1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,440 Hi everyone, this is Saman and Sari. 2 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:08,720 Please download the Hum TV app on your phone so you can watch your favorite dramas on the go. 3 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:38,760 Every human being has some control over his life but if he wants, he can live his life according to his will. 4 00:00:39,480 --> 00:00:42,200 In this society, everything is very difficult for a woman. 5 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:46,840 She cannot do it even if she wants to. 6 00:00:49,480 --> 00:00:56,280 A woman doesn't do a lot of work thinking about what people will say and because of these people… 7 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:57,560 Who are you talking to? 8 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:10,000 I'm talking to a friend, I'll talk to you later, good bye. 9 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:13,840 Is this the time to talk on the phone? 10 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:17,040 I've been looking for you in the entire house. 11 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:20,280 Did you have any work? 12 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,800 No, you weren't in the room so I was worried about you. 13 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:27,720 What's there to worry about? 14 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:30,160 I couldn't sleep so I came here. 15 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:32,800 You should have at least told me. 16 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:41,880 Go and sleep, I'll come when I feel sleepy. 17 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:59,480 I don't believe that we are sitting in front of each other like this. 18 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:05,840 Rosh Ke Hina. 19 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:26,800 Copyright© OSHO International Foundation 20 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:28,800 www.OSHO.com 21 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:30,800 www.OSHO.com 22 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:56,800 Copyright© OSHO International Foundation 23 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:58,800 www.OSHO.com 24 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:17,520 What's the matter? Why aren't you eating? 25 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:20,200 I'm eating. 26 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:21,040 Here you go. 27 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,560 Make your favorite biryani, Shaukat. 28 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:26,960 Eat it properly. 29 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:28,720 Hmm. 30 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:31,480 Is there a problem? 31 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:36,960 No. 32 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:40,600 I just have a headache. 33 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,880 Okay fine, I'll make tea for you after dinner. 34 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:47,880 Give me a headache pill as well. 35 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:55,520 I've been awake all night because of him, I'm feeling very unwell. 36 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:58,320 Why? Why didn't you sleep? 37 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:00,240 I was watching a movie. 38 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:02,880 Is that a problem as well? 39 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:06,720 Papa, why are you taking us to the park? 40 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:09,240 Didn't you hear? Papa is unwell. 41 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:15,760 I'll be fine by evening so I'll take you there. 42 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:16,600 Okay. 43 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:19,920 Where is Farida? 44 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:22,880 She must be in her room as well. 45 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:26,880 Mama, she must be writing something. 46 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:30,800 Then ask Ayesha to bring her food to her room. 47 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,560 When she's writing, she doesn't get the mood to eat or drink. 48 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:36,320 Okay, I'll tell her. 49 00:04:40,840 --> 00:04:41,520 Why? 50 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:43,800 Is she a VIP? 51 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:48,160 She's the VIP of this house now. 52 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:50,160 She's the VIP of this house now. 53 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:24,840 I am sorry mama. 54 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:39,200 She's not picking up the phone. 55 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:41,880 If she was free, she would have done it. 56 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:45,840 She is doing thousands ofわ сing things add to her worries. 57 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:51,160 Really? Did you find him? 58 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:52,160 Yes. 59 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:55,160 I met him in the shopping mall all of a sudden. 60 00:05:57,160 --> 00:06:00,160 Is he waiting for you or did he get married? 61 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,160 He got married and he has a son. 62 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:09,160 Hmm. 63 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:13,160 He must have changed a lot. 64 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:16,160 He must have changed a lot. 65 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:21,160 No, not much. 66 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:24,160 It is a coincidence that you people met like this. 67 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:27,160 Yes. 68 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:31,160 But why did this coincidence have to happen after so many years? 69 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:35,160 This is all a game of fate, Farida. 70 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:39,160 If it was in your fate, you would have got it earlier. 71 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:40,160 Hmm. 72 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:41,160 Hmm. 73 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:47,160 Now you think how stupid I was that I didn't meet him. 74 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:52,160 You know, there is an age when a person's complexes are overpowering him. 75 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:57,160 And when time passes, these things start to be understood. 76 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,160 Okay, tell me, did you talk to him? 77 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:03,160 Did you sit somewhere and have tea? 78 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:06,160 Yes. 79 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:09,160 We talked a lot. 80 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:13,160 His voice is still beautiful. 81 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:16,160 He talks like this on his heart. 82 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:22,160 Farida, it is fine as far as the matter is concerned, 83 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:27,160 but don't give such old feelings a new place. 84 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:30,160 Anyway, time has passed now. 85 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:32,160 Hmm. 86 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:35,160 I know. 87 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:36,160 I know. 88 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:41,160 There are some chances in life that you get them only once. 89 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:50,160 But a person keeps waiting for them. 90 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:55,160 God has given you so much, respect, wealth, fame. 91 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,160 What if you don't get love? 92 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:00,160 You have everything else, right? 93 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:10,160 If I didn't get all this and only got one love, 94 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:12,160 then I would have been happy. 95 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:15,160 You cannot be happy just because of love. 96 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:17,160 Forget those things. 97 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:19,160 Your life has gone a long way. 98 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:23,160 You are right. 99 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:27,160 I met him coincidentally. 100 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:31,160 Otherwise, he is just a memory for me. 101 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:35,160 Let him not remember, just forget him. 102 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:47,160 Its really difficult to forget some people in life, 103 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:53,160 and if they are remembered, then its difficult to live your life. 104 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:02,160 You are right. 105 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:10,160 How far have they reached? 106 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:13,160 Yes. 107 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:15,160 This is called fate. 108 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:21,160 They went from the floor to the floor and I am coming from the floor to the floor. 109 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:24,160 Don't say anything. 110 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,160 This is what happens in this world. 111 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:30,160 Sikandar did very bad with me. 112 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:32,160 Look Rida, 113 00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:35,160 please think about the future. 114 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:38,160 We have done a lot of work together. 115 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:42,160 I am ready to help you with this. 116 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:50,160 I don't know if Rashka Ena will let me be cast in her serial or not. 117 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:52,160 She will. 118 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:57,160 She understands people's helplessness. 119 00:09:58,160 --> 00:09:59,160 She is a good woman. 120 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:02,160 We will see. 121 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:04,160 I know her. 122 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:08,160 I think she got all this from nature, 123 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:10,160 as a reward. 124 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:13,160 Very nice. 125 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:34,160 You are getting ready. 126 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:36,160 Are you going? 127 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:38,160 Yes. 128 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:42,160 Where are you going? 129 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:45,160 I am invited for dinner. 130 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:49,160 Who invited you? 131 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:52,160 I have some friends. 132 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:59,160 I have told Ayesha, 133 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,160 but if you are at home, 134 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:03,160 then I will take some time. 135 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:30,160 I will take some time. 136 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:53,160 Doctor, 137 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:56,160 where is Fareeda? 138 00:11:57,160 --> 00:11:59,160 She had to go for dinner. 139 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:01,160 Okay. 140 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:16,160 What happened to you? 141 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:18,160 What are you thinking? 142 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:24,160 Fareeda's behavior is strange these days. 143 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:26,160 Strange? 144 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:28,160 What do you mean? 145 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:30,160 Mama, 146 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:33,160 she doesn't give me a lift, 147 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:36,160 she is always on her phone. 148 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:42,160 She looks at me as if I am a stranger. 149 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:44,160 What is wrong with you? 150 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:46,160 You must have a misunderstanding. 151 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:47,160 Yes mama, 152 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:49,160 Shaukat is right. 153 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:50,160 He is right. 154 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:56,160 Fareeda's behavior seems strange to me as well. 155 00:12:57,160 --> 00:12:58,160 She has grown up. 156 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:00,160 She will show her attitude. 157 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:05,160 Speak up. 158 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:16,160 You are not eating properly. 159 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:18,160 I am eating. 160 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:20,160 Are you on a diet? 161 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:22,160 No. 162 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:24,160 I am eating. 163 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:26,160 Seriously, 164 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:29,160 no one can tell you that you are the mother of two children. 165 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:32,160 I know this very well. 166 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:35,160 Men are used to praising women. 167 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:37,160 Well, 168 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:40,160 not every woman is praised. 169 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:42,160 Really? 170 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:47,160 Roshkina, 171 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:50,160 I wanted to talk to you. 172 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:53,160 Go ahead. 173 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:55,160 I am listening. 174 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:06,160 I have been waiting for you for years. 175 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:10,160 I have been looking for you a lot. 176 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:17,160 As time went by, my love for you increased. 177 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:21,160 And then I lost control. 178 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:30,160 Now that I have met you, I feel like I am alive again. 179 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:35,160 We, 180 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:36,160 I mean, 181 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:38,160 the two of us, 182 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:39,160 the two of us, 183 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:45,160 can spend a beautiful life together. 184 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:48,160 How is that possible? 185 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:52,160 Nothing is impossible. 186 00:14:58,160 --> 00:14:59,160 Roshkina, 187 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:04,160 will you marry me? 188 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:09,160 Speak up. 189 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:15,160 Will you marry me? 190 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:41,160 I have been waiting for you for years. 191 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:46,160 Now that I have met you, I feel like I am alive again. 192 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:48,160 The two of us, 193 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:52,160 we can spend a beautiful life together. 194 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:55,160 Roshkina, you, 195 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:00,160 will you marry me? 196 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:03,160 Will you marry me? 197 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:05,160 Will you marry me? 198 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:11,160 What Sheheryar said today, 199 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:14,160 can it really be true? 200 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:19,160 Can Sheheryar and I be together again? 201 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:24,160 Can life be beautiful again? 202 00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:30,160 Can someone really go to heaven from hell? 203 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:36,160 In this age of age, 204 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:40,160 can I really find a prince? 205 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:43,160 You are really late today. 206 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:46,160 Can my fate change? 207 00:16:49,160 --> 00:16:51,160 Or can the bond of helplessness break? 208 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:54,160 Dinner is ready. 209 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:06,160 I am talking to you, Farida. 210 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:12,160 Farida, answer me. 211 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:28,160 Hello. 212 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:29,160 Hello. 213 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,160 Did a jinn kiss you? 214 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:37,160 Farida. 215 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:41,160 Farida. 216 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:48,160 Divorce me. 217 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:53,160 What? 218 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:01,160 Are you in your senses? Yes. 219 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:05,160 I don't want to live with you now. 220 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:11,160 Leave me. 221 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:17,160 What? 222 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:19,160 What are you saying? 223 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:22,160 How can you do this, Farida? 224 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:24,160 I am telling the truth. 225 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:26,160 I used to say, 226 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:28,160 I used to say, 227 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:30,160 I used to say, stop your actions. 228 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:34,160 So that Farida's goodness doesn't turn into evil. 229 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:36,160 I am the one who was scared of her. 230 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:39,160 I am fed up with her. 231 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:41,160 She was fed up with you. 232 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:46,160 What will happen? 233 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:48,160 We will be thrown out of this home. 234 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:50,160 My old brother will be left. 235 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:55,160 Mama, 236 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:59,160 that means he has never forgiven us from his heart. 237 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:07,160 And he has never accepted me from his heart either. 238 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:09,160 Hey, you didn't keep him happy. 239 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:17,160 What are you saying, mama? 240 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:22,160 The one who always made me understand, 241 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:26,160 that keep your wife on the tip of your shoe. 242 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:32,160 Let her climb on her head, 243 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:34,160 keep her on her position. 244 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:39,160 Keep her on the edge. 245 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:45,160 You are the one who is saying that I didn't keep her happy. 246 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:51,160 Wow mama. 247 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:54,160 Shaukat. 248 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:55,160 Move. 249 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:57,160 Listen to me. 250 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:03,160 Mama, 251 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:05,160 why don't you talk to uncle? 252 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:08,160 We will find a solution. 253 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:12,160 Yes, 254 00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:14,160 I will. 255 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:17,160 I will talk to Anwar. 256 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:18,160 I will talk to him. 257 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:24,160 I got so upset hearing all this, what do I say? 258 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:27,160 We didn't expect this from you, Farida. 259 00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:29,160 What will the world say? 260 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:31,160 People will make up a lot of things. 261 00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,160 People have a habit of making up things. 262 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:34,160 But still, 263 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:36,160 we have a respect, 264 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:40,160 and respect is like life, which you don't get again and again. 265 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:45,160 Hey, a second marriage is a taunt for a woman, a curse. 266 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:46,160 Why mama? 267 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:48,160 Why is that? 268 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:51,160 It is a matter of pride for a man to marry a second woman. 269 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:52,160 Why a curse for a woman? 270 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:54,160 Don't talk nonsense, Farida. 271 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:57,160 Mama, I am not happy with Shaukat. 272 00:20:58,160 --> 00:21:00,160 He has not changed in so many years. 273 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,160 You people know well about his character. 274 00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:04,160 Hey, we will make him understand. 275 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:06,160 He will not do such things again. 276 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,160 He will understand, child. 277 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:13,160 Maybe he will understand, 278 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:14,160 but I will not understand now. 279 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:16,160 Farida, 280 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:17,160 don't be stubborn. 281 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:20,160 Settling a home and spoiling it is not a child's game. 282 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,160 I listened to you once. 283 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,160 I married Shaukat to your request. 284 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:26,160 What did I get? 285 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:29,160 One wrong decision ruined my life. 286 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:32,160 If fate is giving me a chance to live my life today, 287 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:34,160 then why should I give them this chance? 288 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:48,160 I know that everyone is against you, 289 00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:51,160 but I will support you. 290 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:55,160 And I will be with you in every matter. 291 00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:59,160 Brother Shaukat, you are really not capable enough to waste your life with them. 292 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:01,160 Will you support me? 293 00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:02,160 Yes. 294 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:06,160 I want you to start your dream life again. 295 00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:12,160 Now you have to live your life. 296 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:15,160 Now even your dreams don't come true. 297 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,160 My dreams are gone. 298 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:21,160 But you can bring those dreams back to life. 299 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:24,160 You had a lot of dreams in your life, right? 300 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:31,160 Yes. 301 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:33,160 Yes. 302 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:36,160 But I have found out, 303 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:39,160 those who dream don't get anything. 304 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:42,160 Those who dream don't get anything. 305 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,160 Don't think like that, please. 306 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,160 Nothing has been lost yet. 307 00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:52,160 And I am sure that your dreams will be true. 308 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,160 I am really hurt by the behavior of my own people. 309 00:22:57,160 --> 00:23:00,160 Its not their fault, its the society's fault. 310 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:04,160 There is a big contradiction in the behavior of our lives. 311 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:07,160 We talk about religion, 312 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:10,160 but we are afraid of society. 313 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:15,160 You don't worry. 314 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:17,160 Everything will be fine. 315 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:32,160 All my life, 316 00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:36,160 you have been taunting me for that person all my life. 317 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:41,160 If you want to marry me today, then what is your problem? 318 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:43,160 Farida. 319 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:47,160 Farida. 320 00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:52,160 Forgive me. 321 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:55,160 I know, 322 00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:57,160 I have made a lot of mistakes, 323 00:23:58,160 --> 00:23:59,160 you are really hurt. 324 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:02,160 But, 325 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:04,160 but forgive me. 326 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:11,160 Think about our children. The children are with me. 327 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:14,160 Bahad, 328 00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:16,160 Bahad is no more without me. 329 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:17,160 How will you keep Bahad? 330 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:19,160 I am his father. 331 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:24,160 You know that after seven years, a son is with his father. 332 00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:27,160 And, 333 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:32,160 and how will you keep Suriya with a stranger? 334 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:35,160 He will never be able to take my place. 335 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:37,160 He will never be able to take my place. 336 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,160 He is a big burden for him. 337 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:42,160 Look, 338 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:46,160 look, I don't want to break my home. 339 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:51,160 Farida, I love you a lot. 340 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:56,160 Your love has given me nothing but pain all my life. 341 00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:02,160 You were always busy with papers, 342 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:08,160 but I know that all this was for the happiness of my family. 343 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,160 I was lost, Farida. 344 00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:14,160 I didn't understand you. 345 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:19,160 You never asked me for anything, you didn't even ask for your right. 346 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:25,160 And I became careless. 347 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:26,160 I became careless. 348 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:32,160 A woman's silence has her tongue. 349 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:36,160 Everyone should understand her. 350 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:44,160 You have realized your mistakes, Farida. 351 00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:46,160 Please. 352 00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:48,160 Please. 353 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:51,160 Forgive me. 354 00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:56,160 Forgive me. 355 00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,160 The time of forgiveness has passed, Shakir. 356 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:07,160 Its really late. 357 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:11,160 Farida, you know that after seven years, a son lives with his father. 358 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:16,160 How will you keep Suriya with a stranger? 359 00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:19,160 She is a big burden for him. 360 00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:22,160 Farida, 361 00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:24,160 Farida, 362 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:26,160 Farida, 363 00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:28,160 Farida, 364 00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:30,160 Farida, 365 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:32,160 Farida, 366 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:34,160 Farida, 367 00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:36,160 Farida, 368 00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:40,160 Farida, 369 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:55,160 Shafa. 370 00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:58,160 Everyone is going behind you. 371 00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:00,160 Everyone is going, 372 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:10,160 What are you doing my child? 373 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:16,160 Wad? 374 00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:18,160 Come here. 375 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:20,160 Please. 376 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:22,160 My child. 377 00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:25,160 Mama? 378 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:27,160 Yes? 379 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:28,160 You are crying. 380 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:30,160 No. 381 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:32,160 Did you fight with papa? 382 00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:42,160 Do you like papa? 383 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:45,160 No, he is our papa. 384 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:54,160 What if your papa goes away from you? 385 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:57,160 Then who will play racing with me? 386 00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:01,160 Who will take us to the park? 387 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:04,160 Who will play games with us? 388 00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,160 All this is not that easy. 389 00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:12,160 It is not that difficult. 390 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,160 My children will travel. 391 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:16,160 They will not. 392 00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:21,160 I mean if you want, you can leave them with their father. 393 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,160 Otherwise you can support them financially. 394 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,160 What do you mean Shariah? 395 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:30,160 I mean it is your wish. 396 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,160 Whatever decision you make regarding your children, 397 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:36,160 I will be okay with it. 398 00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:38,160 I cannot leave my children. 399 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:41,160 Fine. 400 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,160 They will stay with us. 401 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:47,160 What about your son? 402 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:49,160 He will also stay with us. 403 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,160 Won't his mother miss him? 404 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,160 Yes, but what can happen now? 405 00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:00,160 And he is more than seven years old. 406 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:03,160 Legally, he will stay with me. 407 00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:12,160 What happened? 408 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,160 Why did you keep quiet? 409 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:18,160 I am thinking. 410 00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:21,160 Don't think so much. 411 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:25,160 It is in your hands to decide your life. 412 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:28,160 Stop worrying about the world 413 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:31,160 and just think about your happiness. 414 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:33,160 Hmm. 415 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:36,160 We will meet somewhere. 416 00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:39,160 Then we will sit comfortably and talk. 417 00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:41,160 Fine. 418 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:44,160 Okay, take care. 419 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:46,160 Bye. 420 00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:59,160 Copyright© OSHO International Foundation 421 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:01,160 www.OSHO.com 422 00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:29,160 OSHO is a registered Trademark of OSHO International Foundation 423 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,160 www.OSHO.com 424 00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:58,160 Copyright© OSHO International Foundation, Switzerland 425 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:32,360 what should i have to do? 426 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:42,720 I have to discuss something further Mom. 427 00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:44,120 whats there to do? 428 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,000 whats there to do? 429 00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:54,280 Its so difficult persuize a girl to become a man, 430 00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,160 I'm very surprised after listening to all this. 431 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:01,360 Why? 432 00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:04,760 Didn't you think that Shazia would force me? 433 00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:07,160 Maybe I did. 434 00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,960 But I'm surprised after listening to your decision. 435 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:15,360 Shazia, 436 00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:18,560 I don't know what to do with you. 437 00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,560 I don't know what to do with you. 438 00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,560 I don't know what to do with you. 439 00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:25,760 Shazia, 440 00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:29,760 there is a big lack of love. 441 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:31,960 I agree, 442 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:36,160 but there is more need for love. 443 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:39,160 Look Farida, 444 00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:41,960 we have spent a good and bad time together, 445 00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:44,760 I will never give you a wrong suggestion. 446 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:48,760 Hmm. 447 00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,160 The time before marriage is good. 448 00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:57,160 The bad time starts after marriage. 449 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:01,760 Farida, 450 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:04,160 I can understand your condition, 451 00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,160 but when a woman becomes a mother, 452 00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:12,160 then the level of love in her life goes down the lowest. 453 00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,960 Now the first level goes to the public, 454 00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:18,560 the love of the children. 455 00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,160 The children will live with me, Shazia. 456 00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:25,160 Will Sheharyar be able to give them a love like a father? 457 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,160 Will he be able to give them a family like his son? 458 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:30,960 He will definitely try. 459 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:33,760 Sheharyar loves you, 460 00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:35,360 not your children. 461 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:37,160 He is a very good person. 462 00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:39,560 A good person doesn't take time to change. 463 00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:42,360 You are putting him in this test, 464 00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:44,360 I don't know how he will prove himself. 465 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:46,160 How is the test? 466 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:48,760 He is doing everything with so much happiness. 467 00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:49,760 He is doing everything. 468 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:54,160 Come on, let's assume that he is born with all this happiness. 469 00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:57,760 But will your children accept him as a father? 470 00:33:59,960 --> 00:34:01,760 Farida, your children are elder. 471 00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:03,760 They know who their father is. 472 00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:07,760 How can they accept him as a new father? 473 00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:10,760 They will get upset. 474 00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:13,760 You were talking about taking Shaukat Fahad. 475 00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:15,360 He is his father. 476 00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,360 He can keep his son with him after seven years. 477 00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:21,160 Farida, think about it. 478 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,560 If Fahad and Suraiyah separate from each other, 479 00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:26,160 then there will be a gap in their life forever. 480 00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:28,960 And they will blame you for that. 481 00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:33,160 What is the mood in life? 482 00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:37,960 Sheharyar has a wife. 483 00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:39,560 He has a son. 484 00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,160 Will his son accept you as a mother? 485 00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,760 As a woman, I will never give you an advice 486 00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:50,160 that you will ruin another woman's home. 487 00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:54,160 And that woman is the mother of Sheharyar's son. 488 00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:58,760 Her status is higher than yours in every respect. 489 00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,960 Sheharyar has always been more important to her. 490 00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:06,760 And look, you have a daughter too. 491 00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:10,360 Daughters are always remembered by their mother's actions. 492 00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:13,360 I will never let Suraiyah come here. 493 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:17,360 There is no importance of love in this society. 494 00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,360 People who love are called bad. 495 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:23,360 They are taunted. 496 00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:26,360 Think about it. 497 00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:30,360 How will you be the man who couldn't be of his wife? 498 00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:35,360 Farida, don't ruin your home. 499 00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:37,360 You have two children. 500 00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:41,360 A man's love is like alcohol. 501 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:44,360 It looks beautiful from a distance. 502 00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:51,360 But when it comes close, the woman finds out that she has been cheated. 503 00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,360 I don't understand what to do. 504 00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:16,360 Ah!