Just tell me one thing, do you want to get married to me or not?
Honestly speaking, I haven't thought seriously about marriage, neither with you nor with anyone else
Father, when I have ended all my relations, then what is the use of sweets?
You are talking about ending your relations as if you are divorcing her
I will divorce her as well
You are singling me out
You are singling out my people
I was just...
Excuse me
Kashf sister was telling me that she is going to get some money for the assistance this week
Really?
Yes
How much will we get, dear?
I didn't ask about that, but you know how much sister is used to saving in everything
First you never commented about my clothes
Okay listen guys, what is there to argue about?
It's not an argument Usama, we are friends, we can tell each other
You don't have any right to comment on my clothes in front of everyone
Asmara, don't I have the right to explain to you?
You were explaining to me that you were insulting me in front of people
What do you mean in front of people? Usama is our friend
And what insult have I done to you in this?
Okay, Usama is our friend, but it's not right to talk about my clothes in front of anyone
Asmara, I said what I thought was wrong, I haven't committed any sin in this
And I was right, you can't wear such clothes in university
Do you even know what guys talk about later?
I wore these clothes from my house, when father didn't comment about my clothes
I don't really care what people say about my clothes, how does it matter to you?
Excuse me, what do you mean?
I don't have any right to explain anything to you
Do you know that my clothes have nothing to do with it?
I don't have any right to explain anything to you
Sajjad had gone to talk to your wife, but Rafia had the same problem
She has said a lot of wrong things to Sajjad
Hey, if I got you married again because I didn't have a son, then what sin did I commit?
By the grace of God, you have a son today
If you didn't get married again, then your son would have been yearning for Nareena
Let it be brother, I know very well how much my son and I yearn for that woman
What was the need for you to send Sajjad?
You sent him for no reason, do you want me to keep you in touch with him?
Hey, I have no interest in taking him to her for the second time
That is Sajjad's wish, I told him repeatedly to talk to her
But make your wife understand, she is not that good
What will he make her understand now? He is thinking of divorcing her
You are thinking of divorcing her?
Yes, I am thinking
What should I do?
She has become disobedient, she cannot live like this
Then if that is the case, then ask her to vacate that house
Now I want my share in that house
It has been years since your wife and daughters have lived in that house
Now give me my share in that house
There is no point in doing me a favor to your wife
I didn't like Ismara's attitude at all
What was the need for you to talk to her about clothes?
That too in front of Usama?
What wrong did I say?
What big thing did I say that made her upset?
Even if you are a girl, if you want to see her clothes, you feel bad
But you know from the beginning that she is very liberal and her lifestyle too
I am not the whole conservative
But there is a limit to everything
Women should take care of their clothes
Then she complains that she teases men
You should have seen her, she was an invitation for harassment
You could have explained this to her easily
I did explain it to her
She got angry for no reason
Come on, explain it to her after marriage
Anyway, a lot will change after marriage
I don't think so
If she has a problem with listening to me today, how will it not happen tomorrow?
Your life, your wife, to be
I mean to say to help yourself
Ahem
It would be good if mother told Sajjad like this
How dare he came to our house to talk about my proposal?
Why is he concerned about my proposal?
Have all the girls in the world died?
By the way, mother told him right
I don't think he will dare to come here
If he won't come himself, his mother will come
If she won't come, uncle will threaten
Uncle will threaten
He wants to destroy my parents' house and settle his son's house
Some people are shameless
Okay, don't take so much tension
I didn't tell you all this so that you get so worried
I feel like going to uncle's house myself
And tell him that I don't have any interest in marrying his son
That he puts this problem in someone else's throat
Okay, for God's sake, don't do this
Professor Dao is a socialist
In fact, he is not a socialist, he is a Marxist
He has the habit of endorsing everything Kashif says
Rumi, why do you argue with Kashif all the time?
I am in class, what can I do if I don't have a discussion?
Go to sleep
By the way, the points that Kashif said were valid
Look at this, Kashif's spoon
What is there to talk about the spoon?
The fact is a fact
No Usama, this is not a fact
Just because he has taken the top marks in one semester, it doesn't mean that his every point will be written on a stone
Now you will say that you are taking it at the wrong angle
Oh God guys, the exams are coming
Yes, better idea
Fatima, give me some notes
I don't understand that if Kashif's wedding will happen with Sajjad, then what will happen?
Why are you being stubborn, Rafia?
Don't you want a burden to come off my shoulders?
How is that a burden on your shoulders?
You have taken the responsibility of neither Kashif nor your other daughters all your life
So how will this burden come off your head?
Now I have not come here to argue with you
I have come here to make you understand a simple thing
If Kashif's wedding doesn't happen with Sajjad, then you will have to leave this house, Rafia
I can't do anything
Brother Wahab is asking for his share and obviously this house can be sold and given to him
Think about it
Mother, if we vacate the house, then where will we go?
Your father has done this all his life, son
He didn't even let me take a moment of peace
Now look at him, he doesn't even care where I will go with the young girls
He doesn't even care where I will go with the young girls
Mother, if father would have cared for us, then we wouldn't have spent our whole life like orphans
When he got married again, I was satisfied thinking that at least we have a roof over our heads
But now you three don't have a roof over your heads, where will I take you three?
Should we really vacate the house?
Yes dear
I can't ruin my daughter's life in return of this house
We will live the life we have been living till now
God willing something will happen dear, don't worry
What should I do?
I used to think that Kashf gets angry at father for no reason
But now I realized that Kashf is right
Father is capable enough to hate him
God has helped us dear, God will help us in future as well, you'll see
I was thinking that if you want, you can get engaged along with Sara's wedding
Both the work will be done
Dad please, let's talk about Sara's wedding right now, I don't care about my freedom
I don't understand girls and boys these days, when they talk about marriage they say that our freedom is being taken away
I have a good understanding about Asmara, I don't know what has happened these days
Nothing has happened to me, I just need some time
What? Some more time? What do you mean?
Well, I wanted to know more about Asmara so that I can decide whether we can be life partners or not
You have been friends with Asmara for so many years, do you still want to see whether she is suitable to be your life partner or not?
What is the problem in this?
There is no problem Saarul, but whatever decision you have to make, do it quickly
Look, I personally like Asmara a lot and I don't want this relationship to end because of your time
Hello, we are sitting here for Sara's wedding arrangements
Yes
You know, there was a huge difference in the percentage of the boy who came second in my class
I couldn't even imagine that I would do so well
Sir, Abrahar personally called me to his office and congratulated me, do you know that?
What is the matter? Why are you all so quiet?
Father came with a new problem
Let your sister eat her food, I had told you not to
I told you not to
Mother, what happened?
Nothing dear, eat your food, she is used to making things for no reason
Mother, please don't hide anything from me, tell me the truth
Father came and asked me to vacate the house
He asked you to vacate the house? But why?
Why?
Aunt told him to sell the house and give him his share
The whole problem started with the refusal of the proposal
Why should we leave this house? We also have a share in this house
A father gives a share in his life, when a father doesn't care about it, then where is the property and where is the share?
Why doesn't father feel ashamed?
Because he is selfish, his life ends with me taking him to my son
I have stopped studying mother, I will find a job
Not at all, you will never do this, studying is very important dear
Our situation will change only if you study
Our situation will never change, because God doesn't want our situation to change
God likes to give us pain, to test us with one thing after another
It's a bad thing dear, don't say that, everyone's situation changes in life, even ours will change
You will see how good the time will come
I don't know when our good time will come, I have been listening to it since childhood
So you refused, don't say anything in front of him
Sara, please press the button of my shirt
Have you ever seen me stitching?
I am asking you to press the button
You don't know how to do it, go and find Salma and ask her to press the button
Salma is not at home, that's why I am asking you to press the button
What is it?
Wear some other shirt my brother
This is the problem with all shirts
I don't understand why mother doesn't check the clothes when they come back from the laundry
Or should I tell her before sending them?
You take care of your things yourself, you are not a child that I and mother take care of your things
Thank you for the suggestion
I have an advice for you as well
You are getting married, learn something, at least learn to press the button
I am not so free that I learn to press the button, your wife will come when you teach her all this
I won't bring a wife who knows how to press the button
Asmara doesn't know how to press the button, she doesn't know how to hold a needle and thread a needle
I am not able to study at all today
Father must be so shameless, he is not so shameless
If he wanted to do all this with us, then we shouldn't have been born
Father didn't even think about where mother will take us
Father doesn't care about this
One problem doesn't end, then another one comes
God knows what God is punishing us for
This is not punishment
This is not punishment, this is a test for us
Why would God punish us? We haven't done anything like this
And all the tests of the world are left for us only
And there is a limit to the tests
What is it? You look worried
Me? No, I ...
Come on Kashf, you have been bothering me for so many days
I wanted to ask you but I couldn't
You must be worried about your studies, that's why you must be tensed
What is the tension about studies? What will happen if we don't pass the exams?
Oh God, did you see Asmara?
Did you see Asmara?
The style is over on her
I was looking at her heels, I just love the heels
Amazing
She is a beauty from head to toe, I'm telling you right
She is so lucky that Zarul wants to include her in his life
Lucky girl
This is not enough
I swear, attitude
Attitude works on this, whether it works on anyone or not
People who don't have their personal identity, they learn attention with the support of others
And they aren't that lucky
Why does God give everything to some people without any effort and effort?
Like Asmara, like Zarul, everything is perfect for them from the beginning to the end
Like they have every right on everything
And there are some people whom God doesn't give anything
Like me and my family
We have to work hard to spend the day of our lives like donkeys
Things called ease are not even in our imagination
We have to work hard for the basic necessities of life
We have to swing between hope and despair for 24 hours
We have to work hard for the basic necessities of life
There is no certainty in our life between hope and despair
God has done a lot of injustice by creating people like us among people like Asmara and Zarul
Or by creating Asmara and Zarul in front of people like us
Hmm, come in
Where are you getting ready to go?
Um, there is a barbecue at Safeena's place
You also come, I'll wait, get ready
No thanks ma
You can go to your barbecue party
Besides, I'm starting to feel jealous of your party
Either it's happening at home or somewhere else
So what's your problem?
You have your own life and your own activities
I have my own life and my own interests
Mom, still you can spend some time with your family
Either you're going to NGO or on your social nights
When do you give us time?
How old are you Zarul?
Are you kids or do you need me sitting at home all day?
Hmm
When we were kids, it wasn't very different
Even then you only cared about your career or life
You never had time for us
Did you get a chance to complain today?
I didn't get a chance to complain, I'm just saying
Yes, you said it, I heard it
Do you want to talk about something else?
Is there anything else to talk about?
I'm seriously thinking
What?
That you should get married
No
Why?
Because then when you talk about stupid things
At least their subject will change
I'll meet her today at Safina's house
Asmara's mother
Good luck
Kashf?
I've heard that you and Zarul had a fight again
Why do you call a small thing that happens in class a fight?
If it's a fight then we'll consider it a fight
And why do small things happen between you and Zarul?
I just fail to understand
That's because he considers himself to be the creator of another world
He thinks that no girl can say anything to him
But he has started to flirt with girls and understand every girl of the same level
Whether he flirts with anyone or not is his personal matter
What is your issue with him?
I have no issue with him flirting or not
He can start a fight with the girls from my side
I don't care
Kashf
You have a lot of problems
Empty this house within a week
I've talked to a couple of customers to sell it
But brother, think about it
Where will I go with three girls?
That's your problem
You can go wherever you want
If your daughters wedding is not my responsibility then their leave is also not my responsibility
I'm showing this house to some people tomorrow
They'll get engaged in a week and a half and they'll want possession immediately
That's all you have
I don't know what Kashf's problem is
You have to fight with her every other day at the university
I fight with her
Does she keep repeating herself all the time?
For showing off her abilities
Senseless arguments and pointless statements
She can't say a single word in class
Then why don't your professors refuse her?
I don't know what's wrong with our professors
They think that no one except Kashf talks sense
No one talks sense
Even if I show them an encyclopedia then only they'll think Kashf is right
You shouldn't argue with her
You should ignore her
That's the best policy
And you think I don't ignore her?
In fact, what am I?
She doesn't ignore me
You don't even need to eat her grass
She just irritates me
She pretends that I'm different all the time
She has made a mosque of her dead end all the time
I don't know why you give her so much importance
And you know what? I thought that she has inferiority complex
But she doesn't have inferiority complex
She has superiority complex
She thinks that there is no one like her if her grades are good
What happened?
What are you thinking?
I'm thinking of marrying Sajjad
Are you in your senses?
I can't see mother in any more trouble
She hasn't been able to sleep for two nights
Do you think that her problem will end with this condition of yours?
And she will let you jump into the well happily?
At least with this sacrifice of mine, you people will have a roof over your head
There is no need to pray for a roof over our head
Mother has said something to these people
Something or the other will happen
What will happen?
Where will mother get the advance money for the rent?
God is the master
God is only the master of the rich
He doesn't care about us
Whether we live or die
He doesn't care about us
Ismara, why don't you try to understand that you shouldn't take girls everywhere
Why shouldn't I take girls?
This is a new era
You have separated social activities of boys and girls
Ismara, there was no girl there
There was no girl?
Someone must have taken a girl there
But I'm not that stupid to take your girlfriend or your family's daughter to a place where the crowd is not good
Anything can happen
The crowd was good for you
But that crowd was not good for me
Ismara, I don't like this habit of yours
You insist unnecessarily
When I'm telling you that I'm a man, I can roam around in any crowd
It doesn't make any difference
But when a woman is with you, it makes a difference
How double standard you are, Zaroor
You go where your heart wants you to go
And?
Fine, you have accepted my double standards
Stop arguing about this
We talk about this issue every time
What is happening to you?
You weren't like this before
Why have you become so cynical?
Cynical?
You're calling this cynicism?
Cynicism?
I thought you'd say, Zaroor you're so chauvinistic
That too
You found out about my double standards
Now think before you get married
I've thought about it
The house that Nabila told me about, I'll go and see it
I don't know how it will be
Besides, the rent has increased so much that I don't understand
How will it be complete?
Mom, you should talk to dad once again
Why doesn't he realize that we're going to leave the house?
What should I talk to him about, dear?
He doesn't even pick up my phone
What should I do? Should I step on his feet?
If I was illiterate, I would have made a lot of noise in front of his house
But I'm educated, I can't even do this
Anyways, don't worry, everything will be fine
God willing
Don't wait for me, have dinner
Okay? I'll be back in a little while
It has become so difficult to get a house on rent these days
I've been roaming around all day but still nothing has been done
If I had to vacate the house, I would have given at least four months
What can I say about this, Rafia?
This is a problem between you and brother
Because if you want time, you can talk to brother
The truth is that I have decided that I will not interfere in any of your matters
Are you the father of these girls?
Why are you making your daughters homeless from home?
If I'm a father, then why do you keep asking me to do it?
I'm not asking you to do it
It is your duty to fulfill the rights of your daughters
Oh dad, all the responsibilities are mine, I should fulfill them
It is not the duty of the girls, it is not their right
You are amazing, Rafia
Mom, stop begging
Why don't you understand?
This man is not your husband or our father
He is a selfish person
Go inside
Go inside, Kashif
You are talking about the rights of these daughters
You are talking about the rights of those who have no manners to talk to their father
I'm not asking you for any right
If I have any right, then I will leave it
I consider it my insult to beg for something from a selfish person like you
You have such a big nose
Then tell your mother not to call me again and again
You are so selfish that you should solve your own problems
I won't do it now
You won't do it now
Now I, my sister and my mother won't bother you for any work
And what else can you do besides increasing our salary?
No one will come to this house to take their relationship with this upbringing
Write this down
If marriage means that you have to live a life like a mother with a selfish person like you
Then it is my wish that no one should marry me
If you stand on your feet like a mother
Then we will also stand on our feet
I know how to live with respect even without the support of a person like you
After reading these four words, you have become so proud
You will find out the time of this
You will have to wear your shoes like your mother for the rest of your life
I will not wear my shoes like my mother
I, I will do something else with my life
You do something else
Tell your mother that she will hire you an officer
She will hire you a DC
She has a lot of approach
Ill-mannered
What was the need to congratulate your father?
What was the need?
Come inside
Why do you beg to that man?
I have been listening to him inside for an hour
If he doesn't care, then why do you keep telling him?
I can't tolerate it at all
I can't tolerate you begging in front of Sikhi
But what right do you have to talk like this in front of your father?
Does a father have the right to do this?
He can't stand on his feet like a father
He can't humiliate us like this
Instead of a child, he can be considered an animal
Don't we have a mind?
Can't we think?
Don't we have the feeling that we won't feel anything?
Look, whether your father loves his other child or not, but he loves you a lot
You are his first child
How much pain must he have gone through after hearing all this from you?
She cursed me for loving him
Does he love us?
For so many years, I have been begging in front of him for my education
Does he love us?
For so many years, I have been begging in front of him for my education
What did he do?
Money is money
He never said a word of love and courage
He never said a word of a daughter
And now you are telling us stories of his love
Enough
We are leaving this house now
Whether we find a flat in one room, we will go there
We don't want to live in this house
Mother, do you know?
Aunty is going somewhere
Where is she going?
I don't know, but she is putting all the things of her house in a car
Are you telling the truth?
Yes mother, why would I lie to you?
Go and find out where she is going
Mother please, don't put me on spies
What is there to spy in this?
There is no need to keep me informed
What is there to spy in this?
There is no need to keep me informed
What would have happened if she had stayed here?
What would we get by vacating the house?
Aren't you being too supportive of your step mother?
Are you having any problem with her leaving?
What would I have problem with mother?
Go and find out where she is going
Go
I am going
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Mother, I am very tired
My hands and feet are hurting
Don't act too much, I have done the most work
Did you hear that?
She doesn't listen to any of my contribution in this life
You three don't thank God that you found such a good house
We would have been in so much trouble
This is because of Shahida
The landlord didn't take any advance from us
And the rent is so high that we couldn't even pay it
She has left the rent as well
Move
And the previous tenants have left so many plants and stuff
They will bring something of their own and make the house a good one
We thank God
When the world closes one door, God opens a hundred doors
Thank God
You have done us a favor
This is not about God
This is all your hard work and luck
If God wanted to do something, he would have done it long ago
This is not a problem
Enough Kashif, let it be
Go and get my wallet quickly
I will go and get the food, otherwise it will be night
Mother
Should I come with you?
This is a new place, you shouldn't have any problem
What problem would I have?
And this is my work
Give it to me, I'll get it quickly
And listen, get it cleaned properly
Keep everything in place, put all the sheets and stuff in your rooms
Okay?
Come with me until I come
Get up quickly, close the door
This is a new place, we need it
Okay?
I'm going and I'll be back
Do all the work
What is life for our mother?
Even though she is a woman, she is a man all day
Our whole life, mother, father, maid, watchman, servant, washerman
She is doing all kinds of our work
Is this life?
Yes, it is not life
We don't have any option
But there should be options
I'm very grateful sir, I can't thank you enough
Please don't mention it, you are welcome anytime
Thank you sir
May I come in sir?
Yes
Okay sir, I'll leave, good bye
Good bye
Excuse me
Hmm?
Any work?
Why are you thanking me so much?
Do you have any work with me in the office?
I came to ask about her and you are asking about me
What?
Why are you so interested in that girl's activities?
Yes
And I don't understand why you give her so much favors
She is a very nice girl and I like her
Nice girl?
Hmm?
She is very clever and clever
If she is, then what is your issue?
What is your issue?
What issue do I have? What is my concern in this?
Then why are you asking?
By the way, I talked to her, I talked to her, what is the big deal in this?
Okay, you came for some work
Tell me, can't I come to you without any work?
Look, you come to me only for work in my room
I don't have as much time as you have
Useless time?
You and Sardao give so many assignments that we don't have any useless time
Really?
Yes
By the way, there is one thing
If you and dad had a woman, you two would have got a perfect marriage
By the way, Kashf is absolutely right about you
What is she saying?