:14,120 --> 00:19:16,120 you will get a package of 50 plus 392 00:19:16,120 --> 00:19:17,120 and they will give the conveyance as well 393 00:19:17,120 --> 00:19:19,120 really? 394 00:19:19,120 --> 00:19:21,120 thank God! 395 00:19:21,120 --> 00:19:24,120 you have given such a good news, son 396 00:19:24,120 --> 00:19:26,120 God is very merciful and kind 397 00:19:26,120 --> 00:19:28,120 son, I had asked for a lot of blessings 398 00:19:29,120 --> 00:19:32,120 sir, Abrahan has helped me a lot, mom 399 00:19:32,120 --> 00:19:34,120 he has given me a reference 400 00:19:34,120 --> 00:19:36,120 I didn't get a job because of him 401 00:19:36,120 --> 00:19:37,120 otherwise, I wouldn't have got a job so soon 402 00:19:37,120 --> 00:19:38,120 thank God! 403 00:19:38,120 --> 00:19:40,120 thank you so much, son 404 00:19:41,120 --> 00:19:43,120 did you talk to aunty Hanima? 405 00:19:43,120 --> 00:19:45,120 yes, I did talk to her 406 00:19:45,120 --> 00:19:48,120 I agreed but she was saying that 407 00:19:48,120 --> 00:19:50,120 what is the use of getting married 408 00:19:50,120 --> 00:19:52,120 get your daughter married in two dresses 409 00:19:52,120 --> 00:19:54,120 I said to her that how is this possible? 410 00:19:54,120 --> 00:19:57,120 she is my daughter, how can I get her married? 411 00:19:57,120 --> 00:19:59,120 there is nothing called worldly 412 00:19:59,120 --> 00:20:02,120 I have put a committee on your request, son 413 00:20:02,120 --> 00:20:06,120 but I was thinking a lot about how I will pay the money 414 00:20:06,120 --> 00:20:08,120 now that you have given me this news 415 00:20:08,120 --> 00:20:10,120 I feel so relieved, son 416 00:20:11,120 --> 00:20:14,120 God is so merciful and kind 417 00:20:14,120 --> 00:20:16,120 how He makes the sky 418 00:20:16,120 --> 00:20:18,120 and opens the doors of the sky 419 00:20:23,120 --> 00:20:25,120 yes, He gives risks 420 00:20:25,120 --> 00:20:29,120 but for this, He makes life a path of thorns 421 00:20:36,120 --> 00:20:37,120 yes, Zahroon 422 00:20:37,120 --> 00:20:39,120 how are the exams? 423 00:20:39,120 --> 00:20:41,120 the exams are good, uncle 424 00:20:41,120 --> 00:20:43,120 I am just waiting for the written score 425 00:20:43,120 --> 00:20:45,120 I hope that it will also be good 426 00:20:45,120 --> 00:20:46,120 good! 427 00:20:47,120 --> 00:20:50,120 and listen, stop this wandering 428 00:20:51,120 --> 00:20:54,120 and stay away from this bad music 429 00:20:54,120 --> 00:20:58,120 take it easy and clear the CSS 430 00:20:58,120 --> 00:21:02,120 and then put this bad music in the ears of the public 431 00:21:02,120 --> 00:21:04,120 what did you say just now? 432 00:21:04,120 --> 00:21:05,120 what did I say? 433 00:21:05,120 --> 00:21:07,120 brother, you did not do good by calling it bad 434 00:21:07,120 --> 00:21:08,120 really? 435 00:21:08,120 --> 00:21:10,120 now you are taking his side 436 00:21:10,120 --> 00:21:12,120 you yourself will say that I take his side 437 00:21:12,120 --> 00:21:14,120 dad, I did not ask you to take the officer's side 438 00:21:14,120 --> 00:21:15,120 it is a good and special business 439 00:21:15,120 --> 00:21:17,120 and you are taking this officer's side for no reason 440 00:21:17,120 --> 00:21:20,120 brother, I am fond of living a dull and boring life like you people 441 00:21:20,120 --> 00:21:21,120 hello! 442 00:21:21,120 --> 00:21:23,120 yes, there should be thrill and excitement in life 443 00:21:23,120 --> 00:21:25,120 which is not there in your life at all 444 00:21:25,120 --> 00:21:29,120 I know very well that you have your thrill and excitement 445 00:21:29,120 --> 00:21:30,120 yes 446 00:21:30,120 --> 00:21:32,120 and you have also ended that by getting me engaged 447 00:21:32,120 --> 00:21:34,120 brother, you have not seen Asmara for a long time 448 00:21:34,120 --> 00:21:35,120 where is she? 449 00:21:35,120 --> 00:21:37,120 I had not asked her to come 450 00:21:37,120 --> 00:21:39,120 otherwise, she was not interested in studies 451 00:21:39,120 --> 00:21:41,120 oh wow! Junaid 452 00:21:41,120 --> 00:21:43,120 brother, the child has grown up 453 00:21:43,120 --> 00:21:45,120 he has grown up a lot 454 00:21:47,120 --> 00:21:49,120 ha ha ha 455 00:21:54,120 --> 00:21:56,120 hello mom 456 00:21:56,120 --> 00:21:58,120 hello son 457 00:21:58,120 --> 00:22:00,120 where were you? 458 00:22:00,120 --> 00:22:02,120 it is almost evening 459 00:22:02,120 --> 00:22:04,120 mom, actually 460 00:22:04,120 --> 00:22:06,120 I was sitting at Usna's house 461 00:22:06,120 --> 00:22:08,120 I didn't get to know about the time 462 00:22:11,120 --> 00:22:13,120 what is the matter, son? 463 00:22:13,120 --> 00:22:15,120 what happened? 464 00:22:15,120 --> 00:22:17,120 what do I have to do, mom? 465 00:22:17,120 --> 00:22:19,120 no, something has happened 466 00:22:19,120 --> 00:22:22,120 when I had gone from home, she was happy 467 00:22:22,120 --> 00:22:24,120 now, she is upset 468 00:22:28,120 --> 00:22:30,120 I had passed by dad's house 469 00:22:31,120 --> 00:22:33,120 he has made a very nice house 470 00:22:36,120 --> 00:22:37,120 so? 471 00:22:38,120 --> 00:22:41,120 dad, you can spend so much money on your house 472 00:22:41,120 --> 00:22:42,120 do you know? 473 00:22:42,120 --> 00:22:45,120 for my marriage, he has an empty house 474 00:22:46,120 --> 00:22:49,120 by the way, I don't have any interest in his money 475 00:22:50,120 --> 00:22:52,120 I don't want him to spend any money on his marriage 476 00:22:52,120 --> 00:22:54,120 I don't want any charity from him 477 00:22:55,120 --> 00:22:58,120 so, I don't want him to come to my marriage 478 00:22:59,120 --> 00:23:01,120 when I can spend my whole life without him 479 00:23:01,120 --> 00:23:04,120 then, marriage can also happen without him 480 00:23:06,120 --> 00:23:09,120 what was the need to pass by his house, son? 481 00:23:10,120 --> 00:23:13,120 she would have gone straight and come back 482 00:23:15,120 --> 00:23:17,120 at least, I wouldn't have to pass by 483 00:23:17,120 --> 00:23:20,120 and what is the use of passing by anyway? 484 00:23:20,120 --> 00:23:21,120 here you go 485 00:23:21,120 --> 00:23:23,120 your shirts are ready 486 00:23:23,120 --> 00:23:26,120 oh! thanks mom, I had forgotten 487 00:23:26,120 --> 00:23:27,120 okay 488 00:23:27,120 --> 00:23:29,120 leave it, let me help you 489 00:23:30,120 --> 00:23:31,120 thank you 490 00:23:32,120 --> 00:23:34,120 by the way, I don't understand 491 00:23:34,120 --> 00:23:36,120 why you are wearing this shirt 492 00:23:36,120 --> 00:23:38,120 it's not my shirt 493 00:23:38,120 --> 00:23:40,120 it's my friend's shirt 494 00:23:40,120 --> 00:23:41,120 I don't know 495 00:23:41,120 --> 00:23:42,120 I don't know 496 00:23:42,120 --> 00:23:43,120 you don't know? 497 00:23:43,120 --> 00:23:44,120 I don't know 498 00:23:44,120 --> 00:23:45,120 I don't know 499 00:23:45,120 --> 00:23:46,120 I don't know 500 00:23:46,120 --> 00:23:47,120 I don't know 501 00:23:47,120 --> 00:23:48,120 I don't know 502 00:23:48,120 --> 00:23:50,120 by the way, I don't understand 503 00:23:50,120 --> 00:23:51,120 yes 504 00:23:51,120 --> 00:23:55,120 what are you going to do by leaving your own business and everything else? 505 00:23:56,120 --> 00:23:58,120 you can think that I am going to ruin my own interest 506 00:23:58,120 --> 00:24:02,120 and please, don't pass these tantric remarks like Asmara after this 507 00:24:02,120 --> 00:24:04,120 she also says the same 508 00:24:05,120 --> 00:24:07,120 there is only one thing on her tongue today 509 00:24:07,120 --> 00:24:09,120 since the time I have passed the exam 510 00:24:09,120 --> 00:24:10,120 she is saying the same thing 511 00:24:10,120 --> 00:24:13,120 you are doing wrong, you are doing wrong, you are doing wrong 512 00:24:13,120 --> 00:24:15,120 she is right, Bazar 513 00:24:15,120 --> 00:24:18,120 you don't have the temperament of a job seeker 514 00:24:18,120 --> 00:24:21,120 anyways, time will tell 515 00:24:22,120 --> 00:24:25,120 you have always seen a very easy life 516 00:24:25,120 --> 00:24:29,120 you don't know, what are the headaches of doing a job, what are the hustles 517 00:24:30,120 --> 00:24:33,120 okay, I will see 518 00:24:34,120 --> 00:24:36,120 and you will live in Lahore after going there 519 00:24:36,120 --> 00:24:38,120 won't we get upset without you? 520 00:24:39,120 --> 00:24:41,120 I guess, you can call that karma 521 00:24:41,120 --> 00:24:43,120 when I used to be at home and you used to be outside 522 00:24:43,120 --> 00:24:45,120 then I used to miss you 523 00:24:45,120 --> 00:24:47,120 when I will leave, then you will miss me 524 00:24:48,120 --> 00:24:50,120 distance makes the heart fonder 525 00:24:51,120 --> 00:24:53,120 have you started taunting me? 526 00:24:53,120 --> 00:24:56,120 don't stop even before leaving 527 00:24:56,120 --> 00:24:58,120 move aside, how are you keeping it? 528 00:24:58,120 --> 00:25:00,120 you are so disorganized 529 00:25:02,120 --> 00:25:04,120 let's keep it this way 530 00:25:04,120 --> 00:25:06,120 you have already done your job 531 00:25:09,120 --> 00:25:10,120 come on 532 00:25:11,120 --> 00:25:12,120 let's go 533 00:25:17,120 --> 00:25:19,120 mom, couldn't it have been a better card? 534 00:25:20,120 --> 00:25:21,120 why dear? 535 00:25:21,120 --> 00:25:25,120 it could have been better, but then it would have been a waste of money 536 00:25:25,120 --> 00:25:30,120 anyways, people read the invitation card once and then throw it in the trash 537 00:25:30,120 --> 00:25:34,120 still, what would have happened if you had spent some more money? 538 00:25:34,120 --> 00:25:36,120 it is good as it is 539 00:25:37,120 --> 00:25:39,120 why should we waste more money? 540 00:25:40,120 --> 00:25:42,120 even if we saved it, then how much money will we save? 541 00:25:42,120 --> 00:25:43,120 a few hundred rupees? 542 00:25:43,120 --> 00:25:45,120 you can say it, sister 543 00:25:45,120 --> 00:25:47,120 you have such a good job 544 00:25:47,120 --> 00:25:49,120 we can also say something about it 545 00:25:50,120 --> 00:25:52,120 if it is a job, then why should I waste it? 546 00:25:52,120 --> 00:25:54,120 why don't you waste it, dear? 547 00:25:54,120 --> 00:25:56,120 all the arrangements for your sister's wedding 548 00:25:57,120 --> 00:26:00,120 still mom, if there was some more time 549 00:26:00,120 --> 00:26:02,120 it could have been better 550 00:26:02,120 --> 00:26:04,120 whatever is happening is the same 551 00:26:04,120 --> 00:26:07,120 anyways, how much money is spent on this wedding? 552 00:26:07,120 --> 00:26:10,120 it doesn't matter, thank God 553 00:26:10,120 --> 00:26:12,120 our respect is still there 554 00:26:13,120 --> 00:26:17,120 I used to wake up the whole night, that how will we arrange for the wedding? 555 00:26:17,120 --> 00:26:21,120 anyways mom, will you call dad? 556 00:26:21,120 --> 00:26:23,120 yes, why not? 557 00:26:23,120 --> 00:26:25,120 he is your father 558 00:26:25,120 --> 00:26:27,120 how can we get married without him? 559 00:26:28,120 --> 00:26:30,120 mom, if we can get married without his money 560 00:26:30,120 --> 00:26:33,120 then we can also get married without his presence 561 00:26:34,120 --> 00:26:36,120 look dear 562 00:26:37,120 --> 00:26:40,120 we have to do a lot to show the world 563 00:26:40,120 --> 00:26:42,120 if our father won't be there 564 00:26:43,120 --> 00:26:45,120 then people will question us a lot 565 00:26:45,120 --> 00:26:48,120 yes mom, because this is the work of the society 566 00:26:48,120 --> 00:26:51,120 that instead of reminding us about our father's responsibilities 567 00:26:51,120 --> 00:26:55,120 we should insist on his presence in the wedding group photo 568 00:26:55,120 --> 00:26:58,120 mom, you won't go to his house to give the card 569 00:26:58,120 --> 00:27:00,120 just inform him on the phone 570 00:27:00,120 --> 00:27:01,120 tell him 571 00:27:01,120 --> 00:27:03,120 if he has to come, then he will come 572 00:27:04,120 --> 00:27:07,120 anyways, we won't pray to him for his presence in the wedding 573 00:27:09,120 --> 00:27:11,120 it's been so many months 574 00:27:11,120 --> 00:27:13,120 dad didn't even asked once 575 00:27:13,120 --> 00:27:15,120 that what are the arrangements for the wedding 576 00:27:15,120 --> 00:27:16,120 do we have to do anything? 577 00:27:16,120 --> 00:27:17,120 and now you 578 00:27:18,120 --> 00:27:20,120 you are trying to convince him 579 00:27:20,120 --> 00:27:22,120 that for God's sake, he should attend the wedding 580 00:27:22,120 --> 00:27:24,120 that he should marry the girl in his shadow 581 00:27:25,120 --> 00:27:27,120 anyways, if you want to call him 582 00:27:27,120 --> 00:27:29,120 then just call dad 583 00:27:29,120 --> 00:27:32,120 there is no need to call his whole family, wife and children 584 00:27:32,120 --> 00:27:33,120 especially Hammad 585 00:27:33,120 --> 00:27:36,120 Hammad doesn't need an invitation anyway 586 00:27:36,120 --> 00:27:38,120 if he won't come from our side 587 00:27:38,120 --> 00:27:40,120 then he will come with the wedding procession 588 00:27:40,120 --> 00:27:41,120 anyways 589 00:27:41,120 --> 00:27:44,120 now make a list of all the guests 590 00:27:44,120 --> 00:27:46,120 write me the cards 591 00:27:46,120 --> 00:27:48,120 I will start distributing 592 00:27:48,120 --> 00:27:49,120 this is the list 593 00:27:49,120 --> 00:27:51,120 write all the names 594 00:28:00,120 --> 00:28:02,120 the profession that was my ambition 595 00:28:04,120 --> 00:28:07,120 but I don't know what the challenges will be 596 00:28:07,120 --> 00:28:11,120 and I don't know if this profession will be ideal for me or not 597 00:28:12,120 --> 00:28:17,120 but I do know that this is the beginning of an independent life and independent choices 598 00:28:18,120 --> 00:28:23,120 and that this will not be the life that I have been living with my parents 599 00:28:23,120 --> 00:28:27,120 I used to go from home for small trips 600 00:28:27,120 --> 00:28:29,120 but now for the first time 601 00:28:29,120 --> 00:28:32,120 I will go to the academy for training for almost a year 602 00:28:33,120 --> 00:28:35,120 and after that I will go for more trainings 603 00:28:36,120 --> 00:28:38,120 and after that I will go to Islamabad for my job 604 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,120 and maybe to some other country in the world 605 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:45,120 how easily a significant change comes in life 606 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:55,120 congratulations 607 00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:56,120 congratulations 608 00:28:57,120 --> 00:29:00,120 you got an early idea to inform me 609 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:04,120 otherwise we were thinking that maybe we won't tell you on the wedding day 610 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,120 Murtaza must be coming right now 611 00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,120 let's see what we have to do when he comes 612 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:13,120 whether he has to go or not 613 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,120 by the way I will tell you clearly 614 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:17,120 it is impossible for me and my children to come 615 00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:21,120 it was my duty to invite you 616 00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:24,120 as you wish 617 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,120 greetings 618 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,120 greetings 619 00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:43,120 congratulations 620 00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,120 your daughter is getting married 621 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,120 I have fixed the proposal 622 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,120 I have fixed all the other things 623 00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:54,120 so then 624 00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:57,120 what difference will it make whether I come or not? 625 00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:04,120 she is your daughter 626 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:09,120 won't you get your daughter married by your own hands? 627 00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:12,120 the way we have fixed the proposal without a father 628 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:14,120 we can get her married like this 629 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:17,120 is it necessary for a father to be a father for this formal process? 630 00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:20,120 absolutely 631 00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:23,120 the wedding is on the 11th 632 00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,120 in Chandni marriage hall 633 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,120 I didn't invite too many people 634 00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,120 Walima is on the 12th 635 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:37,120 in royal marriage hall 636 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:42,120 this is the time when your daughter needs you 637 00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,120 after that she will go to America 638 00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:48,120 I don't know 639 00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:52,120 whether she ever needs you or not 640 00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:56,120 give me permission 641 00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:58,120 I will leave 642 00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:00,120 bye 643 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,120 have you seen your husband's attitude? 644 00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:12,120 tell me one thing 645 00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:15,120 you didn't tell me all this 646 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:17,120 you only said that the boy is a doctor 647 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,120 she is saying that she is going to America 648 00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,120 she never talks 649 00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,120 you must have begged her a lot 650 00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:32,120 no, not at all 651 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:35,120 even if for the first time in my life 652 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:37,120 I didn't beg her 653 00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:39,120 you did very well 654 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:42,120 what difference will it make if my father doesn't come? 655 00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:43,120 what difference will it make? 656 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,120 it's a bad thing, don't say that 657 00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:46,120 why shouldn't he come? 658 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:50,120 I hope he comes to his senses and joins Sidra's wedding 659 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:54,120 otherwise he will be very embarrassed in front of his in-laws 660 00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:57,120 Halima aunty is your friend, right? 661 00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,120 she already knows about our situation 662 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:01,120 you can talk to her 663 00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:06,120 even if she doesn't know much about it 664 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,120 this situation is very delicate 665 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:10,120 yes dear 666 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,120 but this is not our fault 667 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:17,120 we could have done what we did 668 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:20,120 now if father doesn't want him to come to the wedding 669 00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:22,120 then what can we do? 670 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:24,120 what if he comes? 671 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:27,120 if God wills 672 00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:28,120 come 673 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:41,120 everything is set 674 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:44,120 let me check your CT 675 00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:48,120 show me 676 00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:51,120 you are looking very good 677 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,120 the judge is here for the wedding 678 00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:56,120 bye 679 00:32:58,120 --> 00:32:59,120 he is not here 680 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,120 and he may not be at the wedding hall 681 00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:03,120 it's not a new thing 682 00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:06,120 get ready 683 00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:07,120 everyone is waiting outside 684 00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:09,120 okay 685 00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:14,120 let me set the final veil 686 00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:18,120 keep it like this 687 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:24,120 I have kept it like this 688 00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:26,120 you didn't even ask about the wedding 689 00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:28,120 I had come 690 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:30,120 I had come to give the card 691 00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:31,120 just like the guests 692 00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:34,120 I had given the card 693 00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:36,120 why would I have gone? 694 00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,120 but my mother and daughter had insulted me so much 695 00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,120 on the expenses of the wedding 696 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:43,120 if you didn't want to go 697 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:44,120 then you could have told me 698 00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:45,120 I wouldn't have gone either 699 00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:46,120 let it be dear 700 00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:47,120 you didn't have to go 701 00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:49,120 if you didn't want to go 702 00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:50,120 then Sajjad wouldn't have killed you 703 00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,120 it's true that I went on Sajjad's insistence 704 00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:54,120 but after reaching there 705 00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,120 I felt that it was right for me to go 706 00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:01,120 that's why all the family members had a lot of objection 707 00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:02,120 no matter what 708 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,120 the father had to be at the daughter's wedding 709 00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:06,120 it's amazing 710 00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:08,120 the family members are also amazing 711 00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:09,120 they are objecting 712 00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:10,120 they don't know 713 00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:13,120 at least you should have told me 714 00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:15,120 okay 715 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:16,120 you should have said it out loud 716 00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:19,120 insisted that you have to come to the wedding 717 00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:20,120 you have to come in every situation 718 00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:22,120 you can't have a daughter's wedding without you 719 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:23,120 she said it to me 720 00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:24,120 it's not like that 721 00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:26,120 I just invited her like a guest 722 00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:27,120 you can come 723 00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,120 and then she said 724 00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:29,120 it's okay if you come 725 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:30,120 if you don't come 726 00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:31,120 then I don't have any objection 727 00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:32,120 so why would I have gone then? 728 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:35,120 okay 729 00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:37,120 what can happen now? 730 00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:39,120 now she has married 731 00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:40,120 doing as she wishes 732 00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:43,120 you are a father 733 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:44,120 she didn't ask you 734 00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:45,120 I am the elder of the family 735 00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:47,120 she didn't ask me for advice 736 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:49,120 now if something happens tomorrow 737 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:50,120 then I will tell her 738 00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:51,120 see my wife 739 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:52,120 look 740 00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:54,120 you had decided yourself 741 00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:55,120 without asking anyone 742 00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:57,120 that's why you should bear it yourself 743 00:34:58,120 --> 00:34:59,120 okay 744 00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:00,120 look brother 745 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:01,120 she leaves the elder daughter 746 00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:02,120 and marries the younger one 747 00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:04,120 she has left the young daughter 748 00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:05,120 alone in the city 749 00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:06,120 to earn 750 00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:07,120 I don't know what she does 751 00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:08,120 and what she doesn't do 752 00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:09,120 how would we know? 753 00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:10,120 whatever she says is wrong 754 00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:11,120 I have a friend 755 00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:14,120 whose love doesn't come down from his head 756 00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:15,120 he is very strong 757 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:38,120 I don't know if I should be sad today 758 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:39,120 or happy 759 00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:42,120 Sidra left the house 760 00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:45,120 she got married very well 761 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:48,120 she is very lucky 762 00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:51,120 she got such a good husband 763 00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:54,120 she got such a good family 764 00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:55,120 as her in-laws 765 00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:00,120 she is always very lucky 766 00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,120 father didn't attend the wedding 767 00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:08,120 he left us alone even today 768 00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:12,120 I think 769 00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:17,120 if father didn't help us in any way 770 00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:21,120 then what is the importance of him in our life? 771 00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:24,120 the thorn that sticks in our feet 772 00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:27,120 that always gives us pain 773 00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:32,120 she got married very well 774 00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:33,120 she got married very well 775 00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:34,120 yes 776 00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:35,120 she has been working for a long time 777 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:36,120 she has been working for a long time 778 00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:37,120 all three mothers earn their daughters 779 00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:40,120 she must have saved a lot for her daughters wedding 780 00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:41,120 whatever it is 781 00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:43,120 her daughter is very lucky 782 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:44,120 she got such a good husband 783 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:45,120 and her in-laws 784 00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:47,120 they look like family people 785 00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:49,120 by the way 786 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,120 what jewelry did she give to her daughter? 787 00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:54,120 she must have given something to her in-laws as well 788 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:56,120 I don't know 789 00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:58,120 what did she give to her daughter 790 00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,120 and what did her in-laws give her 791 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,120 but she was wearing a very nice jewelry 792 00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:06,120 no one gave us any advice 793 00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:07,120 no one gave us any advice 794 00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:09,120 I was her step mother 795 00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:12,120 she didn't include her own father in anything 796 00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:15,120 I don't know this 797 00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,120 but brother Murtaza should have gone to the wedding 798 00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:22,120 it's not good that a father isn't present at the daughter's wedding 799 00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:24,120 it's not good that a father isn't present at the daughter's wedding 800 00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:26,120 the whole neighborhood was talking about it 801 00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,120 what's the problem with the neighbors? 802 00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:30,120 when a father's wish wasn't included in the proposal 803 00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,120 then what would he do after going to the wedding? 804 00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,120 but Nikar, this isn't a good thing 805 00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:39,120 anyways 806 00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,120 now see, this is Murtaza's wish 807 00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,120 I can't compel him 808 00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:46,120 but you could have made him understand 809 00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:49,120 anyways, leave it 810 00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:51,120 the wedding will take place anyways 811 00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:53,120 who stops the wedding without the father's permission? 812 00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:54,120 look! 813 00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:56,120 it doesn't stop if someone is there or not 814 00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:58,120 the wedding was supposed to take place anyway 815 00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:00,120 but if it's left, then 816 00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,120 sorrow, sadness and complaints 817 00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,120 even you can understand this 818 00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,120 what can I do? 819 00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,120 hello! 820 00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:22,120 what are you doing? where were you? 821 00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,120 I was calling you since so long 822 00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:26,120 yes, I know 823 00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,120 actually I was a bit busy, that's why I couldn't attend your call 824 00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:30,120 busy? 825 00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:33,120 then being busy means that you should stop taking my calls 826 00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:35,120 just understand this 827 00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:37,120 oh really! 828 00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:40,120 yes, I had gone to the concert 829 00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:42,120 and you know that you get late for the concert 830 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:45,120 anyways, I can't sit at home on weekends 831 00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:48,120 but Asmara, it's very late 832 00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:51,120 it wasn't that late anyways 833 00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:53,120 anyways, do you know that after the concert 834 00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:55,120 all of us went to the seaside together 835 00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:57,120 Nofil was there, everybody was there 836 00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:59,120 so I couldn't just get out of it 837 00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:00,120 you went to Nofil's house? 838 00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:01,120 yes 839 00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,120 it was Nofil, Zia, Sameera 840 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:04,120 there were a bunch of us 841 00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:07,120 it was so much fun, Zaroon! you should have been there 842 00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:11,120 if it was so important to go to the concert 843 00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,120 then why didn't you go with your friends? 844 00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:16,120 Zaroon, is he also my friend? 845 00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:19,120 I'm talking about your girlfriends, Asmara 846 00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,120 Zaroon 847 00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:25,120 don't lecture me like this in the Lahore academy 848 00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:28,120 you know that Nofil and Zia are my very good friends 849 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,120 in fact, they are my childhood friends 850 00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:32,120 there is nothing wrong in hanging out with them 851 00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:36,120 Asmara, I'm not arguing with you to go out with your friends 852 00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:42,120 I'm arguing with you to spend the night with the boys at every place 853 00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:45,120 what do you mean by every place? 854 00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:48,120 we were in a public place, we were at the seaside, for God's sake 855 00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:50,120 I know that you went to the seaside 856 00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:54,120 but at 2 o'clock in the night, with Nofil? 857 00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:57,120 and he must have brought beer along with his friends 858 00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:58,120 you were drinking, right? 859 00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:00,120 no, there isn't any such thing 860 00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:03,120 and even if you were drinking, it's their personal matters, none of my business 861 00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:06,120 I have no interest in Nofil's personal matters 862 00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:09,120 if I have any concern, then it's with my fiancé 863 00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:12,120 Amir, I have the complete right to refuse you 864 00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:14,120 I'm sorry 865 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:16,120 but I take my own decisions 866 00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:19,120 and I don't have the right to do as you are saying 867 00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:24,120 anyways Asmara, the bottom line is that I don't like you going out with the boys late at night 868 00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:27,120 okay Zaroon, you don't like it 869 00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:28,120 but I like it 870 00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:31,120 and this is my life and I make rules for myself, do you hear that? 871 00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:33,120 good night 872 00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:41,120 Thank you