life
you did so good by giving a shut up call to him
from now on, you will bow down so much in front of him, he will keep hiding you for the rest of your life
mom
what mom?
I am saying right, how dare he speak to her like that?
the jewelry that you had kept for our wedding, you can sell it
child, I don't have that much jewelry
do you have a little?
yes, I do have a little
but at least, two years of Shanila's life will pass
and in that time, God willing, something will happen to my job
I had asked you to go for just two to three days
I didn't ask you to send me away forever
which marriage are they sending you after getting married?
they are sending you for studies
look child, I am satisfied with your result
I have seen you working hard, but if your result doesn't come out as expected, then it's not important
the boy is very nice, child
Agha Khan is working in the university
he will go out immediately after marriage for residency
I am thinking, how Halima will take care of our Sidra
you know, Halima's habits and the atmosphere of her house is so nice
I had sent Sabahat to talk to him
did you tell Sidra?
no, I thought to tell you first, then I will tell Sidra
you didn't need to tell me, mom
you should have told this to Sidra
no child, it was very important to tell you
because first, I want to get you married
mom, I don't want to get married
so, don't talk about my marriage
you want to get Sidra married, then do it, I don't have any objection
my relation is very good
even though I didn't want to, I was forced to take it seriously
usually, it doesn't happen that the first proposal comes and the girl's family agrees
maybe, because she is my friend's son
Halima has sent a message that she doesn't need any dowry
but still, I was thinking
even if she doesn't ask for dowry, but we will have to spend on the marriage
and nowadays, we spend a lot
how will I fulfill it?
the dowry that you had invested on Shanila's studies
now, I don't have any money
I am thinking, I will talk to your father
I will tell him about the proposal
I am sure that he will give me some expenses on his daughter's wedding
isn't it?
yes
you can call father
but I am telling you from the beginning
father talks a lot
but practically, nothing
if I have to get Sidra married for 6 to 8 months, then I won't test my CSS this year
I will get a job
no, I have got good offers from some places
I can help you a little
Sidra will get married
yes, but still
I pray that your father realizes his responsibility
hello!
you don't have any time for me at all, Zaroor
you already know
what has happened to me because of my studies
from where should I find time to talk to you or to roam around with you?
it comes from finding time
right now, you are just doing CSS
you have the ghost on your head
what will happen to me when you will start working?
I have to complete one assignment
and then I have to complete two more in the morning
that's why I have to go
okay?
good night
the family is very nice
I know Haleema very well
I don't know about the boy
should I find out about him as well?
yes
it is very important to find out about the boy
because only the family
the proposal can't be fixed just by looking at it
no, we won't do it like this
why are you worrying? I told you that I will find out
by the way
Haleema was telling me that
those people
are not asking for dowry
because when the elder son got married
he didn't ask anything from his in laws
this is a very good thing
he will get married for free
he won't get married for free, Mr. Murtaza
it is the daughter's wedding
the clothes, the jewelry
the expenses, all of this has to be done
what is the need to buy jewelry?
you have a lot of jewelry
give some to that Idra
I don't have anything called jewelry
what do you mean you don't have anything called jewelry?
where did you get so much jewelry?
mom and dad gave you a lot of good jewelry
when you got married again
you took the jewelry from me
you took a little too much
the rest was with you
so where did it go?
in all these years
there were many times
when I needed money
so
I sold that jewelry and completed the expenses
this is amazing
this is the limit
you sold the jewelry
and didn't ask me or tell me
but
it was my jewelry
what was the need to ask you?
and
what expenses did I spend on myself?
I spent on my daughters
daughters also have to explain other things
daughters are told that they have to go to the next house tomorrow
and their father is not a millionaire
when am I talking about the jewelry worth millions?
I am only asking for the expenses
so that
my daughter gets married with respect
I always tried to make you understand
that there is no need to get so much education
when would you have listened to me?
you were possessed
the school should be very good
the college should be very good
there should be a good degree
now that you have got the degree
then send it to the next house
that's it
I even told mother not to talk to him
she started this nonsense of marriage
where will we get married?
the jewelry was good
so I sold it
I sold all the jewelry
if it would have been there today
then it would have been useful for the girls
this is the money that I have spent on their education
if I had saved that money then it would have been useful for them
but I couldn't get them enrolled
and make them sit at home
right, Murtaza?
they had to study further
and only I didn't spend on them
but they also helped
they worked hard, they taught tuitions
they fulfilled their expenses
they paid their fees
what are you doing?
if they can pay their fees for their education
then they can also pay for their marriage
then ask them to pay themselves
when I don't have to accept any favor
then what is the need for me to do anything?
all my life
I didn't ask you for anything
I never insisted
but being a father
you also have responsibilities
not only my daughters
you also have children
I have fulfilled a lot of responsibilities
Rafia
a lot of responsibilities
now if someone doesn't accept
then I can't do anything
I don't know
you people think that I have some treasure
I will keep taking out money from it
and keep giving it
this doesn't happen
and it isn't like that
I have only one salary
I don't know how I would have spent it
oh God, if I had money
then I would have never accepted you
I would have done everything myself
if you don't have the ability
then what is the need to get married now
we will do it when we have
stop the marriage
you don't listen to anything
we have married one daughter to our brother
one daughter
the whole family stands with me
what would have happened if I wasn't alone like this?
I don't want the whole family
I need you
I need the help
of my daughters father
as much as they are my daughters
they are also your daughters
they are your children
mother, why do you call father for every work again and again?
child, a matter like marriage
can't happen without your father's advice and help
you have asked him for advice
and also asked him for help
now you know what you can get from him
but
I don't know
what you can get from him
I don't know
but
but I don't have any hope
from anyone other than your father
what did you get by
tying your hopes with him?
then what should I do, child?
I am very worried now
mother, don't worry
I have decided that this year I won't give my
CSS exam
I will work somewhere
and you decide Sidra's proposal there
we will put a committee somewhere
we will borrow from somewhere
but whatever happens
we will get so much money
that we can get Sidra married
God willing
Kashf, tell mother
I won't get married
why? why are you getting worried?
I am worried
I don't want to get married with the money
and I also don't want that
other people face more problems because of me
who are the others?
what kind of problems?
you and mother
I don't want that
you leave your career and start saving money
even if I say this
I won't do any favor to you
you have to give the CSS exam
you give that
leave me right now
your career is very important
this exam is very important
my marriage will be done
then my exams will also be done
I will give it next year
and if it doesn't happen next year
then I will give it next year
look, mother is right
this is a very good proposal
if a daughter's marriage will be done in a good place
then mother will face a lot of problems
and for this one daughter's marriage
everyone has to face so many problems
I have to face so many problems
about the debts
about the new committees
I don't like this at all
nobody likes these things
we are helpless
but you don't think about these things
this is not your headache
how is it not my headache?
should I become like father?
should I cover my eyes?
should I become shameless?
for God's sake don't start crying
look
if you know about father's shamelessness
then why do you cry?
no father in this world is like this, Kashf
then in this respect
maybe father has created a new example in this world
do you think about this now?
doesn't it hurt?
no
don't lie
if you can't listen to a lie
then why do you ask?
is being a daughter such a big sin?
my heart wants
that I should go to father
and ask him
that if we were so disliked
then why did he give birth to us?
and if he gave birth
then why didn't he beat us as soon as he did?
he has been beating us for so many years
little by little
by scolding us
at least
we can't complain to him
that why he is not beating us
okay
excellent
very good
Kashf
you don't worry at all
in a week or so
I will arrange for your job
thank you sir
nobody can ignore this
yes but sir
you won't get a job only on CV
you need references as well
relax
references will also be there
tell me, did you eat?
I didn't feel hungry sir
oh! look
not feeling hungry
is a bigger problem
than unemployment
so you
will eat with me today
okay?
yes
good
sacrifices
sometimes it feels like
life for us
is just a name for
small small joys
for the basic necessities of life
we have to suffer for everything
we have to suffer
I think
why has God made our life
so difficult for us?
I keep thinking
I keep asking
but the answer
is nowhere to be found
yes
here you go
thank you
oh!
it's Abrahar's call
say hi to him
you can put it in
he has left for work
hello!
yes Abrahar
how are you?
I am fine
we were having tea
my son is saying hi to me
yes
yes tell me
okay
so there are some vacancies
in Mr. Subban's firm
yes
okay
yes, yes
I will give you my reference
no problem
okay
yes, we will talk later
okay
bye!
is everything fine?
he has a student
he wanted my reference
he said she is a very like girl
and her class value is also good
really?
what is her name?
I didn't tell her
son, give me this biscuit
leave the biscuits, have tea
yes, yes
thank you
mom, its a very good job
you will get a package of 50 plus
and they will give the conveyance as well
really?
thank God!
you have given such a good news, son
God is very merciful and kind
son, I had asked for a lot of blessings
sir, Abrahan has helped me a lot, mom
he has given me a reference
I didn't get a job because of him
otherwise, I wouldn't have got a job so soon
thank God!
thank you so much, son
did you talk to aunty Hanima?
yes, I did talk to her
I agreed but she was saying that
what is the use of getting married
get your daughter married in two dresses
I said to her that how is this possible?
she is my daughter, how can I get her married?
there is nothing called worldly
I have put a committee on your request, son
but I was thinking a lot about how I will pay the money
now that you have given me this news
I feel so relieved, son
God is so merciful and kind
how He makes the sky
and opens the doors of the sky
yes, He gives risks
but for this, He makes life a path of thorns
yes, Zahroon
how are the exams?
the exams are good, uncle
I am just waiting for the written score
I hope that it will also be good
good!
and listen, stop this wandering
and stay away from this bad music
take it easy and clear the CSS
and then put this bad music in the ears of the public
what did you say just now?
what did I say?
brother, you did not do good by calling it bad
really?
now you are taking his side
you yourself will say that I take his side
dad, I did not ask you to take the officer's side
it is a good and special business
and you are taking this officer's side for no reason
brother, I am fond of living a dull and boring life like you people
hello!
yes, there should be thrill and excitement in life
which is not there in your life at all
I know very well that you have your thrill and excitement
yes
and you have also ended that by getting me engaged
brother, you have not seen Asmara for a long time
where is she?
I had not asked her to come
otherwise, she was not interested in studies
oh wow! Junaid
brother, the child has grown up
he has grown up a lot
ha ha ha
hello mom
hello son
where were you?
it is almost evening
mom, actually
I was sitting at Usna's house
I didn't get to know about the time
what is the matter, son?
what happened?
what do I have to do, mom?
no, something has happened
when I had gone from home, she was happy
now, she is upset
I had passed by dad's house
he has made a very nice house
so?
dad, you can spend so much money on your house
do you know?
for my marriage, he has an empty house
by the way, I don't have any interest in his money
I don't want him to spend any money on his marriage
I don't want any charity from him
so, I don't want him to come to my marriage
when I can spend my whole life without him
then, marriage can also happen without him
what was the need to pass by his house, son?
she would have gone straight and come back
at least, I wouldn't have to pass by
and what is the use of passing by anyway?
here you go
your shirts are ready
oh! thanks mom, I had forgotten
okay
leave it, let me help you
thank you
by the way, I don't understand
why you are wearing this shirt
it's not my shirt
it's my friend's shirt
I don't know
you don't know?
I don't know
by the way, I don't understand
yes
what are you going to do by leaving your own business and everything else?
you can think that I am going to ruin my own interest
and please, don't pass these tantric remarks like Asmara after this
she also says the same
there is only one thing on her tongue today
since the time I have passed the exam
she is saying the same thing
you are doing wrong, you are doing wrong, you are doing wrong
she is right, Bazar
you don't have the temperament of a job seeker
anyways, time will tell
you have always seen a very easy life
you don't know, what are the headaches of doing a job, what are the hustles
okay, I will see
and you will live in Lahore after going there
won't we get upset without you?
I guess, you can call that karma
when I used to be at home and you used to be outside
then I used to miss you
when I will leave, then you will miss me
distance makes the heart fonder
have you started taunting me?
don't stop even before leaving
move aside, how are you keeping it?
you are so disorganized
let's keep it this way
you have already done your job
come on
let's go
mom, couldn't it have been a better card?
why dear?
it could have been better, but then it would have been a waste of money
anyways, people read the invitation card once and then throw it in the trash
still, what would have happened if you had spent some more money?
it is good as it is
why should we waste more money?
even if we saved it, then how much money will we save?
a few hundred rupees?
you can say it, sister
you have such a good job
we can also say something about it
if it is a job, then why should I waste it?
why don't you waste it, dear?
all the arrangements for your sister's wedding
still mom, if there was some more time
it could have been better
whatever is happening is the same
anyways, how much money is spent on this wedding?
it doesn't matter, thank God
our respect is still there
I used to wake up the whole night, that how will we arrange for the wedding?
anyways mom, will you call dad?
yes, why not?
he is your father
how can we get married without him?
mom, if we can get married without his money
then we can also get married without his presence
look dear
we have to do a lot to show the world
if our father won't be there
then people will question us a lot
yes mom, because this is the work of the society
that instead of reminding us about our father's responsibilities
we should insist on his presence in the wedding group photo
mom, you won't go to his house to give the card
just inform him on the phone
tell him
if he has to come, then he will come
anyways, we won't pray to him for his presence in the wedding
it's been so many months
dad didn't even asked once
that what are the arrangements for the wedding
do we have to do anything?
and now you
you are trying to convince him
that for God's sake, he should attend the wedding
that he should marry the girl in his shadow
anyways, if you want to call him
then just call dad
there is no need to call his whole family, wife and children
especially Hammad
Hammad doesn't need an invitation anyway
if he won't come from our side
then he will come with the wedding procession
anyways
now make a list of all the guests
write me the cards
I will start distributing
this is the list
write all the names
the profession that was my ambition
but I don't know what the challenges will be
and I don't know if this profession will be ideal for me or not
but I do know that this is the beginning of an independent life and independent choices
and that this will not be the life that I have been living with my parents
I used to go from home for small trips
but now for the first time
I will go to the academy for training for almost a year
and after that I will go for more trainings
and after that I will go to Islamabad for my job
and maybe to some other country in the world
how easily a significant change comes in life
congratulations
you got an early idea to inform me
otherwise we were thinking that maybe we won't tell you on the wedding day
Murtaza must be coming right now
let's see what we have to do when he comes
whether he has to go or not
by the way I will tell you clearly
it is impossible for me and my children to come
it was my duty to invite you
as you wish
greetings
congratulations
your daughter is getting married
I have fixed the proposal
I have fixed all the other things
so then
what difference will it make whether I come or not?
she is your daughter
won't you get your daughter married by your own hands?
the way we have fixed the proposal without a father
we can get her married like this
is it necessary for a father to be a father for this formal process?
absolutely
the wedding is on the 11th
in Chandni marriage hall
I didn't invite too many people
Walima is on the 12th
in royal marriage hall
this is the time when your daughter needs you
after that she will go to America
I don't know
whether she ever needs you or not
give me permission
I will leave
bye
have you seen your husband's attitude?
tell me one thing
you didn't tell me all this
you only said that the boy is a doctor
she is saying that she is going to America
she never talks
you must have begged her a lot
no, not at all
even if for the first time in my life
I didn't beg her
you did very well
what difference will it make if my father doesn't come?
what difference will it make?
it's a bad thing, don't say that
why shouldn't he come?
I hope he comes to his senses and joins Sidra's wedding
otherwise he will be very embarrassed in front of his in-laws
Halima aunty is your friend, right?
she already knows about our situation
you can talk to her
even if she doesn't know much about it
this situation is very delicate
yes dear
but this is not our fault
we could have done what we did
now if father doesn't want him to come to the wedding
then what can we do?
what if he comes?
if God wills
come
everything is set
let me check your CT
show me
you are looking very good
the judge is here for the wedding
bye
he is not here
and he may not be at the wedding hall
it's not a new thing
get ready
everyone is waiting outside
okay
let me set the final veil
keep it like this
I have kept it like this
you didn't even ask about the wedding
I had come
I had come to give the card
just like the guests
I had given the card
why would I have gone?
but my mother and daughter had insulted me so much
on the expenses of the wedding
if you didn't want to go
then you could have told me
I wouldn't have gone either
let it be dear
you didn't have to go
if you didn't want to go
then Sajjad wouldn't have killed you
it's true that I went on Sajjad's insistence
but after reaching there
I felt that it was right for me to go
that's why all the family members had a lot of objection
no matter what
the father had to be at the daughter's wedding
it's amazing
the family members are also amazing
they are objecting
they don't know
at least you should have told me
okay
you should have said it out loud
insisted that you have to come to the wedding
you have to come in every situation
you can't have a daughter's wedding without you
she said it to me
it's not like that
I just invited her like a guest
you can come
and then she said
it's okay if you come
if you don't come
then I don't have any objection
so why would I have gone then?
okay
what can happen now?
now she has married
doing as she wishes
you are a father
she didn't ask you
I am the elder of the family
she didn't ask me for advice
now if something happens tomorrow
then I will tell her
see my wife
look
you had decided yourself
without asking anyone
that's why you should bear it yourself
okay
look brother
she leaves the elder daughter
and marries the younger one
she has left the young daughter
alone in the city
to earn
I don't know what she does
and what she doesn't do
how would we know?
whatever she says is wrong
I have a friend
whose love doesn't come down from his head
he is very strong
I don't know if I should be sad today
or happy
Sidra left the house
she got married very well
she is very lucky
she got such a good husband
she got such a good family
as her in-laws
she is always very lucky
father didn't attend the wedding
he left us alone even today
I think
if father didn't help us in any way
then what is the importance of him in our life?
the thorn that sticks in our feet
that always gives us pain
she got married very well
yes
she has been working for a long time
all three mothers earn their daughters
she must have saved a lot for her daughters wedding
whatever it is
her daughter is very lucky
she got such a good husband
and her in-laws
they look like family people
by the way
what jewelry did she give to her daughter?
she must have given something to her in-laws as well
I don't know
what did she give to her daughter
and what did her in-laws give her
but she was wearing a very nice jewelry
no one gave us any advice
I was her step mother
she didn't include her own father in anything
I don't know this
but brother Murtaza should have gone to the wedding
it's not good that a father isn't present at the daughter's wedding
the whole neighborhood was talking about it
what's the problem with the neighbors?
when a father's wish wasn't included in the proposal
then what would he do after going to the wedding?
but Nikar, this isn't a good thing
anyways
now see, this is Murtaza's wish
I can't compel him
but you could have made him understand
anyways, leave it
the wedding will take place anyways
who stops the wedding without the father's permission?
look!
it doesn't stop if someone is there or not
the wedding was supposed to take place anyway
but if it's left, then
sorrow, sadness and complaints
even you can understand this
what can I do?
hello!
what are you doing? where were you?
I was calling you since so long
yes, I know
actually I was a bit busy, that's why I couldn't attend your call
busy?
then being busy means that you should stop taking my calls
just understand this
oh really!
yes, I had gone to the concert
and you know that you get late for the concert
anyways, I can't sit at home on weekends
but Asmara, it's very late
it wasn't that late anyways
anyways, do you know that after the concert
all of us went to the seaside together
Nofil was there, everybody was there
so I couldn't just get out of it
you went to Nofil's house?
yes
it was Nofil, Zia, Sameera
there were a bunch of us
it was so much fun, Zaroon! you should have been there
if it was so important to go to the concert
then why didn't you go with your friends?
Zaroon, is he also my friend?
I'm talking about your girlfriends, Asmara
Zaroon
don't lecture me like this in the Lahore academy
you know that Nofil and Zia are my very good friends
in fact, they are my childhood friends
there is nothing wrong in hanging out with them
Asmara, I'm not arguing with you to go out with your friends
I'm arguing with you to spend the night with the boys at every place
what do you mean by every place?
we were in a public place, we were at the seaside, for God's sake
I know that you went to the seaside
but at 2 o'clock in the night, with Nofil?
and he must have brought beer along with his friends
you were drinking, right?
no, there isn't any such thing
and even if you were drinking, it's their personal matters, none of my business
I have no interest in Nofil's personal matters
if I have any concern, then it's with my fiancé
Amir, I have the complete right to refuse you
I'm sorry
but I take my own decisions
and I don't have the right to do as you are saying
anyways Asmara, the bottom line is that I don't like you going out with the boys late at night
okay Zaroon, you don't like it
but I like it
and this is my life and I make rules for myself, do you hear that?
good night
Thank you